Difference between like and love

There is a very fine layer in between love and like. The easy to figure it out is to monitor how feeling growing with time.

 

If you want anything more and more. Then it’s love. It never dies. If, after having some you are feeling full, don’t want it more, then it was your liking.

 

Let me give you some examples. A kid wants a toy very much. They are asking the toy for months. They are so desperate to have it. After having it, within 3 days, they don’t feel any interest in it. It’s liking.

Some kids like their soft toys very much. They hold it every night before going to sleep. It continues, this is love.

 

In a relationship, I have seen this in many couples. At the beginning they are so happy to have each other, then they lost all interest with each other. Maybe they liked each other very much, but they didn’t love their partner. So, it ended in a very short time.

 

For some, without making much effort the feeling continues. Yes, it’s love. They might face many ups and downs in life, but the feeling continues.

People, with a heart like an ocean

Some people born in this world with a heart like an ocean. They love people, animals or anything else. Till death, they work for their love and work. Because of them, humankind takes a leap of growth. When general people get love and mercy from them, they don’t think to give anything in return. People just take advantage of these big hearts, because people think these big persons are fools to let’s take advantage of it.

We all have seen a person like this in our life. Did we do anything for them? Deep in their heart, don’t you think they wish for anything? Yes, they do, they just can’t expect it from people who don’t give the value of others work.

A beautiful song "tare hai barati"

I like this song. I think it's a happy song, but it started as a sad one. After watching this song I started feeling a marriage ceremony open air at night would be amazing.

https://youtu.be/DsltGzipmyo

Lyrics:

Akhiyan milake channa paave na judai ve

Now that our eyes have met, let us never be apart

Akhiyan milake channa paave na judai ve

Now that our eyes have met, let us never be apart

Deve na tari mainu sari khudai ve

I won't exchange you even for the entire world

Akhiyan milake

Now that our eyes have met Tare hai barati chandni hai yeh barat The stars are our guests and the moonlight is the wedding procession Saaton phere honge ab haathon mein leke haath Now we'll walk the seven holy steps with our hands held together Saaton phere honge ab haathon mein leke haath Now we'll walk the seven holy steps with our hands held together Jeevan saathi hum, diya aur baati hum We're life partners just like the lamp and the wick Jeevan saathi hum, diya aur baati hum We're life partners just like the lamp and the wick Tare hai barati chandni hai yeh barat The stars are our guests and the moonlight is the wedding procession Saaton phere honge ab haathon mein leke haath Now we'll walk the seven holy steps with our hands held together Saaton phere honge ab haathon mein leke haath Now we'll walk the seven holy steps with our hands held together Jeevan saathi hum, diya aur baati hum We're life partners just like the lamp and the wick Jeevan saathi hum, diya aur baati hum We're life partners just like the lamp and the wick Tare hai barati chandni hai yeh barat The stars are our guests and the moonlight is the wedding procession Ganga Jamuna se bhi pawan tera mera bandhan Our bond is more pure than the Ganga and Jamuna rivers Tera prem hai phulwari aur mera mann hai aangan Your love is a flower plant and my heart is like fertile land Janamo janamo ka hi sajni tera mera saath We'll be together for multiple births Saaton phere honge ab haathon mein leke haath Now we'll walk the seven holy steps with our hands held together Jeevan saathi hum, diya aur baati hum We're life partners just like the lamp and the wick Jeevan saathi hum, diya aur baati hum We're life partners just like the lamp and the wick Tu hai jeevan mein joh pritam sukh nahi maangun duja I don't need any more happiness now that you're there in my life Aarti naino se karti hoon mann se teri puja I worship you with my eyes and pray to you from my heart Main toh dharm hi samjhun teri kahi hui har baat Everything you say is righteous to me Saaton phere honge ab haathon mein leke haath Now we'll walk the seven holy steps with our hands held together Jeevan saathi hum, diya aur baati hum We're life partners just like the lamp and the wick Jeevan saathi hum, diya aur baati hum We're life partners just like the lamp and the wick Tare hai barati chandni hai yeh barat The stars are our guests and the moonlight is the wedding procession Akhiyan milake channa paave na judai ve Now that our eyes have met, let us never be apart Deve na tari mainu sari khudai ve I won't exchange you even for the entire world Akhiyan milake Now that our eyes have met

Simple delicious rice

How to cook delicious rice in a simple way? You will need

1.      Rice cooker (Optional)
2.        Rice 3 cups (Amount is your choice)
3.        A can of vegetable soup
4.        Water
5.        Pinch of salt (If you feel to add some)

Now follow the steps:

1         Wash the rice 3 times
2.       Put it in the rice cooker’s bowl
3.       Open your soup can and pour it into the bowl
4.       Add water till it just crosses the bar of 3 cups
5.       If you want to add salt, then you can
6.       Close the lid and turn on the cooker.

7.       And the end you will have a bowl of fragrant rice. It will be somewhat like vegetable Polao.

My Biography 1: The Birth

I have born in the Bhuiya family of Bikrompur. They were the Nobab in past. My mom came from Munsi family. They were very well educated. I was the second child of my family. My sister came first in this world.

When my mom got pregnant for the second time, she was doing a full-time job and was working overtime. Because she needed money to support her in-law's big family. My father was doing a government job, he wasn’t earning enough to support his family. But mom couldn’t continue working too much in her pregnancy. The doctor told her to take a leave and stay at home. She did. But in Bangladesh, a woman can’t take rest when her mother in law is working. So, she continued to work at home. The result was obvious. She lost her second child.

Now you know, technically I wasn’t the second child of my family. I came on this earth when she became pregnant for the third time. This time doctor said to my mom, “If you lost this child, you can’t be a mom ever.” My mom took the challenge to keep me.

Our traditional in-law family didn’t like this attitude. Why a bride will lay on the bed and take rest? But this time my mom stood against all of them. My dad was the youngest son of the family. He generally didn’t say much in front of all family members. But silently he agrees with his mom and my mom became the worst person in the family. They give her punishment for this, but that is another story. Because of my mom’s strong decision, I survived. And they had got their second child, me.

Now a day, I think, maybe that’s why I became like this. I listen to all, try to adjust as much as possible. I tolerate a lot. But when I made any decision, that’s final. Now nothing can change it.

As a young father, my dad wasn’t good at the newborn child. He didn’t hold my elder sister much. But from my very childhood, I started smiling. No one could resist that, neither my father. He used to take me in his lap and travel in the neighbourhood. I keep laughing with my toothless face and everybody adores it. Yes, I use to gain people’s hearts. Because of me, my father started enjoying his fatherhood.

I didn’t take much time to learn to speak. After learning to speak, I didn’t like to keep my mouth shut. I was surrounded by Dhaka’s original people. So, I learned the local Dhakaiya language. When my mom took me to my grand parent’s house (Faridpur) all local area people came to visit me. To listen to my speaking. I keep speaking, telling stories to my grandfather. All the village people enjoyed and laugh with my grandfather. Here I can inform you that my grandfather was my first lover. He used to sing this song “Pakhir basar moto duti chokh tomar, thik jeno natorer bonolota shen (Your eyes are like the bird nest…)”. I thought bird nest is an ugly thing, why my eyes will be like that? I told him not to sing this for me, but he always sang it and made me angry.

When I learned some poems. My mom recorded a few of them in a cassette. She knew, with time I will change, and she was right. Now a day, I speak too little. From everywhere I have got complaints, that I don’t speak.

My screen times

I have decided not to touch the phone or any screen (Computer or TV) from 8pm to 5.30am. But it is now 2.57am and I’m writing. I hope I will gradually be able to maintain my screen time.

Nice Lyrics

Dr. Project Point Blank ~ A Song for V.

Lyrics:

I'll be the one to take you home,

to ease your mind, and bleed for you,

When you're down a note, and sail the stormy sea,

I'll be there, I'll be your man.

I'll be the one you can leave behind, and never look back to see if I cry,

I'll be there for you - when all other man leaves

I'll be The One, I'll be your man.

 

And I'll be your Christ, and take all your pain,

all your fears, pay all your debts,

And from the cross - I'll pray for you I'll be the one,

I'll be your man. I'll be your eyes when the sun goes down,

the moonlight fades, and night comes home,

my heart will burn to light your way,

I'll be there, I'll be your man.

I'll be the one to take you across burning flames and feel the stones

I'll be your bridge from cradle to worse your personal saint,

I'll be your man. I'll be the one you can leave behind, and never look back to see if I cry,

I'll be there for you - when all other man leaves

I'll be The One, I'll be your man.

How will I give him a solution?

I never had a close friend, I am always very stupid to let go opportunities, I get hurt by people unnecessarily when I didn’t do anything wrong with them, I’m too honest that people can’t guess, My love is one-sided. But still I know I’m a person of a good heart.

I thought, maybe my son wouldn’t be like me. He is not like me. But still, he is facing some common big problem that I am facing. He doesn’t have any close friend, he let’s go his opportunities, he gets hurt by people without any reason. He is very honest, but people don’t get it. He is a very person.

Sometimes I felt, why did I bring on earth to face too much trouble? I don’t know how to overcome my problems; how will I teach him? He just must learn by himself. That’s what I am trying to teach him. Find the solution to your own problem, your mom won’t there for you always.

My 3 favourite moments in rain

One, I had submitted a sample project by using JSP, Php and Asp. The guy told me my work was great, I may get a job in the company which office is in the UK. I was in Bangladesh. I became so happy. Who doesn’t want a good job? I was returning home and rain started. It was raining heavily, and I was walking on the footpath, without an umbrella. Branches and leaves were dropping beside me while I was walking. It was an amazing moment. I enjoyed every bit of it.

Later I got to know that the guy bluffed.

Two, we all colleagues went to celebrate one of our colleague’s marriage ceremonies. It ended late at night. One of my colleagues took a yellow cab to drop me at home. When we started home, the rain started, heavily. The driver turned on AC and music. Outside was very dark we couldn’t see anything. The moment was amazing. My colleague said, “Wow, this is amazing, I have to take my girlfriend to a tour this way!” This happened in Bangladesh.

Later he told me, he did make a tour with his girlfriend in the same way.

Three, my work was done at 11pm. It was a late-night, so I didn’t want to wait for the bus. I went outside, found one of our managers was standing outside with the phone. It was raining. I said, “Oh no”. He told me it was worse. Anyway, I started walking to my home, in rain, as usual without any umbrella. After some time, I heard some noise behind me. I looked back; I saw he was also walking with me. I asked, what are you doing? He replied, “Going home”. Good, I was happy to have someone to walk at the middle of the night. Then we talked, about simple things, about driving, home etc. Then in the middle of the way he crossed the road to go to his home, I keep walking towards my home. It was a great moment. This happened in Canada.

We never talk with each other before or after that moment.