Calculator

In school we were not allowed to use calculator in junior classes. When we start going 9th grade then we allowed using general calculator but not the scientific one. I don’t know weather now days students are allowed to use calculator or not. As we were allowed to use general calculator, my dad gave me his used calculator. It was working fine, so I was happy. Recently I found that calculator is using my sister’s son Tameem. And still its working fine. I feel great coz I had some good memories with it. Now some times my son used to play with it. That’s also great. Everything that I have belongs to my son.

Need someone to stay with me

I am working hard to raise my son properly from day to night without any rest. Even most of the times I don’t get time to take care of me. That’s why my health condition getting worst. I really need someone to stay with me. Who can take care of my son, me and do some extra small works, which can be done by 9 or 10 years old person. If you know any one who do this kind of work. Please let me know.

Cash Settlement

In our country (Bangladesh), many people don’t believe in fix price system. I guess most of them are sellers. Coz, they are taking benefit from it. Allah knows how much they ask from the real price, may be 4 times or 5 times. If you say it’s too much they will prove you that there are hundreds of coz behind it. Like poor supply, transport cost increase, they had the better quality and you won’t get this from anywhere else in Bangladesh etc. You won’t have any option but to believe them and give more profit. Cash settlement is really a very time consuming work over here.

Samsung monitor or TV

I am using 15” Samsung monitor and 21” Samsung TV. In both cases I have heard a noise tik tok like it is switching off or on, automatically. I heard this noise at night (when everything goes silent and you can hear your clock’s tik tik noise). Even these are switched off and have no connection with power. After certain period it makes noise. Why it is? Do other brands also make noise?

Vision institute

When you do study or do job, there must be a vision about your institute in your mind. When I had admitted in Geography & Environment Department at Dhaka University, my vision is to go abroad (India) as a study tour. Coz, I didn’t have money to go or didn’t had anyone to take with. I heard that our senior batches went to India. But my bad luck, our batch couldn’t. May be we didn’t had any good responsible person who will manage this tour for our batch.

Before joining Corona Skyweb BD Ltd. (my first job), I had a vision that I won’t leave this company and will go to a big position and do very good in this company. But within one year I had to look for better opportunity.

I have seen many friends and colleagues, whose vision comes true. May be some day I will have too.

People don’t love you, but your position

When you do job, you will see many people loves you, care for you. They became your friend, stay with you in your good or bad time. What happen if you leave the job? No body is there for you. Even some of your relatives may start ignore you. The truth, you must realize that they love your position, not you.

Diagnosis by home doctors

What happen when we or any of our family members fall in sick? We try to diagnose by ourselves and if fail for certain time or sickness grows more and more then go to a doctor. My two sisters are now doctor. One is medicine doctor and another is dentist. Medicine one married to another medicine doctor. Dentist is still unmarried. So, whenever we face any problem we go to our dentist doctor, coz she is available and always try to give time and suggestion if anybody falls in sick. If problem is major then we contact to the medicine one or sometime to her husband (another medicine doctor). So, now these are my family doctors to diagnose any medicine.

Stay with your child always

Always try to stay with your child as much as possible. Other wise you will miss a lot. When your child grows up, every moment is memorable. How he talks, plays, eat, hear, cry, sing, and discover new things or do many other abnormal things are really a big history for his parents. He will make your day new, every day. Every move he makes is beautiful which changes every time as he grows up day by day. If you love your child, you shouldn’t miss a single moment of your child.

I won’t force you to love

“I will prefer to live alone, if you don’t love me. But I will never force you to live with me. It’s true that I love you and will wish to have you with me always”. This is what I believe. I don’t want to force anyone.

When I was a child I cry to stay on peoples lap. I can’t remember but my relatives and parents told me. I understood how much eager I was to get peoples love. I am like that now also. But now I understand that love can’t be come to you by force, if love is yours, it will come to you by itself, if it doesn’t then it wasn’t for you.

Loan Rate

When we think to take loan from any bank the first thing come in our mind is the interest rate. Then, how many installments we have to give in how many days. What will happen if we fail to give installment in time? These bank loan difficulties come in my life when I thought to buy a flat with the help of bank. Now from my personal experience I feel people should by flat when it’s ready or completed and they should pay full at a time. If you have shortage of money then try to take loan from your relatives or friends, where you don’t have to pay any interest but you have to pay back to them fully as soon as possible. But I know in most cases you won’t find any one to lend you money when you need. You know money talks. It proves how much people really care for you. I learned it from my own life.

If you love your wife, you should stand for her

A husband’s duty, care or love doesn’t complete just by saying “love you” or “care for you”. You have to stand for her to the rest of the world. No matter if others are your relatives, friends or any thing else. Your wife deserves this attitude from a husband, always. This is her right. You have to really take care of her.

Happy birthday! My son, I love you.

Today is my son's first birth day. Happy birthday! My son! Today I will give you; you’re most favorite thing, my company. Today I will be with you every single minute. And I will pray to Allah to give you every nice thing that you wish for. Coz still you didn't learn to speak.

New York

Whenever I see this name the first thing comes in my mind is the statue of Liberty. I have seen in many TV ads that this statue moves, sings, dances or changed by another face. I didn’t like this kind of thoughts. Some of my cousins (maternal) and their families are living in New York. I have heard that they are working very hard only to survive. But still they don’t want to leave that place that they are living much better life than Bangladesh.

Too much traffic in every signal, need flyovers

In Dhaka city, if there is no traffic jam, but you have to wait or kill your time, only for waiting a lot, in every node of roads. Some times traffic is too much that you need to wait to see one bunch of vehicles go and wait until your turn comes. I believe we need flyover on every node that no one had to wait or stop over traffic signal; all will go smoothly with out any stopping.

I had heard one buet student made a design for Mouchak node that there won’t be any stopping, but now no one taking any initiative to make it.

Attorney

In our country (Bangladesh) and India I have seen lawyers wear black dress over general dress. Well I never went to court. All I have seen in cinema and drama serial in TV. So whenever I hear the term Attorney, I visualize a black dressed person. But I don’t know why they dressed like that.

Abortion, when suddenly happens

Every woman, who are becoming mother are afraid of sudden abortion. First 3 months are crucial time. You have to be very careful. Most of the abortion occurs this time period of pregnancy. All doesn’t face same problem. So, who didn’t face any problem can easily say, not to worry, work as you can. But my suggestion is be prepare for any problem, don’t work much, take rest as much as possible, don’t move much or don’t give pressure to your nerve and body. Don’t bend your body much. Take good food and enjoy stress less life. You must remember your baby is your first priority. You can’t take risk to loss it.

Lawyers

My mom always wanted to see me as a lawyer. She told me in a family we need a lawyer and her thought was I have the talent to argue in law. I never wanted. I thought law will be a boring subject to study. When I didn’t get chance to study in law at Dhaka University, I was very happy. But many of my friends get admitted in Law. My department was just next floor from law department. One day some of my friend invited me to join their class in law. I did, and then I found law is very interesting subject for study.

Now a day for many reason we need lawyers, now I really feel in a family we need a lawyer.

Both became ill

There must be some relation between me and my son. When I get ill my son doesn’t, that’s good. When my son got sick, I also became sick, that’s good also. Then I can realize how my son is facing problem. Coz he is now only 11 months old. Can’t say where the problem is.

Terms of life

There are many terms in a life. When you are a child the main term of your life is your parents… then after married your main term will be your life partner, then your child and this will go on with your child also... this is human life...

How many times heart can be broken?

How many times heart can be broken? 3, 4, 6? Then? Then you will get used to. When I was in university I use to say, my heart became powder after breaking so many times (I didn’t had boy friend, it was by others). It can’t be broken any more. Now I can say those powders now vanished, by air. So, can’t feel anything now. I wish I couldn’t feel anything which hearts me.

Sell structured settlement

I have seen many times parents do hard work and make wealth, then their next generation live by selling structured settlements. Its true when people need they had to sell their property, but most of the people don’t try to earn by themselves but like to live by selling their parent’s property.

Sorrows, which bent your backbone

I think I shouldn’t keep this much sorrow in my life that bent my backbone. These make me feel mental troubles and can’t let me do anything properly. I better forget about these. I better think that there is no such thing exists, which or who are giving me pain. Then only I can think about other important things in my life and work for them.

Insurance in my life

I had got millions of emails on car insurance quotes
or auto insurance quotes. I deleted all coz all are for US people, where I am in Bangladesh. I know that people make insurance for their car, home, business, family etc and I feel that this is very necessary step in life. But if you ask for me then I will say I didn’t. Don’t know why I can’t rely on insurance company. I have heard they took a lot time to repay…. And always try not to pay you back. I have also heard that most general people in Bangladesh (not business man) don’t get paid.

Money is nothing, you can say, when you have money

Long time back I use to watch “Dallas” an English TV serial. Where I had hear this dialog “Money is nothing, you can say, when you have money” by a sister to a sister. It really makes me think a lot. That time I was a child but now when I need money desperately I understand and feel the value of this dialog.

Loan when you are in college

When I was in college, I always wanted to do some part time job or tuition to earn some money, but failed. Now I think it will be better if a student can get loan to do small business. Then this will be better for a student to be a big business man latter on and others will get chance to do part time job.

Father’s responsibility

A father shouldn’t forget his responsibility. It’s true, mother is the one, who cares for the child most, but that doesn’t mean father can ignore his duty for others. He should give time and take care of his child. Father should know, there are other people for others but for you child there is no other father. You have to make time for him.

Loan taken from bank

When I was studying at school load had been taken by my mom to build our home. She had been told that if she took loan from bank then it will be easier for her to manage tax papers. But actually that wasn’t true. Now she had to submit loan money which was double from actual money. And loan money wasn’t good enough to build the house. Our money had earned from abroad by our parent were tax free. But my father didn’t deposit all money in bank but out side to the brokers. So they don’t have all documents of this money so couldn’t show the tax people… my suggestion is to all don’t take loans as long as possible. Other wise you will get stuck for paying much more than actual expenditure.

Dhaka should have cleaner environment

Dhaka is becoming more populated and pollutant city day by day. Now roads and airs are full of dust. This creates lots of people’s nasal problem. Especially it’s not resistible for the children. If we want a better city, our city corporation should take more initiative action to have clean roads. They can appoint more cleaner and clean more than one time. We shouldn’t have open place which is not covered by grass or cement. We have to take care of the city.

Austin

Whenever I see this name, I got a feeling that I know this name…. But still couldn’t remember. I just have a hazy memory with a person very slim wearing off white shirt. But still couldn’t remember who this guy is. May be I had seen this named person in a movie…. Don’t know.

Love your family first

Who is your family, your wife/husband and your family? So, love them first. You have many responsibilities to your parents, bro or sisters, neighbors, other relatives. But your family should get first priority. It’s your love and responsibility.

peace in rain drops

"Borisho Dharar majhe shantiro bani" (peace in rain drops), don’t know why this song from tagor is running in my head. Is any one going to sing it? Or any nice peace news is coming towards me…

Wife shouldn’t be too good

In this Indian sub-continent, after marriage, boys use to live with his parents. That could be good for the boy’s parent not good for the bride or the boy. From the very beginning boy’s parents tries to make bride’s position bad in boy’s eye. Bride always shows patient to their parent to make the environment good and don’t inform her husband about his parents attitude. Finally things become worst and bride had to inform her husband that she can’t tolerate any more. She wants to live with her husband and child only, not with her in law family. But boys don’t agree, cozes his parent always do emotional blackmail that they had raise him so he can’t live with his wife and son but with them.

When your mate wants to travel alone

How it feels when your better half wants to travel alone? It feels that you are loving a wrong person.... who doesn't care for you... as they should. Should you think to get read of him?

My son called “Amma”

Whenever my son “Shafeen”, fall in any problem he just cried out “Amma”. That’s whay whenever he shout Amma I just run after him. Then my duty is to find out what is his problem, is he make wait his pant? Is he bitten by mosquito, is he fall in? Is he hungry? He won’t say anything but become relief whenever he saw me. He has a blind belief in me, that no matter whatever problem comes, his mom will solve it.

Soul mate

I think people can live a great life without any mate. You just have to think what is good, what is right and take decision. But you know our heart always likes to have someone who will always be with you and take care of you….. So deep inside our mind we always hungry to have someone like this. Somebody may also promise that they will be with you…. But they don’t delay to forget that. So you better learn how to live by yourself, if anyone comes to your life that’s a bonus.