You are stronger than you think

"You survived many days that you thought wouldn't pass."

Sometimes we gave up. We thought there was no way that I could make it happen. But always believe in yourself. If you look back, many things happened in your life, many things you have achieved that you thought you would never have.

Need peace in mind

 Ixora (Rongon) Flower tree

No matter what you want to do, first you need peace in mind. Then you will enjoy your work and other things. and you job will be done perfectly. But you know, the world isn't the bed of roses. You have to face many difficulties, mental stresses. In this condition, it’s really difficult to calm down and give peace in mind.

To have this mental refreshment, people do meditation; keep themselves busy with hobbies (traveling, fishing, reading etc) and love. Yes, the best way to make you happy and enjoy your life is love. Sometimes we don’t care or take care about it. People only understood its value when they lose it.

My mind is making me sick

Shafeen (my 4 years old son) took this picture.

Some people have very good control on their mind. No matter how difficulty they face in their mind, physically they stay fit. And I am not that kind of person. If my body somehow gets infected, it takes down my mind too. And whenever I felt depressed, it strongly effect on my body. Mainly my headache started. Then the only one duty remains for me, how to stop my headache (because when it increases it felt my head is going to bust out, I start vomiting, and can’t resist the pain).  So, I try to sleep, if not succeed to stop the headache then take napa (paracetamol), it that don’t work too, then finally had to take clofenac and relaxation. This way generally problem solves. But this time it’s not working, may be I couldn’t give myself enough rest. I wish that I know how to get rid of this pain.

Today I was feeling little better, then suddenly a phone call came and I have got an invitation to go to a place at Saturday, and again headache starts. So, I had to say myself, don’t worry, you won’t go there. My brain liked that, now I am feeling good from headache. 

The damage is done

When you get angry, you don’t know what you are doing or saying. You may behave rough, give angry look and say strong word that nobody should deserve. And after some time you may start feeling better, then you may say sorry. Or can start talking and try to erase previous situation. But you know… it doesn't work always. Sometimes damage is done. You can’t do anything with that now. So, we all shall know how to talk when we disagree with anything or better not say anything in anger.

I have seen my mom and dad do this kind of mistake many times. When they tried to recover it, didn't work mostly. Many of their close friends left them only because of this. Many relative don’t like them because what they said some day long time ago…

You can erase your misbehave from your mind, but you can’t erase that so easily from others mind.

Running other peoples mind

It’s an old game. People who want to run other people as they wish, they always plays some simple tricks. And in most cases it works. I know, it’s not good, we should let other people do whatever they think better. That’s why I never try this with other. But that doesn’t mean that they won’t try it on me. They did and succeed.

For example, somehow if I became little sick in office, one colleague or boss might give me advice, go home and take leave, you have couple of months leave pending. After few months you can easily come back and work again. First I thought no I can work with this sickness. But this info that I have couple of months leave which I can utilize get inside in my brain. So, I changed my mind (I have seen my first thought is always right), I told them OK, I am listening to you, and I will take my leave…. And you know what happen? They let me enjoy my leave and took my job.