Expecting too much from the wrong people

“Don’t blame people for disappointing you; blame yourself for expecting too much from the wrong people.”

We expect, sometimes, without thinking about anything. We hope people will drive their cars carefully, maintaining all rules. We expect our loved ones will love us back, we expect students will always respect their teacher, we expect our employees will work their best for us, we expect our employer will notice our excellent work, we expect our friends will be with us, no matter what happens, we expect our family will stay together. There are uncountable things that we expect from others.

Sometimes others can't stand up according to our expectations. We need to understand many times we expect from the wrong person. Maybe that person doesn't think about us the way we think about them. Perhaps that person doesn't respect you as you do them. It's not always their fault that they couldn't meet our expectations. Sometimes it's our fault that we expect the wrong person.

3rd world to 1st world.

When anyone came from 3rd world to 1st world, they first think everything is very fair and well driven over here. But you know, you came in 1st world, not in heaven. So, everything won't be fair as you expected. Though in many cases you will have satisfactory result.

How should a hero rescued

When we see movies, most of the time, we see, the hero fall in trouble by the bad people. Then only with the super power (most of times not possible by any human) they rescue themselves. Is that what we want to see? May be, but I don’t. I like to see a person with his limited power, strength, money and brain can find the solution and solve his problem. We found very film like that…

Don’t know how, start making expectation

If I expect anything, and then don’t get with out any strong reason, that really hurt me. That’s why always try not to expect anything from anyone.

But don’t know why, unconsciously again I start expecting. And get dishearten. I have to make my mind again, that I have no expectation from anyone. So, I don’t need to dishearten if any one don’t give me, what I should get.