Thursday, July 31, 2008

Hot place for Hijacking

My opinion is Gulshan – 1 is a hot place for hijacking. I have heard about many people go captured in this place by the hijackers. Generally I try to avoid this place to go, but reality is whenever you say you don’t want to go there you have to be there frequently. Same goes for me too. To go for lunch, bank, parlor, shop I had to visit that place several times.

Wednesday, July 30, 2008

HSBC Bank service in Bangladesh

Our office has corporate account in HSBC Bank in Bangladesh. Many days I have heard that our office isn’t getting proper service from them.

Now for tax calculation I had to submit bank statement of 1 year bank transaction. Generally bank send bank statement after every 4 months by mail. I had got last mail at May. So I need statement in June too. And I had checked my previous statements I found that I don’t have last year July bank statement. In other banks you can easily get a free copy of bank statement. But in this bank you had to may 115BDT for each month’s statement. Now I need 2 month’s statement July 2007 and June 2008. But bank is charging me now 1150 BDT. Coz they are giving one year back statement. And after payment, I didn’t get the statement. They said they can’t give one year back statement in the same day. I have to come next day.

Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Love in interview

Long time ago, I was looking for a job. In a office in Uttora I got chance to join as a Java developer. In first Interview, Company owner liked me. But he wasn’t sound in Java, so asked his brother-in-law to take my second interview. He came from USA, after completion his education.
I gave my second interview. He was very nice and friendly. I couldn’t give him some answer correct. Some I didn’t know. So after the interview I couldn’t guess whether they choose me or not.
After some time they informed me that I was selected. Great achievement for me. On that time I was only 1 year experienced. I was so happy so shared my experience to my previous company colleagues. And you know what they found. He said that brother-in-law fall in love with me! No matter what I say, they get stick with their opinion. From that time, I took a good decision; I am never going to share my interview experience with my colleagues.

Thursday, July 24, 2008

False name in chat

When you chat several times you will find and feel that same guy is talking with you in different ID. I really don’t like it. But people likes it. May be this makes them feel like a invisible man. And sometimes people do it to annoy other people.

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Still I am alive

Yesterday when the bus hit our car, I thought I have gone forever. But somehow car driver slow down his speed at the last moment and bus driver give the hard break. But both have seen each other long time back, easily they could stopped themselves. But Bangladeshi tradition is unless there is no space between them; cars/bus/rickshaw will not give chance to anyone to go earlier.

Monday, July 21, 2008

Hoping for the best

I am just hoping that my child stays good. From last couple of days I am feeling very bad. I can’t think, can’t move, can’t work, and can’t concentrate on anything. So, I am gathering my energy as much as possible and thinking how to keep my child (who is growing up inside me) fine, then continue office. Rest… I have to forget now. I have no choice. I wish I could take leave for a year and have enough money to go to a beach cottage and take rest.

Thursday, July 10, 2008

Is bride’s husband house is their own house

In this sub-continent (India-pakistan-Bangladesh) woman’s go to their husband’s house after married and till death they live there. All, especially husband’s family told them the husband’s house is their actual house (so that they should work hard form this house); their parent’s house isn’t their house. But if any how they get angry with that bride, the husband’s family (especially husband himself and his mother) can easily say the girl to left their house and go back to her parent’s house. And on that time she has no right on that house not even on her things…

Wednesday, July 9, 2008

Creating budget

Creating budget is tuff when you create first time for your personal cost or company or for anything. But if you have previous budget then you can check whether that is good enough to follow or not. If not then make changes where needed and then done.

If you create a new budget then you have to consider what you usually expend for several months, at least for last 6 months. After taking the average of last few months add some extra for in case of emergency (if possible). Because you never know, average budget may coz some trouble for next months.

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

Easy with boys

It depends on culture, personality and environment. I have study in girl’s school and college. But I have also take training on dance and singing. There class was combined with boys and girls. In my local area where I lived, I also use to play with girls and boys. So I have some chance to communicate with boys. But what I found is if I want to talk with them friendly they start thinking I fall in love with them. So some start showing more interest and some run away. None of these attitudes looks healthy for me. So I stopped mixing with boys. Or just talk with them when needed.

After completion of college study I get admitted in Dhaka University. And before joining there I decided my mind that I will talk with boys and will always keep a distance. In my 5 years of University life, I always maintain this and never fall problem with boys.

Then enter my professional life. Now I became more liberal with boys. I start mixing with them not only for any work but also going out in group in different places, start talking with them over phone nicely. I mean I start behaving normal with them, but always keep some distance, physically never touch them. I am little bit religious.

Now this again starts creating situation like my child hood. Some start liking me more than colleague, some more than a friend. I tried to handle all in same way. But one thing I could understand, which I have seen in many boys, whenever they found a girl to whom they can communicate tries to make some other kind of relation, if possible tries to make physical relation and then forget about her, that she is not a good girl. But if the girl isn’t easy to get, then they stays good.

Friday, July 4, 2008

Song gets inside my head

Sometimes some song gets inside my head then every time it’s running over there, especially when I am alone or not talking with others. Yesterday on the way from office, car driver open the radio and someone request to play this Hindi song to the radio. “In dino, dil mera, mujhse ye, kehraha”.. I liked the song. I start singing in my mind with the radio. That’s it, now it’s in my mind. No matter how much I want to forget about it, it is playing in my brain.

Thursday, July 3, 2008


I think every office should have a cook in their office to provide good food for the employee. Then employees won’t be sick for taking bad food and they don’t have to invest more time and money for taking food outside from office.
Our office is taking food from a restaurant. May be good enough for all. But currently I am feeling sick after taking food from that restaurant. So, to avoid this problem, I am taking from some other source. This is another trouble. Especially in rainy season, it’s difficult to go out and take food.

Tuesday, July 1, 2008

Will it continue till….

All doctors, sisters, relatives told me that my sickness will be gone by 3 months. I start hoping that someday these 3 months will be complete and I will feel better. But may be Allah wanted something else. 3 months is over, but my situation seems same or worst. Seems vomiting, tiredness problem is increasing. I don’t know when I can get rid of these situations…. I am spending months after months with same poor condition.