Showing posts with label speak. Show all posts
Showing posts with label speak. Show all posts

Sunday, June 29, 2025

Can't speak or speak less


 Can't speak much and don't speak much aren't the same. 

Some people hesitate, fear, or are too shy to speak up. 

Others speak less because of their personality; they communicate only what is necessary, avoiding unnecessary chatter.

Some shut themselves down when they feel mentally low or in anger. 

Some have physical or mental disabilities that make speaking difficult. These can range from minor reasons like bad breath or crooked teeth, to hiding an accent, struggling with a new language, or having physical or mental limits. 

Another group speaks less because they don't know much or have done something wrong. 

So, when you meet someone who speaks less, it doesn't mean they have a problem preventing them from working. Not all employees need to be talkative. You want someone who will do their job honestly; that's the backbone of your company's success.

Monday, April 3, 2023

Biography 165: Speaking in the class


 I have studied in combined (Boys and Girls) classes from nursery to grade 4. Then I went to the girl's school and college. I came in the combined classes at the University of Dhaka.

Did I miss boys in these years? NO. I had already decided not to marry, so I avoided being emotionally involved with any boys. I didn't care whether I was with boys or girls. I spoke with all in the same way. As I am a religious person. I don't touch or show my body to boys.

Before joining the classes, I decided to talk with everyone, whoever sat beside me. I knew I was an introverted person. If I keep quiet in class, people will misunderstand me. So, I pushed myself so that at least I had a classmate in the class with whom I could spend time.

Later I found this was a bad idea. In most cases, boys thought I started loving him, and that's why trying to make a conversation. No, this wasn't the university boys' situation. Whenever I talk with anyone, that person feels I am in love with them.

This way, I have had some conversations with each person in the class. So, the course became very comfortable for me. I could talk with anyone whenever needed.

Friday, September 6, 2013

Now have to listen all from the daily story maker

Here, Shafeen was 2 years and 8 months old.

My son speaks a lot. He asks questions a lot. He has thousands of long stories to tell. He wanted to talk all day long. The problem is with the listener. His mom can’t give him full attention to his talking all day long. He doesn't like that. Sometimes, he grabs her face in front of him to have full attention. Sometimes start asking “ammu” “ammu” in his story to have a reply. Mom has no option but to listen and reply to all his stories and queries. It’s mom’s duty. Maybe it is in the same way his mom disturbed the world before.