In Bangladesh, it is a tradition that mother-father and grandparents (paternal) will live with their boys, even after they get married. The boy's wife will be responsible to take care of all and tolerating everyone's tantrum.
People show they are very happy. Only actually, no one is happy. The relations between them have become bitter and worse. Most of the bride faces mental issues because of this. The boy is always with his parents and grandparents, so he never understands the bride's problems.
I never wanted to live with anyone else except my immediate family. I told my son that after marriage, you must live with your wife separately. We can live near an apartment or house if you need help (like taking care of kids and other staff). But we have to let your wife live life independently.
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