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I got to know about a girl. She is working in a good mobile
operating company. She is living with husband and 2 kids. And now a day husband’s
sister, brother, father (sometimes) and mother (occasionally). She spends all
her money for her family and so that her husband can give his money to his
parents and to raise his other siblings. He couldn’t save money for his own
children future. His wife saves some but she had expended those in her husband’s
sister marriage ceremony. Now what is the position of this wife to the family?
Everybody love her for sacrificing everything to this family?
NO, no body from her in law side likes her. They want more.
She kept 2 maids to work at home and take care of her children, while she works
outside. Her husband’s family wants her to cook for them. They tell everyone
they know that their sister in law isn’t good enough. She doesn’t cook for
them! They don’t care whether she should live alive or not, no matter how hard
she is working and expending money for them. They want more and more. They do
different policies to make her cook. One day her father in law boiled some
vegetables to eat, and then her brother in law asked to stop it, because it
will reduce her work.
See, what a life of a woman in Bangladesh. And this
condition is very natural in our social life. We don’t think that all are
making a woman’s life miserable… We always encourage the groom’s family to be
hard on their bride.
3 comments:
It's realy a tragetic and foul culture.Each part shuld be sympathetic and understanding to other. For making the family life happy all members should stand each other, recognize other's contributions and expectations & limitations.
This is extremely sad but it is a very common situation in Bangladesh right now. My own mother went through this thing. But I have hope for our future generation. I know that my wife, my daughter (or daughter in law)and my granddaughter (if I'm lucky enough to have one) will not suffer this same injustice. Small changes will help us change the world
Thanks Tareq, that's the point. If any reader can understand this then I am successful.
One more thing, you can protect this situation for your wife and daughter in law, but you can say about it to your daughter or grand daughter. That will depend on their in law family.
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