Biography 325: Because I am following the rule.

 My father has given me a ride many times on his bike or motorcycle. I always felt he drove very carefully and smoothly. He started driving a car in Saudi Arabia. Again, I have noticed he drives carefully. I think he has had only 2 accidents in his life, and in both, he was not at fault.

I have started driving in Canada. From the very beginning, I drive carefully and smoothly. In this country, when it is written Max 50k, people drive at 60k. Police consider up to 10k/20k. I always drive 50k in that situation. I feel the rules are made for safety, and everybody should maintain them. So I always see other drivers get angry. They pass my car, giving me an angry look. Not because I am breaking any rule, but because I am following the rule.

Biography 119: Bed

 We are 4 sisters. We had a common bedroom. In that bedroom, we had one was a big bed. My mom got it from our grandfather (Paternal). This was a high, old-style bed. 

By default, I was in charge of that bed. My poor sisters had to listen to me. Trust me that was good for them. In the morning we all had school and college, so no one had time to make the bed. But before sleep one of us had to make the bed perfectly in rotation. I won't let anyone sleep on a dirty bed. All four will put the mosquito net on the bed. Everyone has their own corner.

My sisters like to use side pillows (In Bangla, kol balish). You can imagine in a single bed if 3 of them use sile pillows then it is actually taking 7 person's space (Including all of us). I told them, no one can use "Kol balish". They denied. I throw them all out from the bed. Told them to get used to sleeping without that side pillow, we need enough space to sleep. But they can't, at night they use their head pillow as a side pillow and sleep without a pillow under the head.

Rule followers face more trouble

I always follow rules. Like driving rules, school rules, work area rules, meeting rules etc. I try to follow all given procedure. I believe rules has been made to make good for all and for safety.

But the way I am finding myself in trouble. I think, may be because I am following rules too much. I have seen people who just pass rules for their own benefit, they make things easy for them and live happy. No one can put them in trouble.

Though I am not going to change, I will be honest always. It just hurts me.

Easy rule for love

If you love someone, that’s great.

If that person didn’t love you back, even better.

Let them go, set yourself free from them and enjoy your life 100%.

May be someday the person who truly loves you will be with you.

If you think you can’t live without them,

Then go and get them.

Keep trying, never give up. Probably you will have them.

If not, then after death, at least you can say, I tried.

Rules

Its difficult to find the correct rules for anything. Like driving, immigration etc. There is a rule book off course, but there are also many hidden rules out there. Only professionals know most of them. If you don’t know, you will be failed.