going with flow: right? or wrong?

in my life, i have seen most of the people run with flow. whatever others doing, others eating, others wearing, others writing all follows that.

very few people i found who decide themselves what they will do.

i don’t know, weather it is good or bad. i always like to do whatever i think good. i never follow others. and i found some times its good, some times i was wrong.

Time for taking picture

Morning is the best time i guess. On that time people looks fresh, daily problem didn’t started to make look face unhappy.

What happen after lunch, people will be exhausted, and girl’s makeup will be removed ;)
But you know, we have taken out important group picture on that time.

Competition makes better product

I always believe that competition makes better product. It’s good to see other, when they are making competition with each other and give a good result.
But what happens when I am in any competition? I don’t like it. I really don’t like war, debate, competition etc. But still, I had to face all.

Don’t know how, start making expectation

If I expect anything, and then don’t get with out any strong reason, that really hurt me. That’s why always try not to expect anything from anyone.

But don’t know why, unconsciously again I start expecting. And get dishearten. I have to make my mind again, that I have no expectation from anyone. So, I don’t need to dishearten if any one don’t give me, what I should get.

Adjust with others.

Some people have very charming nature. Every body loves their company. Some doesn’t. Every one avoids them. I have seen these kinds of situations many times.

So decided, whenever I found that anybody avoiding me or dislikes me, I shall try to keep distance with them. I don’t want to bother anyone, that doesn’t make me feel good.

Need a place where I can talk

Long time back I have read from Jafar Ikbal’s book that in US people don’t have any good relation with other person, so they became sick, then finally go to the psychologist and give them big amount of money only to listen their words.

Now a day, I am feeling, may be I need that also. Coz I don’t have any one, to whom I can say all that is running in my mind.

In odd position

You know, many times i cross my fingers not to fall in odd position, but it happens. May be I am doing some thing, but don’t want to let one person noticed that. You know what will happen, that person will see it. Some times this kind of situation makes me fall in odd position, people think wrong about me.

depend on .....

A long time back, in a magazine I was reading about the wealthiest man in the world, and their tips. A rich woman was telling me not to trust or depend on anyone. She learned it from her grandpa (she also got the huge money from that grandpa). “If u had to trust, then trust, but don’t trust that person for a long time.”

Now i have to depend on a person, where i know, that persona isn’t reliable. But i have to, coz i don’t have time. Let’s see how far I can manage.

don't know how to help

today one person is complaining about some one who is superior from me. i can help that person personally, but that could make angry of my superior person. if i inform about the complain to that superior, that complainer could fall in problem. don't know what to do....

Cleaning other’s junk

Don’t know why, may be my personality makes it. I have to find it out.
Everywhere, (home+outside) i always clean other’s junk. While cleaning or after cleaning people point me for the junk. I didn’t create that junk, i was just cleaning for others favor. Don’t know, what is making to fall such situation many times.