In this Indian sub-continent, after marriage, boys use to live with his parents. That could be good for the boy’s parent not good for the bride or the boy. From the very beginning boy’s parents tries to make bride’s position bad in boy’s eye. Bride always shows patient to their parent to make the environment good and don’t inform her husband about his parents attitude. Finally things become worst and bride had to inform her husband that she can’t tolerate any more. She wants to live with her husband and child only, not with her in law family. But boys don’t agree, cozes his parent always do emotional blackmail that they had raise him so he can’t live with his wife and son but with them.
Friday, October 23, 2009
Wife shouldn’t be too good
In this Indian sub-continent, after marriage, boys use to live with his parents. That could be good for the boy’s parent not good for the bride or the boy. From the very beginning boy’s parents tries to make bride’s position bad in boy’s eye. Bride always shows patient to their parent to make the environment good and don’t inform her husband about his parents attitude. Finally things become worst and bride had to inform her husband that she can’t tolerate any more. She wants to live with her husband and child only, not with her in law family. But boys don’t agree, cozes his parent always do emotional blackmail that they had raise him so he can’t live with his wife and son but with them.
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well, sometimes bride doing lots of things and the boy's patents accepting all things and trying to adjust with the bride but bride didn't understand and as well compelling to his husband against his parents and trying to be separated. It's everyday happening. From both view it's not good -- the thing is that "we usually don't express all things clearly and I believe when I hide anythings that brings complexity in life -- maybe not today but tomorrow it will be more complex".
n.b -- to making comments, not so user friendly.
This is what always been told from boys family... to make look that brides are the culprit. The reality is different which I have seen in many family... that's why people should stay different place not with their parents (both in law and own).
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