Dealing with new life

Started new journey of my life with my husband and his family (now they are also my family). I have heard many bad things and good things about Bangladeshi family, how they treat bride and her family.. I found some are right and some isn’t for me. Now I am living in my present time. I can’t see where my future life will go. I shall try to be just like me. No matter what comes in front of me. I will face it….if possible, shall enjoy it.

Big ring

I like rings. Today in the market i found a salesman standing with some rings in front the market. I saw i don’t have those kinds of rings which he was holding. I choose one, which is little bigger size. Generally i don’t wear such big size ring. Let’s see how it suits with me. I took the ring and look at my friend. He understood my sign, and pays the bill :)

escape

I wish i could escape from this known world to an unknown place for 2 days! I wish! I wish to get a chance like that….

Miss understanding in relation

I am very friendly (at least i think so). Always talk and behave with boys and girls same (almost). No matter he/she is my friend, colleague, friend’s friend, relative, class mate etc. Now if any one takes it other way then that should not be my fault. And I shouldn’t change my behavior with him/her on basis of what he/she thinking.

Many times I found boys think I fall in love with him. It doesn’t mean I have to react on it. If he things so then it’s their problem. I like to meet and talk with him as before, friendly. I am a well wisher to all and always want well to all. I don’t play with any one’s heart. I hate it.

Many times I found that girls’ things I am moody. It’s not true. I like to listen and then talk; if not needed I don’t speak. Less speaking style shouldn’t be taken as moody girl. This situation makes me little changed. Now a day, I try to talk more, but always try be aware that I am not making bore any one.

Salary creates value

How do u measure corporate value… designation, salary, responsibility, work efficiency? First i though, people give value to other person based on designation. That’s why people ask what r u doing?...

Now concept changed little bit. i found not only designation, people give u respect based on salary. If u get less.. No one will listen to u, not even yours subordinates. They knew company isn’t giving u good salary… so u don’t have much value that they will respect u.

Moving a bit slow

In my brain i think, too much data stored and all are in process…. so now a day i am moving a bit slow…. always checking priority, then work, again checking next priority coz in the mean time some new properties added.

headache

in my previous office, my office colleagues were surprised, coz in a year i didn’t take 1 day leave. they were telling, at least one day u should be in sick.. i just remember that today. coz today i am feeling serious headache. don’t know how i will manage all work and meetings.. lets see.. lets try.

Don’t know which one to support

2 people are arguing. One is in fever of me. And another is talking about good for all (my part became much less)... Which one to support?

How people create problem for me

Some times people make a total wrong situation with out telling a lie… very difficult to bring it back to the right position.

If any person only describe about the bad things of situation, and just left all good things…. when any one listen that, they will found what a mess happened, actually it wasn’t like that.. There were some problem but none of them are biggg and all can be solved easily.

i am trying to handle every thing nicely… lets see how far can i go.