Shafeen with an elite look |
In our country you can easily communicate or mix with the middle
class people. Where we face little difficulty with upper class and too lower
class people. Let me tell you how I had experienced.
That time I was studying at the 1st year at
Geography & Environment in Dhaka University. Our mam one day give us a
survey task. That we have to go, door to door, who has little plantation at
their home and check how much space they occupied with that. This was my first
survey to communicate directly. I was little afraid. So, I took my cousin bro
with me. I thought people won’t let me get in their house, because first they don’t
know me, then I will take their time and will irritate them with my questioners.
But responses were totally different. I just told them I came from Dhaka
University and they opened their door and take me inside their house. They
wanted to feed me whatever they have and happily helped me in my survey. They
were all middle class family (I took this survey in a middle class area).
When I was studying in second year, we went to Haluaghat at
Maymansing. It’s a border area and most people are lower income family. I told
them several times that I came from Dhaka University, I don’t have any contact
with government, and they didn't listen. They told me to take their pictures
and story and told this to prime minister. I had to stay at their home for couple
of minutes, except they complain didn't get much. Only one Garo (a tribal
society) family looks living very well. They welcome us and let us sit and let
us see inside their house. All were looking beautiful. They were not living too
lower income status.
In our final year we went to Bagerhat. This time our team
got job to take survey to upper class family. First I sit in a tea stall and
take a cup of tea and discuss with the tea maker who are the rich family in
this area, who has more than one lakh income monthly. I found my informer knows
a lot. He gave us information about contractor, doctor and business man’s
address. And later I found he was totally correct with his info.
Here people asked us too many questions (we were
3 girls) before they open the door, then didn't get inside the home unless they
take little interview of us. Good, all should think about their security. Then nobody
wanted to answer my survey questions, they afraid, all will go to government
and that may create problem. I ensured them these are only for educational
purpose, and finally somehow manage them. One old man didn't convince at all.
He was a business man. So, I had to make some tricks. I asked all question like
I was gossiping with him. And he answered all. Later we got to know who
interviewed the middle class family really got warm reception and again who
interviewed the lower class, faced problem.
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