Words sometimes sound wrong

Sometimes, I find a person lying, but I don’t have any direct proof to catch. Sometimes, I have evidence, but I don’t want to make relations bad, so I don’t want to show them that I know they are lying. But when I found these people were blaming me for their own fault to me, then? I had to speak up… but if I do so, others will make a wrong impression on me. Well, then I have nothing to do, whatever I said, that was the truth.

Bag from Cox’s bazaar

2 months earlier we went to cox’s bazaar. I wanted to buy something as a souvenir and also useful. I have rounded whole Barmize market and select a bag. Which is brown color, made by rexin, with plastic button, cursi hand work, metal like bronze show piece. It sounds sweet when I move the bag for metal things. After lots of bargening I could buy medium size by 300 (BDT).

When I came in Dhaka, my youngest syster told me that it is available in Dhaka also. Anyway all liked my bag very well.

Wrong report

Few day’s back I went to Medinova medical service center to altra sono. And got report I have molar pregnancy. You can understand what a mother could feel when she heard about her first child.

But again to be sure I went to Farida Clinic. First, a junior doctor asked did I come here for abortion? I was very angry and reply NO. I wanted to be sure. She said why? Your report is here and they said this is Moral pregnancy. I said, but I wanted to be sure. If needed, I like to do more tests…. By listening this kind of conversation another junior doctor said, ok, let her do another altra sono.

And from that report I got to know, I have no problem. My child is totally normal…….

Tax

I never hesitate to give tax. I feel this is my duty and I am honest everywhere. When tax cutting in high rate from my salary, then nothing more to say. I am not lawyer, don’t understand much about laws. So whatever a consultant will advice I have to follow that.

Don’t listened to good advice

Whenever I found any person is doing mistake or taking wrong decision generally I inform them what I think. I never force to listen to me. Coz I don’t want them to feel that I am dominating them. I only don’t say anything If that person isn’t talking to me, or not ready to listen anything from me.

But still, few people have some ego problem, especially who are in bigger position than me. I don’t know what they think, may be they think I can’t be right, or if they listen to me then their position will be insecure. Anyway when they avoid or argue on my opinion, I don’t say anything. Let them suffer for their own decision. After few months or few weeks they will understand automatically that they were wrong and I had given correct decision.

The matter of fun is they never accepted when they found that I was right and there were wrong. They just show there face like this that nothing happened. Funny!

Client relation in IT

Every business has something called Client Relation. Same goes for IT companies also. But meaning is a bit different and complex over here.

In other product after completion of the product, production people sale it to the clients and clients don’t have anything to say to the production. If they like it they will take it otherwise won’t take that’s it.

It’s not same for IT business. Here from beginning to end and after ending the product, client can give their opinion, they can ask to edit, change and again re-change their product and they can easily left the product or not pay for the product anytime. So, here in IT business customer relation is very important and contact person had to have a good communication skill to maintain this job. This importance goes for the developer also. They had to understand what client might think, but couldn’t explain how they want their product. Sometimes clients change their mind in-between project and even after project. After watching and seeing the product client always found they need to change something. And nothing wrong with it. Developers job is to fulfill their request. But here another big issue come, this kind of changing might take more time to work which obviously will increase the project cost. Where client might not interested. So contact person had to make sure that how much change client wants and how much it will cost for them. Is it overlapping the budget? Is it mentioned in the contract? Is client ready to pay extra cost? If not then how much extra work can company provide (as they don’t want to make any bad relation with the client)?

This responsibility goes to project owner mainly. Marketing team can also handle it.

Invisible girl

Did you read the ‘Invisible Man’? I read it in my school. On that wanted be invisible. Many people wants to invisible and move around all area. Some magicians can do it also.
Now I think I became invisible, which I wanted some day in my childhood. I work for almost every project but no where my name mentioned. In wiki and other doc they mention names who are involved in this project but forget to mention my name. They make plan and forget invite me on that meeting. Later on I had to collect all info to know about the project and its status perfectly and to do my job. When people need they remember me and take benefit of my work but after that or some times during my work time I remain invisible for them. So no doubt when salary increment issue comes, my one still remains like previous condition.

Habitat in flexible environment

You know, when you are use to live in a flexible environment, it’s very difficult to adjust if your management show any restriction.
Generally management always shows flexible decision whenever I am in trouble. But recent 2 of their decision really give me some trouble. I didn’t argue with them. May be I should raise my voice at least maybe I should let them know that I have some different opinion. Problem is by nature I don’t like to argue with anyone. Just ignore if not possible to adjust, left them.

My heart has gone

For some day’s I am thinking that I am in nice hotel just beside the beach. Sleeping, taking rest, eating delicious food and having nice vacation. But reality is far from there. This is really making me tired.

Use to

When you are sick for couple of days you can take necessary rest and then come back to your work. What will happen if you became sick for months? Then there isn’t any way, to take rest for such a long time. You have to use to with it and do your regular job.