Showing posts with label live. Show all posts
Showing posts with label live. Show all posts

Friday, January 24, 2025

Living in separately.


 In Bangladesh, it is a tradition that mother-father and grandparents (paternal) will live with their boys, even after they get married. The boy's wife will be responsible to take care of all and tolerating everyone's tantrum.

People show they are very happy. Only actually, no one is happy. The relations between them have become bitter and worse. Most of the bride faces mental issues because of this. The boy is always with his parents and grandparents, so he never understands the bride's problems.

I never wanted to live with anyone else except my immediate family. I told my son that after marriage, you must live with your wife separately. We can live near an apartment or house if you need help (like taking care of kids and other staff). But we have to let your wife live life independently.

Monday, February 10, 2014

All have to live well, if you want to live well.


On this earth, both constructive and destructive works is going on at the same time. Few people working hard to make good and some are giving full attention to make good only for them (hurting others). Some people are looking for another home on other planet. These works are very expensive. If any how they can build a new home for earth people that will be too expensive too. Only those people who have money and power might take this opportunity. So, what might happen? If they decide, only they will survive and others have to be destroyed then they can destroy this earth and escape to new planet. But you know everywhere you will need people to grow food, to construct town, make dresses and other things. Actually people can’t live alone. You can’t live well by only making good things for you. We are all in same eco system. We all have to live well, if we really want to live well.