Train yourself to accept failures, rejections, and accept NO in any part of life. When you become used to winning and achieving everything, it will be very hard for you if you're denied something simple.
Some people don't ask for help or anything from anyone because they know they can't handle hearing NO. It hurts them so much that they've decided to live independently without asking anyone for anything.
Have faith in Allah; whatever happens, accept it and move on. Learn to accept failure.
It's really very difficult to stay in the present time and satisfy whatever you can do and already have in your life. I am grateful for so many things that have happened and are happening in my life. Still, I want to do so many things, and I want to achieve so many.
If I fail to do what I want or don't achieve what I want, my self-esteem goes down. It's challenging for me to cheer myself up and motivate myself to enjoy myself in the present time. I failed very rarely in my life, and that makes my expectations too high. Now I can't make myself to ready to fail several times, it's ok. Life doesn't get stuck in one failure. I know everything, but still, any negativity makes me paralyzed. I literally can't work then. I had to rest, motivate my mind, and slowly and gradually hold myself again.
I hope I will learn to fail and smile, shake off all negativity and live all by myself without caring about who is with me or not. I am trying. Someday, I will learn.
Math and language are both essential subjects for kids to learn. But if you only want to focus on those two subjects, that won't be good for anyone. Kids are not computers or working machines that they just need to learn those topics only. Kids shouldn't be raised like a working machine. We should nourish them so that they can use their creativity and improve mankind as well as themselves. We should let them grow as they want to be and guide them so that their mentality or actions don't harm anyone or themselves. That should be our education policy.
This way, kids, who are our future generation, will be able to find solutions that we can never think of, and they will find the best way to improve the earth's lifestyle. Let them be creative and let them do whatever they are good at, not just as a workforce or labour.
I am trying to teach my son as many things (that I felt needed) as possible. Once I thought, whatever I know, I will teach my son. Whatever things that I felt good, will tell him, he will decide whether he will follow those or not.
Reality and your planning can't go 100% the same. The real world is more beautiful, more interesting and gives you more trouble than you can ever think of.
Sometimes when I try to teach him something, but he gets that totally wrong. Let me give you an example. When I divide any food, I always took to the worse one, a small one. I thought my son will learn from me that when he picks something, he should give better ones to others and took the worse ones for himself. One day when my son was distributing food, he gave me the worse one! He learnt from me that I should have the worse thing!
My son uses to believe in my suggestion without any doubt, till he became 12. Now a day, he thinks, many times I am not giving him the right decision. I can assume, later he might think, all my suggestions are wrong.
I am having doubt, will I be able to teach him, as I wanted to?
