Wednesday, December 31, 2014

Celebrating New Year


No matter how sad we are with our past and present. No matter how blank our future is looking. But still we are celebrating (may be by doing nothing or just watching TV or checking FB status) and giving a warm welcome to 2015. World is celebrating one day together... in their own time. Happy New Year human, lets always care humanity...

Happy new year 2015


I was thinking how was my 2014... Well this was the year of waiting.. which is going to continue to 2015. I don't know whether my waiting will give me a good result or not. But I hope and trust, it will give me very pleasant result. And I am doing nothing to achieve anything... just relying on Allah. I really have nothing to do...

Wish you all the best...

Monday, December 29, 2014

সব জায়গায় একতার চিন্তা করা উচিত না (We shouldn't want unity everywhere)


(English version has given bellow)

একতাই বল. আমিও বিশ্বাস করি. স্কুলে থাকতে একবার ভাবলাম,  আমাদের ৫তলা বিল্ডিং এর সব বাচ্চা  একসাথে কেন খেলিনা? যেই ভাবা সেই কাজ. বিকালে সব ফ্লাটে গিয়ে বাচ্চাদের দেকে নিয়ে ছাদে গেলাম। কেউ কেউ খেললো, কেউ কেউ গল্প করেই সময় কাটালো। ধীরে ধীরে বড়রাও যোগ দিতে শুরু করলো। ভাড়াটিয়ারা এক জায়গায় হলে যা হয়. বাড়ি ওয়ালাকে সায়েস্তা করার নানা প্লান করার সুযোগ পেল. দেখা গেল সবাই একসাথে নানা যন্ত্রনা শুরু করে দিল. আব্বা আমার উপর ভীষন ক্ষেপে গেলেন. আমাকে বললেন, "সমস্যা তুই শুরু করেছিস, তুই বন্ধ করবি."

আমি বন্ধ করলাম. ছাদ বন্ধ করে দিলাম. আর বিকালে কাউকে আর ডাকলাম  না. ওরা চাইলে নিজেদের ফ্লাটে মিটিং চালাতে পারতো, কিন্তু ওরাও ছাদ বন্ধ হওয়ার দু:খে সব প্লানিং বন্ধ করে দিল.

আমি বুঝলাম। সব জায়গায়, বিশেষ করে ভাড়াটিয়াদের নিয়ে একতার চিন্তা করা উচিত না.

Unity is the strengths. I also believe so. That's why during my school days I thought we, all kid of our 5 storied building, should play together. As I thought I start work with it. In the afternoon I went to every flat and call the kids then all together we went to the roof to play. Some played and some spend their time by gossiping. Anyway we keep this time passing every day. Soon elders also joined us. You know, when elders get together they start sharing bad things of others. Here they were all renters, so they start planning to disturb the landlord. Soon, they all together start disturbing my parents. And my parents became very angry with me. My father told me, "You start this mess, you have to finish it".

I did. I closed the rood door and stopped asking others to join at the roof. Problem solved. Well, the renters could keep their work in their own flat, but they didn't. And I get the lesson; we shouldn't look unity everywhere, especially among renters :)

Sunday, December 28, 2014

Jacket inside the room


Shafeen likes his winter collection, this jacket. But it's too warm to wear it inside the room. Generally I put a sweater inside the jacket, so that when he comes inside a room he can take off the jacket and stay with the sweater. But Shafeen don't like to leave the jacket. Result, he became sweated and can't stay with the jacket more :)

Trust may go for ever


We know, it’s difficult to gain trust, but one mistake can easily destroy all.

People or organization can gain trust by big words, easily. But when we found anything wrong then that trust just goes away. Then it’s very difficult to gain again. Easy come easy go.


The trust which gained by actions, people remember that. When bad times come, many people may forget that but some will always respect you and few may always trust you.

Saturday, December 27, 2014

কে বলেছে এটা টিউমার? এটাতো বেবি! (Who said its tumor? its a baby!)


আজ শাফিনের জন্মের সময়ের ঘটনাটা মনে পরে গেল. দুমাস পিরিয়ড বন্ধ থাকার পর আমার ঘরে ইউরিন টেস্ট করে পজিটিভ পাই. এরপর আমি পুরোপুরি নিশ্চিত হওয়ার জন্য আল্ট্রা সাউন্ড টেস্ট করতে মগবাজারের মেডিনোভা তে যাই. ওখানকার বয়স্ক পরীক্ষক বললেন, এই রিপোর্ট তুমি তোমার ডাক্তারের কাছে দেখাও. ওরা বার বার স্ক্রিন থেকে নিশ্চিত. আমি বার বার বললাম, কি হয়েছে ওরা জানালো, এটা "মোলার প্রেগ্নান্সি". ওখান থেকেই আমার বোনকে (ডাক্তার) ফোন করে জানলাম, এর মানে আমার পেটে সন্তান না হয়ে টিউমার হয়েছে, সময়ের সাথে সাথে এটা আরো বাড়বে, একে অপারেশন করে ফেলতে হবে. আমাকে জানানো হলো পেট ওয়াশ করে ফেলুন.

আমি মানতে পারলাম না. যদিও বাসার সবাই এমন ভাবে আমার সাথে ব্যবহার করা শুরু করল যেন আমি টিউমার নিয়ে বাড়াবাড়ি করছি. ২ দিন পর আমি আরেক ডক্টর শান্তি নগরে গেলাম. ওখানকার ডাক্তার বলল, রিপোর্ট তো পেয়েছেন. এখন এবরশন করে ফেলুন. আমি বললাম, না. আমি আবার পরীক্ষা করব. আমি নিশ্চিত হবো আগে.

ডাক্তার (আসলে এসিস্টান্ট) বলল, দরকার নেই. আমি জোর করলাম, না, আমি আরো পরীক্ষা করব. ওদের সিনিয়র বাকিদের থামালেন. ঠিক আছে, উনি যখন চাইছেন, তাহলে আরেকবার আল্ট্রা সাউন্ড করুক.

আবার করা হলো. এখানে আমার পেট স্ক্রিনে দেখে বললেন, আরে কে বলেছে এটা টিউমার? এটাতো বেবি!! সব ঠিক আছে. আপনার কোন টিউমার নেই.

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যেখানে জীবনের প্রশ্ন জড়িত সেখানে শেষ পর্যন্ত চেষ্টা চালিয়ে যেতে হয়.....


Today I just remember about son's life, how it started. When for 2 months I miss period, I made a urine test at home with a test strip. And I found positive. Next day I went to Medinova diagnostic at Dhanmondi to make a ultra sound test to make sure about my pregnancy. There an aged tester tested me, she saw the screen many times and discussed with the assistance and told me, take this report and show it to your doctor. I asked, what happen. No answer. I called my sister (doctor) from there and informed they give me report "Molar pregnancy". What's that mean? She said, it means you couldn't have a baby; it's turned into a tumor. And with time, this tumor will grow. So, I have to wash it soon.

I couldn't believe it, but at home everyone treating me that I am showing of too much with the tumor.
After two days I went to Shanti Nagar to another doctor. Their assistants said to me, OK let’s do the abortion. I said NO, I want more tests. They were arguing with me, why? Report is very clear. But I said no, I have to be sure first. I want more tests.

Then on senior from them, stopped others and said OK if she want tests, take her to ultra sound test. I start testing and there that tester saw my belly and asked, "Who said its a tumor? It's a baby!! I can see it clearly and you don't have any tumor"

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I will always say when it's a matter of life. Try for it, unless you are sure 100%.

Friday, December 26, 2014

No hair, no punishment...


In the picture you can see a panda, my son's toy. Accidentally he (my son) broke it's head. But he didn't like to see its head without hair. So, he put a balloon (orange color) on its empty head as hair.

Every people like to have hair on their head, though for some people it's no possible. But because of his cruel mother, my son decided to shave his head. I told him, "Your class mates will irritated you, if you remove your hair". He said will accept all, but no more hair. Because whenever his mom gets angry while study, she holds his hairs give a shake... very painful. So, no hair, no punishment...

Wednesday, December 24, 2014

Potato payesh.

An easy sweet dish from Bangladesh is Potato payesh.

What you need:

1. Milk half liter (you better take compressed milk)
2. Potato finely cut 1 and half cup
3. Sugar 1 cup
4. Cardamom powder half tea spoon
5. Ghee 1 cup

How to make:

Fry the potatoes in ghee till it get brown.
Put the milk on your burner, add sugar and cardamom powder.
When the milk will start boiling put all the potatoes with ghee and keep it boiling 5 minutes. Your potato payes is ready...


Monday, December 22, 2014

একবারে একটা তরকারী (All in one curry)


আমরা বাংলাদেশীরা সাধারনত: ভাতের সাথে ৩ ধরনের তরকারী খাই. ডাল, শাকসব্জি আর মাছ/গোশত। বাইরে থেকে ফিরে বা অসুস্থ থাকলে এত কিছু আর রান্না করতে ইচ্ছা করেনা। তাই তখন একবারে একটা তরকারী করতে পারলে ভাল. যেমন,

খাসি, ডাল আর সবজির তরকারী।

যা যা লাগবে:
১. খাসির গোশত ১ কেজি (আপনি নিরামিষভোজী হলে এটা বাদ দিবেন আর মসলা সব অর্ধেক দিবেন)
২. পিয়াজ কুচি আধা কাপ
৩. আদা রসুন পেস্ট ২ চা চামচ
৪. হলুদ গুড়া ২ চা চামচ
৫. শুকনা মরিচ গুড়া আধা চা চামচ (আপনি ঝাল পছন্দ করলে ২ চা চামচ)
৬. ধনে গুড়া ২ চা চামচ
৭. জিরা গুড়া ২ চা চামচ
৮. ছোট আলু ৫ টি (খোসা ছাড়িয়ে দিবেন)
৯. শাক সবজি আপনার পছন্দ মতো (বড় টুকরা)
১০ ডাল এক কাপ
১১. তেল ১ কাপ
১২ লবন স্বাদ মতো
১৩. এলাচ, লবঙ্গ  আর দারুচিনি ৪টা করে
১৪. তেজপাতা ২টি 

কিভাবে রান্না করবেন:

চুলায় মৃদু আচে প্রেসার কুকার বসান। খাসির গোশতের চর্বি কেটে ফেলে প্রেসার কুকারে দিয়ে দিন. তেল দিন. এবার একে একে বাকি সব উপকরণ গোশতের সাথে দিয়ে ভাল করে মিশিয়ে দিন. এবার আপনি ঝোল যতটুকু রাখবেন ততটুকু পানি দিবেন। যদি গোশত আর সবজি থেকে পানি বের হয়ে যথেস্ট ঝোল হয়ে যায় তো পানি দেয়ার দরকার নেই. এবার প্রেসার কুকার ঢেকে পুরো আচে দিয়ে দিন. একবার সিটি বাজার পর আচ কমিয়ে ২৫ মিনিট রাখুন। বাস হয়ে গেল আপনার সুস্বাদু তরকারী।

We, the Bangladeshi people usually take 3 curries with rice in every meal. They are daal (lentil) , vegetables and fish/meat. When you came from outside or you became sick, it’s really difficult for you to cook all these dishes. So, here I am giving you a simple way to cook all these at a time and it’s tasty too. This can be called

Meat, lentil and vegetables

What we need:
1. Mutton 1 kg (If you are a vegetarian then you can remove this part and you have to give all masala half from given amount)

2. Onion finely cut half cup

3.  Ginger and garlic paste 2 tea spoons

4. Turmeric powder 2 tea spoons

5. Coriander powder 2 tea spoons

6. Cumin powder 2 tea spoons

7. Red chili powder half tea spoon (if you like spicy then can add 2 tea spoon)

8. Small size potato 5 (you have pill of its skin)

9. Vegetables (whatever you like, make them big pieces)

10. Cooking oil 1 cup

11. Salt (according to taste)

12. Cinnamon, cardamom and cloves 4 of each

13. Bay leaf 2

14. Lentil 1 cup

How to cook

Put your pressure cooker on the gas burner in low heat and give every item one after another and mix it well. Then put the lid and make the hit high. When you hear the first whistle then again make the hit low. Keep it like that for 25 minutes. Then it’s done. You have your delicious curry. You can take it with rice or bread.

Sunday, December 21, 2014

Looking at other's plate


Whenever I go to a restaurant for food, I try to take something with regular (which is tasted previously). I like to taste different food. They might have more tasty food, which I don't want to miss by taking regular one. I keep something regular as a backup food, because, if we can't eat the new one, we will have something to eat (at least).

I tasted food from Salt Grill (at Bashundhora City Complex) before, and except "Chicken Salad" and Fruit Juice, I didn't like anything from them. This time my son was very encouraged by their play ground. So, he pulled me over there. And look over others what are they taking (I needed to decide what can be good to eat) and then ordered "Chicken Masala Dosa". For the first time I took decision on food by looking at other's plate. And yes, it was a good trick. I mean it worked! This item of food was great! 

Saturday, December 20, 2014

All can’t stay together


No matter how much we expect or needed for getting together and then staying together, is very difficult. People will always have different points of view, different choices, different mood, and different expectations. So, after all hard work, you may bring them together, but they can’t stay together unless they really want to be. When people want to stay together they forgive each other’s mistakes, forget each other’s negative works, and accept all negative things in them. Only love has power to tolerate all these without any pain. It could be love between brothers, sisters, spouses, friends, love birds etc. Except love when people have to accept everything only because of social propaganda or career or money or to achieve something, things became really tough. Sometimes man has no choice but accept all negative things to archive their goal or promise.

Friday, December 19, 2014

PTC: Just view the site and get paid

You don't need to be a professional to earn money online. In some cases you just have to view or browse the site and you will be paid. I tried and earn some. So, like to share with you. Here are some site which I trust and earned money (you have to register and view their ADs to earn money):

Click here to join NeoBux



Click here to join TWickerz
(I have received $1 from this site)



(I have received $10 from this site)




(I have received $1 from this site)


I will let you know when I starts getting money from any of them.

নতুন সেই দেশ কে নিয়ে কেন লিখেন না? (you can write about that country too.)


যারা দেশের বাইরে থাকেন। তারা অনেকেই অনলাইনে নানা বিষয় নিয়ে লেখা লিখি করেন। আমার অনুরোধ, আপনারা নতুন সেই দেশ কে নিয়ে কেন লিখেন না? ওখানকার নানা বিষয়, নিয়ম, সংস্কৃতি, খাবার , এছড়াও আরো নতুন নতুন বিষয় নিয়ে লিখতে পারেন. আপনারা নতুন দেশের অনেক কিছুই লক্ষ্য করেন একজন পর্যটকের দৃষ্টি নিয়ে। তাই, আপনারা  অনেক সুন্দর নতুন বিষয় দেখেন, যা ওই দেশের অধিবাসীদের দৃষ্টি এড়িয়ে যায়. আর আমাদের নতুন দেশের নানা বিষয় সম্পর্কে জানার সুযোগ হয়.
আপনি চাইলে লেখাটা বর্ননা মূলক শুধু নয়, কাব্যিক ও হতে পারে :)

People who are living abroad, do online writing too. I think you can write about that country too. You are watching that country like a traveler. So, there are many things which you can see but the inhabitants may not notice as its a regular things for them. Write about them, their culture, their invention, food and many other new thing. So, that we can also get to know about them.

If you wish you can write by your poetry too :)

Wednesday, December 17, 2014

Big characters in the cartoon


When we were kid, we use to saw cartoons either with cat, mouse or dog, nor super heroes. But now a day kids watch cartoons with many well know characters. Like Sherlock Holmes, Mr. Bin, Charlie Chaplin etc. This is really good. Because of these cartoons, kids get to know about big characters and later they may read or watch the real one.

It can also have some bad reaction. If the cartoon draw a picture which doesn't has similarities or give bad impression about that character then kids won't like them even before they get to know the real one.

Sunday, December 14, 2014

I trust you


I trust you. Because my heart is saying you will never dishearten me in anyway.
I set you free. I believe, love is there,so nothing can take you away. If its not there, then I shouldn't hold you.
So, look at the sky, see you can fly away anytime, nothing is holding you.

Following other


When a baby born, it started following others. This attitude helps them to learn quickly. Though this is not a good attitude for elders. If they start following other without thinking whether it is good or bad then soon they will become brainless. 

Another attitude both kid and elder has. They like the thing, which is already chosen by other. To the kid, no matter how good or interesting thing you give, they will always like to have what other kid hold. Same goes for elders, if one women color their hair like blond all will like to follow her, without considering whether that color will suit her or not. If one man bought new jacket then others will start looking for it. They won't think, whether that is needed by them or not.

These situation goes for car for both kids and elders. If one had new car then others.... you can see how jealous other became :)

Saturday, December 13, 2014

May Allah save Sundarbon


I don't know why (may be because we don't get benefited by others) we became very selfish. We don't get any action we see any disaster is coming or started, unless it falls on us. Most of the time that means it already made many destruction and sometimes it can't be cure anymore.


It happens mostly in natural disaster. No matter now naturalists explains us, we don't care or won't take any action unless the disaster hit us. May Allah save Sundarbon.

Saturday, December 6, 2014

দূর থেকে অনেক কিছুই সুন্দর (Everything looks beautiful from a distance)


দূর থেকে অনেক কিছুই সুন্দর লাগে. কাছে গেলে তখন সামনে আসে একের পর এক সমস্যাগুলো. এর যেন কোন শেষ নেই. এই মানুষিক চাপ আমার আর ভাল লাগেনা. আমি আর কিছু ভাবতে চাইনা. আল্লাহ আমার সামনে যা যেভাবে রাখবেন, আমি সেটাই নিয়ে থাকব. বাকিরা যার যা ভাল মনে হয় করতে থাকুন... সবশেষে সবাই দেখব ফলাফল কি হয়.
আমি এমনি. সবসময়ই স্রোতের বিপরীতে দাড়াই. সবার ব্যঙ্গাত্মক দৃষ্টি আর কথার সামনে পরি. আমার চিন্তাভাবনা আর কাজ কর্মওই হয়তো এমন. কারো সাথে সহজে মিলে না. নিজের মতো থাকি, সবার কাছে ছোট হয়ে. তাও কারো কাছে কোন ব্যাখ্যা নিয়ে যেতে ইচ্ছা করে না. কারো জানার ইচ্ছা হলে নিজেই জানতে চাইবে, আর নিজের মতো যা খুশি তাই বলতে চাইলে বলতে থাকুক... আমি তো মহামানবী নই যে সমালোচনার উর্ধে থাকব.

Everything looks beautiful from a distance. But whenever you go near you will find negative things one after another. It's like never ending situations. I don't want this kind of mental pressure anymore.I don't wan't to think more. Whatever Allah will bring in front of me, I will accept. Rest of the world may work for whatever they like (I can't take this pressure). At the end we all will see what's the final situation.
I am always like this. I always stand against the flow and live with people's negative thoughts and opinion. But I don't go to them with explanations. If any one want to know will ask me and I will explain. If they don't then let them think whatever they think. I am not that special that, no body can make comments on me.

Thursday, December 4, 2014

Safe place for us

Photo credit: Tameem

We always want a safe place for us and our beloved persons. Actually as a well wisher, we want this for all living things. So, we catch birds and keep it in the cage. Then give them food, water and talk or sing with them. Then we felt good that we gave them a good place to live. Is it so? I guess birds don't think so. They want to fly in the sky and live on a tree without any problem. That's the best place for them. Same we do with animals. We think we are saving them and giving them a happy life. Where we are actually destroying their life.

Is that it? NO, we do this for human too. Actually we don't know which place is the best for one. If I think about our country (Bangladesh), I had face bad food, too much crowd, traffic jam, people don't care about the benefit of the society, education problem, health problem etc.

Now if I choose live in a better country then what might happen. My son may face drug problem, violence at school, he might had to live in too cold area, we may had no friends to give us time, loneliness may hit us, we may face trouble to perform our native culture etc.

Then where to go? But still we had see all plus and minus points and decide which might be the best solution for us. We may take wrong decision but we have to live with that.