Forgot how to take things easy

Shafeen is giving chance to others to ride on his camel (tree)

I was watching Bigboss 7; I saw everybody was so serious in every task (game). Those were just game. But they were fighting like the life and death problem. They forgot how to take things easy.

I realize this is happening in our everyday life too. We took many things so serious that creates lots of unnecessary problems. If we could take things easy life can be much better. We can solve many problems with smile. Screaming and shouting isn't the solution for everything. Mostly it creates more distance and problem for each other.

Common fighting of my son

My youngest sister Shekha (Dia’s mom), Shafeen and Dia

Shafeen was 2 years and 2 months old. He was very happy to have a sister.

Shafeen and Dia are brother and sister. Their age difference is 1 and half year. They were very good friend until they could communicate with each other with mother language. But whenever they grew enough to talk with each other they can’t tolerate or play together. We (elders) had to sit between them as a peace maker to keep them away. Otherwise world war 3 will be started. Though when they stay away they misses very much each other, often asks where is my bro or sis? But till now can’t keep them in one room.

conflict between two of ur colleague

When you found, two of your colleague are fighting physically, you can enjoy it like wrestling. Until it become too serious. And when cold war starts it’s really difficult to handle. Both will want you to their side and you can’t do that. Coz, you don’t like to dishearten any one.

To handle this you have stay quite until the problem solves by it self. If you want to solve it by taking some initiative, then 2 things can happen

1. U will make the total think worst.

2. Both of ur colleague will forget their war between them, and you will become both of their enemy.

Let’s think positive, all will be happy and appreciate u, you have 2% chance of it among 100%.