Safe place for us

Photo credit: Tameem

We always want a safe place for us and our beloved persons. Actually as a well wisher, we want this for all living things. So, we catch birds and keep it in the cage. Then give them food, water and talk or sing with them. Then we felt good that we gave them a good place to live. Is it so? I guess birds don't think so. They want to fly in the sky and live on a tree without any problem. That's the best place for them. Same we do with animals. We think we are saving them and giving them a happy life. Where we are actually destroying their life.

Is that it? NO, we do this for human too. Actually we don't know which place is the best for one. If I think about our country (Bangladesh), I had face bad food, too much crowd, traffic jam, people don't care about the benefit of the society, education problem, health problem etc.

Now if I choose live in a better country then what might happen. My son may face drug problem, violence at school, he might had to live in too cold area, we may had no friends to give us time, loneliness may hit us, we may face trouble to perform our native culture etc.

Then where to go? But still we had see all plus and minus points and decide which might be the best solution for us. We may take wrong decision but we have to live with that.

Want to go near to the nature

I and my son are at “Jol jongoler kabbo”. February 05, 2012

It’s been long time that we (me and my son) are living in this mega city and enjoying the city life. Because of political crisis couldn't go out at November and December (when Shafeen get vacation from school). Now our country's situation became little calm. But we can’t plan to go out now, because school has started and classes going on with full speed. More over Shafeen’s Moktob (to learn Quran and other Islamic rules) started too. I am really crying inside me. I just wish to go somewhere to spend time with nature, with open air cooked food. No tension, no stress, only to spend some good time.

We should take care about our country’s image

When a person visits other country, they don’t represent only themselves, but their country. When we see any Italian in our country, we watch how they talk, what is their behavior, what they eat and we assume all Italians are like that. Now when we go out to other country, we should remember that, we are actually representing out country. Whatever we do people will assume all Bangladeshi people are like that.

In many countries our country people had gone. Many of them are well educated; they lived in town, and have idea about modern life. Now there are other kinds of people too who lives in village, some of them even never ride on a bus. When that person went to western world with plane, you can’t imagine how they will behave. Many of them make so wrong attitude that even other Bangladeshi people falls in shame.

My suggestion is when we know people are going abroad for the first time, we should give them some idea how to use modern technology, how we should behave with other person, some necessary English.

Otherwise people from other countries will get very wrong feeling about Bangladesh and Bangladeshi people.

We are waiting…

We were waiting…

We are waiting… waiting for the better situation of our country to go for an outing… We are not in a railway station but at home. Waiting for a good weather with a good country situation where people can go anywhere and have their own time.

I just wish that the situation will become well

Shafeen and me went out...

It’s been long time that I didn't go out for a travel. For me this is a terrible situation. After long waiting I had planned to go out from Dhaka in this November. But our country's situation became very worse that can’t think to go out with a kid. I don’t like it. I wish everything will become well soon and we can make a nice tour…. I just wish.