What do you do, when you want something from others? Do you try to hit and grab it? Do you make the environment impossible for them, that they forced to give you the thing? If these don’t work then beg? Finally request?
I believe first you should discuss with them about the matter or situation. Then ask or request or beg to have the thing. If they deny, then come back and wait to change their mind. Or if you can’t wait then hit (if only you have right to have the thing) but you must know, hitting people isn’t a good solution. In the long run, it will bring bad effect in your life. You better wait.