Happy Birthday

 I like to greet people on their birthdays. I used to call them, sometimes at 12 am, just to start their day with a smile. Then someone told me, "Don't do this, especially with boys. They will think you have a crush on them."

Well, I only did this with my friends, colleagues, and family, and later I heard some of them say I had something on my mind, which is why I called them. Some said, I have an interest in them.

I surprised. Maybe I am not born for this world. Anyway, I stopped myself. It's true, I feel great when anyone says Happy Birthday, give me gifts. But I better not do this with others, because, they took it wrong, sometimes.

So, yeah, I don't say, but I wish everyone a Happy Birthday.

Nowadays, I send birthday messages on their FB Messenger. Who likes, replies; who doesn't, doesn't answer. I understood, from next don't send them any more messages.

Watching, following

 As far as I have seen, most people are scared of management. If they knew management was nearby or watching them, they started working, showed more dedication, sometimes acted like they were working a lot or showing off, and gave unnecessary advice to others to show leadership power, etc. They don't like management to look after their work.

I never felt troubled if management checked my work. Actually, I felt good about it. Because I work diligently whether anyone is watching or not. I don't waste time. So, if I found management is watching my work, I felt good, at least someone would know that I am working. Otherwise, I never go somewhere and give a list to show what I have done.

Now a day technology improved. Without any warning, the government of any corporation can actually see you, hear you and follow you. My question is: if they are biased and form the wrong impression of me, or do anything wrong to me, who will fix it? How much do I support being watched 24 hours a day?

People ask for favors, do they do the same?

 When money issues are added to anything, things change dramatically. Previously, people used to share pictures, videos, or blog posts just to share their ideas and have fun with friends. 

Then the money issue was added, and now everyone wants more views to earn money.

People keep requesting to view and subscribe. It's not like, if you like something, then you will subscribe. It's like just subscribe to help me earn money.

Many people ask me to join their page or subscribe. Mostly, I avoid. Sometimes it's difficult to avoid, so I just join. I don't want to create more issues in life.

I have a Facebook account, a Facebook page, an Instagram account, a Blogger's blog, and YouTube videos. Before you demand to visit your page regularly, like, comment, subscribe and post over there, why don't you do the same with me? Never felt like that?

Be yourself

 What is meant for you will be yours. So, no need to worry about anything. Just be yourself. Try to fix things that you don't want in yourself. Try to make yourself better little by little. No need to worry about what others are feeling, just be yourself and try to enjoy every moment.

Yes, that is me. That's my attitude.

Be the best version of yourself. People have different choices; they might like you or not. You are not a pizza that everybody will like.

Your surroundings

 Every person is different than others. When we choose people to be with, we have different reasons for doing so. I have seen some people notice the powerful person in the room and then sit or stand beside them. Another group chooses who their friend is; some choose who has more money; some choose who is in their family; some choose who is more beneficial or more beautiful.

What do I choose? I tried to figure out who likes me more. At least some kind of likeness, or less hateness. It's difficult. Most of the time, I am surrounded by people who don't want me. And I am living in this situation always.

Sometimes I clearly understand people around me just want to get rid of me. Well, what I can do, I don't have any other options. If I had, I wouldn't bother any person in this world. Trust me.

No funny comment.

 I have to hold myself back from making a funny comment on anyone. Maybe because of my serious face, people take things seriously. So, when I say something funny about them, they don't get the funny part. They take that seriously and most of the time get offended.

Only people who know me very well know how funny I am. Only they laugh out of their hearts.

Anyway, I think I have already disheartened two of my colleagues. May Allah help me. I am going to hold my tongue forever, and keep remembering myself, no fun, no funny comment. I don't afford to make more enemies in my life.

Suggesting people

 You can suggest someone to do something that will be good for everybody, especially for that person. If they listen, great; if not, it's their luck. You tried, but they are not ready to have that.

But if that person is someone near you, you can't just let things go. You keep asking, requesting, reminding them again and again. Some may call it nagging. But you just want good for them and all. You just have to keep trying with the hope that someday they will understand or just listen.

A very foggy day.

 It's a very foggy day. Visibility looks 0 to me. Be very careful on the road. If not needed, don't go out. Enjoy your Sunday.

I remember I was going to Cox's Bazar from Dhaka on a very foggy day by bus. Our bus driver was saying, I can't see anything. But he started driving. Then he started following a bus. He said, "Let's follow this bus." If this bus falls into a hole, then I will be careful about it. He was laughing with his helper. I had no idea what was going on. Later, the driver found the tricks. He started driving by himself and sped up. I still don't know what his trick was. But he didn't kill us, this much I can assure you.

Food in Europe

I have started to taste the food from the Swish Airline. I liked the food they served. I found they are not processed and have good taste and quality.

I have tasted food in some European countries, like Switzerland, Germany, Italy, and France. I found that food in Switzerland is very expensive but of good quality. In Italy and France, food is much cheaper than in Canada. But the quality of food is much better. In these two countries, you can find a variety of cultural foods, including Halal options, that are affordable and of good quality.

I wish food prices would go down and stay at a reasonable level. Then people would have to buy more healthy food and stay healthy in life. Healthy people mean a good workforce for the country and less pressure on hospitals and care homes. People might have visited more restaurants. The food, restaurant and grocery business would have done better. Moreover, the travellers would have come to visit more to have a wide variety of food in Toronto.

The most important factor for any area

 I have visited many countries, cities, and homes. One thing I realize everywhere is that you need to keep your area clean. No matter how many other things, like tidiness, expensive items, facilities, or other services you have, if the area or items aren't clean, nothing is worth it.

You need to keep the area, living space, furniture, clothes, and other items clean. My suggestion is to appoint a cleaner, maybe to clean once a day or 24/7 availability. It's good for everybody who lives or has just visited for hours. Everybody will feel comfort. It will also reduce the risk of contracting any diseases.

To keep any area clean, we need to stop making it dirty. People who live in and visit the area should keep it clean. It will help to keep the area comfortable for all. 

From school, kids should learn about it too. So that they will keep the area clean by disposing of garbage in the proper place and cleaning the washroom before they leave, etc.