Surprise!!

I love to be surprised, when anyone does to make me happy…. Everyone likes that, no doubt. It’s being long time that I am missing it. I can’t remember when did you last surprised, which make me very happy? May be in my last birthday….

Listening to the rumor

It’s my nature that I never listen to rumor. I never care what others are saying about me. I always concentrate on myself. What I am doing, whether it is good or bad. I watch people. When I dislike any nature from others, first I try to remove it from myself. I dislike bad comments. I myself don’t do that. But that doesn’t mean in real life others won’t. People make bad comment with true and false which make others think bad on some one. This may not true.

When I listen about other, I always take it as 50/50. Coz I should make my mind only listening to from one side. Other side may also have more say. When you listen from both you can have some idea which is nearly ok. You can understand who is making bad comments and who is talking with respect to others. People don’t say truth all time. But you can understand it from their work, who is really what.

Time and situation sometimes brings truth in front of you.

Get things out of hand slowly

It’s really tuff to see, that things are going out from your hand. Sometimes people can see death is coming to them; they can see and can’t do anything to prevent it… what a situation. Sometimes you will see other people to go down slowly. You can only give advice, or sometimes even can’t say anything, but only view how things going wrong… It’s a terrible experience.

Losing weight is interesting

Losing weight is difficult to do, but when you start losing it will became very interesting and come kind of addicting. Then you will always try to do some extra to lose extra weight. Last few days I was sick, and that’s make my weight less. I am feeling great… I wish to take no more extra food to recover my weight.

Cricket craze in Bangladesh

Bangladeshi people are crazy about cricket. If any team come and play in Bangladesh can understand how people love this game. No matter how important the game is, they will always see gallery is full of people. If you go anywhere you will see people are listening commentaries in radio or watching game in TV in shops, markets, work places, hospitals everywhere. Boys even aged peoples are playing cricket whenever they found some space. Most of them don’t have even bat or good balls or wickets. Even in villages, you will see children who just learn how to run, start playing cricket. In the paddy field, back-yard, wherever they found some space to play.
Even in our office people use to play cricket in the terrace. So cricket lovers are here too.
I don’t remember one of the cricket commentators told that Bangladeshi Cricket team should play good for this cricket loving people… He was right.

Daily nutrition

I am not a doctor, so can’t explain exactly what we need to eat daily for our daily nutrition. As far as I know this should be taken daily with a minimum amount…
1. Some carbohydrate (rice/wheat)
2. Some protein (meat/fish)
3. Milk
4. Egg (not everyone will agree)
5. Vegetables
6. Fruits
7. Lemon juice
And every day we should have some exercise….
What you think?

New dress in every ceremony

I always try to wear a new dress in every ceremony. From last year I am getting marathon invitation of marriage from our colleagues. Now It’s became very difficult to find new dress for every occasion. My husband understands. He brought me a new dress as birthday gift in advance to attend next invitations. Both are in same day, same time different places. My plan is give time in both one after another..

Lucky person, who has got well wisher

In career, it’s very difficult to find out well wisher. Competition is everywhere, no one will help you. Sometimes you may get some people who really help you, but they will help you unless you became thread to go over their position. You are really very lucky, if you really get a friend or well wisher, who will help you or at least won’t let you down.

Invisible

Sometimes, some people get invisible. They do work, help in others work and when the time come to mention all names, people forget about those person’s (may be intentionally) name. Not mention even in any documents. But always take their help. If you look from outside will never get to know about them.

1st day of spring

Do you like to celebrate it? Then all boys can wear Panjabi and girls can wear sharee 

Value of the work

My first thought was work value depends on priority. When you work on a high priority work, people will give you more value. If you success then will get more value. If you fail you won’t be sued coz of high priority work.

But this is not right always. Your personality/attitude matters a lot on your work. There are some people who work a lot and give successful result. But people don’t take it seriously unless they fail. Then people think what a pity. But there are other kinds of people, no matter they what work. People will reward them always. No matter whatever they do, they get rewarded. If they fail on their task, people things their work must be very tuff. So failing is nothing!

Accepting new idea from others

All can’t give you good ideas and you can’t create all good ideas by yourself. So you have to make wide your mind to accept other’s idea. Some has fear or ego problem, to accept others thoughts. Don’t know what they think, may be they afraid if they accept then people will start respect the other person. His value will go down…. We can’t progress with this kind of attitude.

Beggar with tasbeeh

From my home to main road I had to walk every morning to take lift from my colleague’s car. Every morning I saw a beggar begging. They changes sometimes, I mean not same beggar comes on the road every day. Today I heard one passerby was telling, “These beggars crying ‘Allah’, ‘Allah’ not for calling Allah or getting something from Allah. This is for begging money from the passer by. Did Allah said to use Allah’s name this way?” That guy also telling, “He saw some beggar use tasbeeh when they beg, is tasbeen is a material of begging?”
He was right….

Working slow

From last 2 days I am working a bit slow. Facing some problem in concentration. Feeling a bit sick. Don’t know what happen. Hoping it’s not bird flu… Wishing to go to a beautiful cottage in a beautiful place and sleep long time take rest….

Planning and Implementation

Planning and implementation both attached with each other. No implementation can think success without planning and no planning has any value without implementation. All humans are not same. In most cases people don’t do well in both fields. Some are good in Planning and some are good in implementation. Generally the people who do planning get paid more. They don’t do need to do much physical work but had to use their brain to give a good plan. In implementation there are several parts. Some people work physically and some people make other work and make successful work done perfectly according to the plan. Now it’s your skill and opportunity find out your best place. It’s your personality which will make you rewarded. No matter in which field you work.

Corporate hiding

In corporate level there are many things which management had to hide. And sometimes all employees hide it from outsiders. Depends, how much will you share with your colleague and how much with your known people. May be you trust a person, but that doesn’t mean you will disclose your corporate secret. You never know, may be coz of your information that person may fall in trouble. Sometimes small leakage makes big disaster.

Dry welcome

When we go any place, and see all persons even to whom I expected to be happy, shows anger or avoiding nature, how it feels? They make their face unhappy after watching you. Or behave like that you became invisible. If you enter the room and someone goes out, that must represents that they don’t like to have you or see you. It’s really terrible to live with them.
When everyone give you smile, talk with you that will make you feel peace in your mind, you will feel releafe after reaching there.

Helping friends

How much I can help my friends? I do as much as possible. But sometimes my friends fall in trouble where I can’t do anything. But at least I can give them time to make them feel better 