I have joined some FB groups. In one group, people are together who passed their SSC exam in 1992 (Grade 10 final exam).
I don't contribute much over there, as I don't have anything to post. However, I sometimes read others' posts. In this group, people are the same age. So, sometimes they flirt with each other, or make posts by mentioning how other girls or other's wives became so attractive to them, just for fun.
Here one person's post I found a little different. He also posts on love (mostly), but his love action was with his wife. I would like to discuss Bangladeshi culture here. In Bangladesh, people can easily express their feelings of love in public with anyone but their wife. I don't know why, but nobody likes to see someone love their wife. No one believed that, and if anyone showed any respect or love, all the others started making fun of him, until he stopped loving his wife.
So, I started reading all his posts because he was open about his love for his wife. Some people didn't like it as it was a little more open. Some felt it's looks like porno (mentioning about physical activity with his wife). I won't support opening too much, but it was somewhat good. So, people should understand that they can love their wives too.
But then he changed. He became like others. Started flirting with other women. I lose interest. He is also the same as others. I don't know why he changed himself. Maybe people were taunting him too much, or he found flirting with other people's wives attracted more people to his post. I don't know.
I believe if you have something different, don't try to change it. That differentiation makes you different from others. You become unique.
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