I once had a fever. At night, my fever became very high. I went to the washroom, and my parents woke up. Then I was washing my face. The basin was outside the restroom. My parents asked, "Are you OK?" I said, "I am OK but feeling very sick." Mom understood the situation. She asked my dad to hold her and take her to bed. When my father hold me, I fell down, he pick me up and put me on bed.
Now, I can understand why both of them didn't sleep. Because of my sickness, I made no noise when I went to the bathroom, but they came to check on me.
You won't understand your Parents' love until you become a parent.
It's difficult to love, help and care for people who don't want you. But you know that they need you. I did that kind of work continuously in every workplace, educational institute, family, and friend. I am tired now. But still, I am doing it for one person. Because I knew that individuals didn't have anyone except Allah and me. And they have no idea about it, always trying to push me away.
I am waiting for that day when someone else will take the responsibility and let me go away.
"You don't need to be liked by everyone. Not everyone has good taste."
It's not necessary to strive for everyone's approval. People have their own unique preferences and opinions, and these can't be universally catered to. Trying to please everyone would mean sacrificing your own authenticity and self-respect.
It's important to embrace your individuality, even if not everyone appreciates it. Not everyone has the ability to recognize or value the best qualities you possess. It's better to stay true to yourself, and those who truly appreciate you will naturally gravitate towards you.
Remember, people are different, and that's okay. Don't worry about pleasing everyone; just focus on being true to yourself. Let others live their lives, and you live yours.
Real-life is more interesting and adventurous than any novel. When you hear from people you will be amazed how two people have started feeling for each other. Sometimes even without meeting or seeing each other. You never know what is waiting for your life, so wait and enjoy.
I have got this feeling When I was listening to this song. And I am a big fan of Rahat Fateh Ali Khan (Singer).
[English version has given in bold]
koi bole dariya hai
kaisa, kaisa hai isq
koi maane sehra hai
kaisa, kaisa hai isq
koi sone sa tole re
koi maati sa bole re
koi bole ke chandi ka hai chhura
hota aise ye mauke pe
roka jaaye na roke se
achcha hota hai hota ye bura
kaisa ye isq hai, ajab sa risk hai..
somebody says it's a sea,
how, how's love
somebody says it's a desert,
how, how's love
somebody weighs like gold,
somebody says it's like soil,
somebody says it's a silver knife.
it happens at such a time,
you can't stop even if you wish to,
it's good and it's bad.
how's this love, it's a strange risk.
muskilon mein ye daale
jo bhi chahe kara le,
badle ye dilon ke faisle,
man ka mauji,
isq to ji
albeli si raahon pe le chale
koi peechhe na aage hai
phir bhi jaane kyun bhaage hai
maare isqe ka isqe ka dil mera
isqe uske ye hisse mein
tere mere ye kisse mein
maula seekhe bin seekhe bin de sikha
kaisa ye isq hai, ajab sa risk hai..
kaisa ye isq hai, ajab sa risk hai..
it lands (you) into trouble,
it gets done whatever it wishes to,
it changes hearts' decisions,
doer of its own wishes,
this love is,
it takes you on unique roads,
nobody is there ahead or behind,
still don't know why it runs,
my heart is a victim of love,
in his and her parts,
in this story of yours and mine,
O God, teach me without me making an effort to learn.
how's this love, it's a strange risk.
ga ga ga ga ga ma ga
ga ga ga ga ga ma ga
ga ga ga ga ga ma ga re sa re dha ni
(Aalaap)
naina laage to jaage
bina dori ya dhaage
bandhte hain do naina khwaab se
na ata ho na pata ho
kore naino mein koi aa base,
iska uska na iska hai
jaane kitna hai kiska hai
kaisi bhaasa mein bhasa mein hai likha
isqe uske ye hisse mein
tere mere ye kisse mein
maula seekhe bin seekhe bin de sikha
kaisa ye isq hai, ajab sa risk hai..
kaisa ye isq hai, ajab sa risk hai..
When my eyes met (someone's eyes) I woke up,
without a cord or string,
two eyes are met by way of dreams,
there is no offer, nothing is known,
and in blank (new) eyes someone comes and stays,
love neither his nor her,
nobody knows how much is whose,
I don't know what language it is written..
in his and her parts,
in this story of mine and yours,
O God, teach me without me making an effort to learn..
I heard this song in Walmart. It was the background music for the customers in Walmart. I liked the melody so asked one Walmart employee, what is this song. He couldn't tell me. After half an hour he came to me and told me this is "Attention" from Charlie Puth.
I thought this melodious song must be a good romantic song. I listened and read the lyrics. Oh no... it is a heartbreaking song.
Lyrics:
Oh-oh, ooh You've been runnin' round, runnin' round, runnin' round throwin' that dirt all on my name 'Cause you knew that I, knew that I, knew that I'd call you up You've been going round, going round, going round every party in L.A. 'Cause you knew that I, knew that I, knew that I'd be at one, oh
I know that dress is karma, perfume regret You got me thinking 'bout when you were mine, oh And now I'm all up on ya, what you expect? But you're not coming home with me tonight
You just want attention, you don't want my heart Maybe you just hate the thought of me with someone new Yeah, you just want attention, I knew from the start You're just making sure I'm never gettin' over you
you've been runnin' round, runnin' round, runnin' round throwing that dirt all on my name 'Cause you knew that I, knew that I, knew that I'd call you up Baby, now that we're, now that we're, now that we're right here standing face-to-face You already know, already know, already know that you won, oh
I know that dress is karma (dress is karma), perfume regret You got me thinking 'bout when you were mine (you got me thinking 'bout when you were mine) And now I'm all up on ya (all up on ya), what you expect? (oh baby) But you're not coming home with me tonight (oh no)
You just want attention, you don't want my heart Maybe you just hate the thought of me with someone new Yeah, you just want attention, I knew from the start You're just making sure I'm never gettin' over you, oh
What are you doin' to me, what are you doin', huh? (What are you doin'?) What are you doin' to me, what are you doin', huh? (What are you doin'?) What are you doin' to me, what are you doin', huh? (What are you doin'?) What are you doin' to me, what are you doin', huh?
I know that dress is karma, perfume regret You got me thinking 'bout when you were mine And now I'm all up on ya, what you expect? But you're not coming home with me tonight
You just want attention, you don't want my heart Maybe you just hate the thought of me with someone new Yeah, you just want attention, I knew from the start You're just making sure I'm never gettin' over you (over you)
What are you doin' to me? (hey) what are you doin', huh? (what are you doin', what?) (What are you doin', to me? What are you doin', huh?) (What are you doin', to me? What are you doin', huh?) (What are you doin' to me, what are you doin', huh?)
I thought I will never get married. After growing up I realize, it's really very difficult to stay unmarried in Bangladesh. Then I thought I will marry, but there must be a purpose. I mean because of my marriage something good should happen.
Now I realize, to get married the only thing you need is love. Not just likeness. When you love someone and that person also loves you, no matter what problems come, you guys can fix it or remove it or just ignore it.
Though the song is very common, you heard it everywhere, but still, I like it. I like it more than the original one.
Original cover of "Can't Take My Eyes Off You" by Frankie Valli.
LYRICS:
I love you, baby, and if it's quite all right
I need you, baby, to warm these lonely nights
I love you baby
Trust in me when I say
Tu ik Vaari Aa to Sahi Lyrics Translation | Judwaa 2
Movie: Judwaa 2 Music: Meet Bros Lyrics: Sonu Saggu Singers: Meet Bros, Neha Kakkar, Roach Kill (Rap) Music Label: T-Series
sun baby deadly hai teri walk ni tere Thumke bhi karte hain Talk ni
listen baby your walk is deadly, even your dance moves talk.
ho dil kare dekhi jaaun teri ore tu nazrein mila to sahi
the heart says that I should keep looking at you, just meet my gaze...
dil diya hai jaan bhi tujhe denge dil diya hai jaan bhi tujhe denge tu ik vaari aa to sahi dil diya hai jaan bhi tujhe denge tu ik vaari aa to sahi dil diya hai jaan bhi tujhe denge tu nazrein mila to sahi tu ik vaari aa to sahi
I have given you my heart, I'll give you my life too, just come once. I have given you my heart, I'll give you my life too, just meet my gaze... oh, come once.
kab mummy daddy mere tu paTaayega leke banD baaja ghar mere aayega kab tak mujhe aise hi ghumayega tu baat baRhaa to sahi
when will you convince my parents? when will you come home with a wedding procession? for how long will you take me for rides like that, now move this thing ahead...
dil diya hai jaan bhi tujhe dungi dil diya hai jaan bhi tujhe dungi tu ik vaari... tu ik vaari aa to sahi dil diya hai jaan bhi tujhe dungi tu ik vaari aa to sahi dil diya hai jaan bhi tujhe dungi tu nazrein mila to sahi tu ik vaari aa to sahi
I have given you my heart, I'll give you my life too, just come once. I have given you my heart, I'll give you my life too, just meet my gaze... oh, come once.
o baby I just wanna tell you if I ever got a chance to love you
tu dil mera luT ke lai gayi te ankhaan naal sab kuchh keh gayi
you looted and took my heart away, and said everything with your eyes.
jab maarda tu mujhpe Try’aan sharma ke meri palak hai jhukdi jab pakRe tu meriyan kalaiyaan heartbeat baRhdi te kabhi rukdi
when you hit on me, my eyelids are bowed with coyness, when you hold my wrists, my heartbeat sometimes increases and sometimes seems to stop.
huaa tujhse main kuRiye attach ni teri kunDli bhi kar lunga match ni tujhe jaldi se wifey banaunga tu mooD bana to sahi
I've gotten attached to you, O girl, I'll even match my horoscope with yours, I'll make you my wife soon, you just get in the mood.
dil diya hai jaan bhi tujhe denge dil diya hai jaan bhi tujhe denge tu ik vaari aa to sahi dil diya hai jaan bhi tujhe denge tu ik vaari aa to sahi dil diya hai jaan bhi tujhe denge tu nazrein mila to sahi tu ik vaari aa to sahi
My mom was a full-time worker, and most of the time, she had to work more than her work time. She was doing very well in her job, had taken all the necessary training, and always stayed at the top of her colleagues. When I was 7 months old, my mom had to go to Khulna from Dhaka for a six-month training course. When she returned, I forgot her.
My mom is a short-tempered person. She has high blood pressure. She has gone through several surgeries. But she holds and keeps up our family including my dad's family and her parent's family. I told you she worked really hard for income, then at home to raise 5 kids. She has taken care of our education and also took us everywhere for our extracurricular activities. My dad liked the food, and she used to make different kinds of food. She was the one who worked with the labourers to build our 5-story building. Still, she is maintaining the house and taking care of all tenants. She did it all at the same time.
I love and respect my mom. But I always keep some distance. As I mentioned earlier, she was short-tempered. When she gets angry, she screams and uses her hand like all Bangladeshi moms. I'm the one who suffered most of the time. Because I wasn't good in (Compared to my other siblings) education, I didn't like to read, I liked to run around the house and drop things. One day, I escaped from our home with my sister and went to my uncle's house. My dad once told me, "Why don't you run away when your mom started hitting you?" I respect her. Another day, she was scolding me, and my son was 3/4 years old. He loves both, so he pushed Granny outside the room and locked the door. Then told me not to go outside now.
I know, most of the Bangladeshi mom raises their kid this way, this is their way of parenting. But for me, this situation created a big gap between my mom and me. I never went to her on any issue like other girls do (And they should). I didn't tell her when my period started, I didn't tell her when someone tried to abuse me, I didn't tell her anything that happened in my school, dancing or singing classes. I was all by myself. Still, I am.
I talk with my mom but don't try to continue more than 5 minutes. I know after that we will start arguing. My son loves his granma. She uses to bought him potato chips (Because I didn't want to give him). Even now she asked me to buy chips for him.
My mom is a very hard working woman. She helped every single relative who needed it. she takes care of all of us. Still she works more than me. I wish I could do something for her to make her life a little easier.
Really? How many times you have seen this winning?
I have seen so many times, people fall in love, willing to do anything for their lovers. But in the end, they get refused. Their feelings were very true (I think), they just choose the wrong person to fall in.
When people near me did this. In the beginning, I had tried to warn them, that they should know, to what kind of person they are getting close. If they could stop, it would have been better for them. But even by knowing everything, they fall for it. On those days I didn’t know, why on earth they are even trying for that kind of people.
But with time, I realize, they did because they couldn’t stop themselves. Because of love, they always had hope, people will change, and fall for real with them. And that never happens, so, in the end, get hurt.
Later these broken heart people move on. They start their new life. But I felt the spark is missing. It looks like they are living with furniture. I hope, I’m wrong.
Almost all of them, who play with heart, didn’t get anything good (As far as I have seen). Karma is very true. No matter how they appear in society, deep inside they are living the worst life.
There is a very fine layer in between love and like. The
easy to figure it out is to monitor how feeling growing with time.
If you want anything more and more. Then it’s love. It never
dies. If, after having some you are feeling full, don’t want it more, then it was
your liking.
Let me give you some examples. A kid wants a toy very much. They
are asking the toy for months. They are so desperate to have it. After having
it, within 3 days, they don’t feel any interest in it. It’s liking.
Some kids like their soft toys very much. They hold it every
night before going to sleep. It continues, this is love.
In a relationship, I have seen this in many couples. At the beginning
they are so happy to have each other, then they lost all interest with each
other. Maybe they liked each other very much, but they didn’t love their
partner. So, it ended in a very short time.
For some, without making much effort the feeling continues.
Yes, it’s love. They might face many ups and downs in life, but the feeling
continues.
I believe what Sharat Chandra
Chattopadhyay (novelist) said. “who is yours, will come to you by himself/herself”.
Then I started thinking, what will happen if both people kept thinking that another
person will come? They keep waited in two different places. How/when will they
meet? Maybe, only a miracle can make it possible. That will be more interesting.
For me, loving someone and liking someone have huge difference. I can like anything or anyone. But love means something big for me. When you love someone, you can do or go anywhere to achieve or just to stay with them or sometimes just to make them happy. Liking won't let you go that far.
I am married, and I have a son. Still I am talking about it, because I felt many people misunderstands me. I like many people as a friend, as a human, as a teacher, as a colleague or just passerby. I am good with everyone. I help everyone as much as possible. But sometimes, this attitude create misunderstanding. People started believing that I love them. I don't know what to do with it.
When I was in the university, one of my friend told me, I should have feel proud and enjoy these situations. Let them think like that. I am not losing anything.
Well I tried, but I never felt good about it. Be my friend, I need you. Just don't take anything too far, that I can't reach it.
একদিন, ঘরে ঢুকে দেখি, মা কবুতরটা খুব হইচই করছে। ব্যাপারটা খেয়াল করে বুঝলাম তার বাচ্চা দু'টো (সাইজে বড় কবুতরের মতোই, খালি চিউ চিউ করে) তার নতুন পাড়া ডিম ভেংগে দিয়েছে। মা কবুতর রেগে তাড়া করেছে কিনা দেখেনি, কিন্তুবাচ্চা কবুতর দুটো এই প্রথম বারের মতোন দেখলাম বাসা থেকে উড়ে গেছে।
আর বাবা কবুতর খুব শান্ত ভাবে মা টাকে ঠান্ডা করার চেস্টা করছে। মাঝে মাঝে আস্তে আস্তেকি যেন বলে, আবার একটু গলায় ঠোট দিয়ে ঘসে দেয়, গা ঘেসে বসে।
দেখে এতো ভালো লাগলো, কি সুন্দর দুজন দুজনকে আগলে রাখে। বাসা বানানোর সময় দুজন মিলে খরকুটো কুড়িয়েছে, বাসা বানিয়েছে দুজন মিলে, ডিমে দুজনে পালা করে তা দিয়েছে (যদিও তা দেবার সময় বাবা পাখিটা একটু ঝটফট করতো), বাচ্চা হবার পর পালা করে খাবার আনতো। একজন বাচ্চা পাহাড়া দিতো আরেক জন খাবার খুজতে যেত। দুজনের মধ্যে কি চমৎকার বোঝাপড়া।
One day, after returning home from office, I saw that mom pigeon is screaming very loudly. I take look to know what happen. What found is the kids of the pigeon (actually these kids grown like mom, only screams chiu chiu like kid) have broken down the new eggs. I didn't see whether the mom kick them out or not, but they for the first time fly out from the home.
The male pigeon is sitting very calm and trying to calm down the mom pigeon. He was saying something in low voice to the mom, sometimes giving massage on mom's neck with his lip, sitting very close with her like holding her.
I really like it's attitude, how beautifully they are taking care of each other. When they built the how both of them work together. They collected building materials together, they sit on the egg by maintaining a routine (though the male one wasn't stayed calm while sitting on the eggs), after having their kid they both brought food. While collecting food one always stays home and take care of babies.
I was preparing my son (6 years old) to go to bed, he suddenly told me, "When we all will die and Allah will judge us, Allah will tell you that you have taken a very good care, feed me well, clean up me well, gave a lot of love. And will keep you on the flower".
I really became speechless. This is the best complement that I ever heard.
I always love people, and never bother whether they return me anything or not. Because when I expect and they don't respond that hurts. I always felt, it’s my duty to take good care of others as much as possible, because, in my heart, I always like to have care. It's not in my hand what other will give me, but my part. So, I am always sincere in my work, no matter whatever I do. In work, at home, as a mother, as sister, as a daughter, as a manager, as a freelance or as a lover I always give effort to make it better as much as possible. I may not able to satisfy all... at least my son truly believes that I did well. Thanks son. Allah may always keep you well.
I trust you. Because my heart is saying you will never dishearten me in anyway.
I set you free. I believe, love is there,so nothing can take you away. If its not there, then I shouldn't hold you.
So, look at the sky, see you can fly away anytime, nothing is holding you.
