People don’t love you, but your position

When you do job, you will see many people loves you, care for you. They became your friend, stay with you in your good or bad time. What happen if you leave the job? No body is there for you. Even some of your relatives may start ignore you. The truth, you must realize that they love your position, not you.

Diagnosis by home doctors

What happen when we or any of our family members fall in sick? We try to diagnose by ourselves and if fail for certain time or sickness grows more and more then go to a doctor. My two sisters are now doctor. One is medicine doctor and another is dentist. Medicine one married to another medicine doctor. Dentist is still unmarried. So, whenever we face any problem we go to our dentist doctor, coz she is available and always try to give time and suggestion if anybody falls in sick. If problem is major then we contact to the medicine one or sometime to her husband (another medicine doctor). So, now these are my family doctors to diagnose any medicine.

Stay with your child always

Always try to stay with your child as much as possible. Other wise you will miss a lot. When your child grows up, every moment is memorable. How he talks, plays, eat, hear, cry, sing, and discover new things or do many other abnormal things are really a big history for his parents. He will make your day new, every day. Every move he makes is beautiful which changes every time as he grows up day by day. If you love your child, you shouldn’t miss a single moment of your child.

I won’t force you to love

“I will prefer to live alone, if you don’t love me. But I will never force you to live with me. It’s true that I love you and will wish to have you with me always”. This is what I believe. I don’t want to force anyone.

When I was a child I cry to stay on peoples lap. I can’t remember but my relatives and parents told me. I understood how much eager I was to get peoples love. I am like that now also. But now I understand that love can’t be come to you by force, if love is yours, it will come to you by itself, if it doesn’t then it wasn’t for you.

Loan Rate

When we think to take loan from any bank the first thing come in our mind is the interest rate. Then, how many installments we have to give in how many days. What will happen if we fail to give installment in time? These bank loan difficulties come in my life when I thought to buy a flat with the help of bank. Now from my personal experience I feel people should by flat when it’s ready or completed and they should pay full at a time. If you have shortage of money then try to take loan from your relatives or friends, where you don’t have to pay any interest but you have to pay back to them fully as soon as possible. But I know in most cases you won’t find any one to lend you money when you need. You know money talks. It proves how much people really care for you. I learned it from my own life.

If you love your wife, you should stand for her

A husband’s duty, care or love doesn’t complete just by saying “love you” or “care for you”. You have to stand for her to the rest of the world. No matter if others are your relatives, friends or any thing else. Your wife deserves this attitude from a husband, always. This is her right. You have to really take care of her.

Happy birthday! My son, I love you.

Today is my son's first birth day. Happy birthday! My son! Today I will give you; you’re most favorite thing, my company. Today I will be with you every single minute. And I will pray to Allah to give you every nice thing that you wish for. Coz still you didn't learn to speak.

New York

Whenever I see this name the first thing comes in my mind is the statue of Liberty. I have seen in many TV ads that this statue moves, sings, dances or changed by another face. I didn’t like this kind of thoughts. Some of my cousins (maternal) and their families are living in New York. I have heard that they are working very hard only to survive. But still they don’t want to leave that place that they are living much better life than Bangladesh.

Too much traffic in every signal, need flyovers

In Dhaka city, if there is no traffic jam, but you have to wait or kill your time, only for waiting a lot, in every node of roads. Some times traffic is too much that you need to wait to see one bunch of vehicles go and wait until your turn comes. I believe we need flyover on every node that no one had to wait or stop over traffic signal; all will go smoothly with out any stopping.

I had heard one buet student made a design for Mouchak node that there won’t be any stopping, but now no one taking any initiative to make it.

Attorney

In our country (Bangladesh) and India I have seen lawyers wear black dress over general dress. Well I never went to court. All I have seen in cinema and drama serial in TV. So whenever I hear the term Attorney, I visualize a black dressed person. But I don’t know why they dressed like that.