Saving money

That I really need to do… And people around me can also see that, how much I am trying. So, situation going like for few months I am trying to save as much as possible then in one occasion I had to expend all. Then again start saving money… I wish I could find a better solution…

Weight loss, after marriage?

In our country (Bangladesh), if any girl losses her weight after marriage then people will think her in-law family isn’t good. They are creating problem for the girl, that’s why she is losing her weight. Truth is this is right in many cases.

Even people don’t expect to see that girl same as before. All expect to see her gaining weight a bit…

Some other country can have seen nature.

Generally in our country, women get more weight after marriage. So, before marriage if any girl is over weighted then people will think, what will happen to her after marriage?

Case is different with those women, who are very conscious about fashions. They like to lose weight no matter they are married or not.

Criticism, is it worth?

Sometimes yes. And most of the times “NO”.

What I do, generally avoid it. When in any comment I have to criticism someone. I stopped giving any comment. I think, it’s better not to say anything instead of criticism.

My country is better place to live

Everybody loves their country. But unless you see any other country how can you compare? With only details in book or newspaper you can’t see it. You have to there and live there for a while. When you visit any develop country rather than your country you can find it out why they are developed and what the demerits are there in your country. You can also see, in some cases your country is in better situation.

When you visit any under develop country than your country, you can easily see, how good are you living in your country, though you might have a lots of complain on your own country.

After traveling very little country for short time, now I feel our country is much better place than much other country (who claims they are better). Here things are much cheap to expend. Live more stable. Many good things are available here. Yes, I am talking about Bangladesh. Why don’t you come and stay here, you will also feel that.

My opinion

It’s actually person’s own power to convince other people. A big example is political leader. They can convince many people.

I am not thinking in that broad area. I have heard in my child hood if anybody denied my opinion I started crying which was very difficult to stop. Like many other child.
Then after growing up, I express my opinion to only those persons who listen to me. If I anyhow I found this person is not going to listen my concept or won’t follow it, I didn’t tell anything to them. Why should I?

Now what I am started to do is always expressing my thoughts, opinion, suggestions…. Now, it’s up to the listeners, whether they will listen to me or not. If they don’t then fine, and later when they really face the problem as I warned, I don’t go to them to memorize that you didn’t listen to me when I gave you alert. I know they already can understand that. So, why should I show them down?

Your surroundings…..

What you feel about your surroundings. It’s really a good feeling to have surroundings who likes you. Then you must be lucky. What will happen if you found, your all time surrounding don’t like you? It’s terrible. Generally I don’t like to disturb other people. If I found any person who doesn’t like me, I don’t go there to disturb them. I don’t make any contact unless it’s very urgent. But may be reality don’t want that. I had to spend time with those guys’ who might not want to see my face ;) But I can’t help it. I wish things will get changed. I always try to spend my time with them who likes me. May be I have to go to them, until I found they are feeling bored with me 

Accuse….

When anyone accuses you, that person will never though what they did with you. They will only consider what they felt about you. Though they will ask you, but actually they don’t want to listen anything from you, except accepting the accusation. What should you do in this situation? Let’s keep quiet and see how far they go….

You want feedback, but can’t accept it….

This is a very common attitude I found in my life. Many times people wants feedback, but actually they want only good feedback. If you be honest with your feedback, you are in trouble. Sometimes your relation may put in danger. So, what you like to do? Will you be honest….? May be it’s not the correct way. But I always try to be honest on my comments. If I found I have to negative then I don’t make any comment. But problem is people don’t like this quietness, they ask until they listen something from me. Now what can I do…. Let’s face it.

Following the middle way

I believe the better way is to go with the middle way. Of course not in the road. You know, extreme behavior isn’t good for anyone. If you always stay quiet, never disagree or show your opinion, others will never care about you by themselves.
And If you are always get angry show your disappointment, that is also not good to digest for others.
So, w1hat left? You have to understand what behavior will effect others and good enough to motivate them. Some times its good if you keep quiet, coz some people has habit never to listen others, unless they fall in problem. Sometimes you have to raise your voice on your opinion. So, others can listen and understand the value of your point.
Now it’s totally up to you, to understand when you have to follow which behavior.

Weight loss

I can’t remember when I was happy with my weight. First I thought my belly is out of shape. Then found I am becoming over weighted. And finally I got gastric ulcer. Now what? Every hour I had to eat something. But you know, if you eat all times, then you won’t feel hungry and finally you will found that you are losing weight!!

No extra work in a rainy day

Generally I stay office to do my personal work and study for long time. Sometimes do official work too. But, what about a rainy day? Nop, will take office car and go home. I love rain. But it doesn’t mean that I don’t like to work in a rainy day. But in rain, no vehicle is available to go to home, I had to walk in dirty road water for long time and request every cab and auto rickshaw to take to home. And finally if any of them say yes may be with double rent I had to go to home. So, I better go with my colleague in time in a rainy working day…..

Practice to upgrade your skill

Practice is very much important to upgrade and to keep your skill level, especially for the programmers. When I had spent time by coding java swing, programming seems very interesting. Now I have been busy for other task that for long time no relation with coding. Now a day a simple php code takes long time to solve. I lose practicing I lose my skill…..

Marathon Marriage Ceremony

A year back, I was thinking that it’s been a long time that I didn’t attend in any marriage ceremony. Same thinking goes for some times, after marriage also. Coz, I couldn’t eat good in my own marriage ceremony.

But things suddenly start going in reverse. Now I am getting tired to go and join every marriage ceremony. I like to join but feeling very tired to get ready, go, attend and eat for every occasion. But still I like to join whenever I get invitation. Because when I invite anyone and that person doesn’t come, that disheartens me. So in the same way I don’t want to dishearten anyone. I don’t know whether they really want me to see over there or not.

For last few months I am joining too many occasions, it’s a marathon ceremony, one after another. I guess I never join this much marriage ceremony in my life.

Travel with Travel agency package

This is the first time we travel with a package tour of a travel agency… And we had very bitter experience. So, from next I will always try to go to tour by myself. I can discuss with any agency but will never go with their package.

In the tour, they made us eat same for 10 days tour for twice a day (which was very terrible). They took us with local bus, could arrange better transport, which we have seen running on the same road. They keep us in bad hotel, with no sight view. Hence in the same hotel there were better quality room. They give us very few time for visiting any place and shopping. But expend long time by waiting in the bus every where without any reason. Their behave wasn’t good all time.

I really don’t know how could people recommend to go with them!!

Interrupted by some boysInterrupted by some boys

After crossing the border, our bus start moving to Shiliguri, but interrupted by some boys, who are looking for money for Puja. And we had to wait their for half an hour coz some discussion was going on about the money amount with bus drivers and those boys.
We found one bus was run so fast and didn’t give money to the boys. And the boys throw bricks to that bus!

this was my first experience after entering India.

Where all times gone

When I was child I had plenty of times to do things.. but after joining university I don’t know where all times gone. I could never do all things that I wanted to complete in a day…. Day by day, this situation becomes very strong. Now I had to cut my daily plan to adjust. Which I don’t want but I had to…..