Self confidence

You will often see people comment badly about you, your looks, your work, and your success. You have to know which one is true and which is not. Otherwise, if you start believing them, they will make you a permanent loser, like if you are good at singing. But your family and friends never encourage you. They might say you are okay but not good enough. And if you start believing that you will never be a good singer. Believe in yourself. Ask yourself, if you don’t get a chance from others, it doesn’t mean that is your fault. Maybe others couldn’t understand. Keep searching your way. And have faith in you. You might change your fortune.

Does child take mother’s brain?

I have seen my elder sister, who forgets to keep control on her behavior after giving birth of a baby boy. She even can’t think properly. I was thinking does woman lose their brain after giving birth? Now I found myself in that condition. My work speed gets slow. I can’t concentrate on work properly.

Left all after getting child

I have seen many women who left their job/ career after getting a child. Several time me though it’s not a good decision. Life shouldn’t be stopped for getting a child. But now I can feel why this happens. You know what right now the only thing I like to think and do is for my child. I wish I could get rid of everything. But I know that will be a suicide decision for me. I can’t leave my career.