Own personality

Generally, people can't stay alone. But why? If you think logically, you will find nothing wrong with being alone. But togetherness is fun or more productive. In some cases, it's a big liability.

My son is now 1 year and one month old. Every day, he is discovering something new in the world. I have seen that when he stays alone, he sometimes gets afraid or is scared to do new things. But if he sees his cousin (an 8-year-old boy) doing the same thing, he loves to do that. Will he always be like that? Will I have to show someone doing the thing so Shafeen (my son) can also try that?

I had seen in my younger brother, who always become like his friend or partner. I am watching this from his childhood. He becomes good if his friend is like that. He become rough if his friend like that. He always should have strong personality of his own. May be he has but in many cases he follows others.


Now I pray to Allah to make my son more brave to take initiative by himself, not only look at others.