Problems may come back

 Sometimes, we cover the problem, put it away, or take some short-term solution to avoid or eliminate it. The thing is, if you don't solve it 100%, it may keep coming back and disturb you.

Even after putting a big effort into solving it, it may come back from nowhere. So, be prepared. Solve your problems fully and stay ready, or keep your solutions ready so that you know how to handle them if they come back anytime. It's not heaven; problems may always come back.

Maybe you just need to change your approach

"Maybe, you are stuck because you are pushing a door that says pull."

Throughout life, we often find ourselves facing obstacles that seem insurmountable. We may feel hopeless and believe there's no way to overcome these challenges. However, it's important to remember that there could be numerous reasons why the door remains closed. Perhaps we're simply approaching it the wrong way. 

For instance, when it comes to opening a door, pushing or pulling it in the wrong direction will prevent it from opening. This doesn't necessarily mean the door is locked; it just means we need to adjust our approach. By changing our approach, we can find the right solution and overcome the problem. This is a valuable life lesson to keep in mind.

When you are emotionally disturbed

 

To get rid of pain, many people do many things. Sometimes people hurt themselves. Previously when I saw these people, I use to think, why are they hurting themselves? What kind of solution is this? You get hurt and again you are hurting yourself? This is too much stupidity!

 

In life, when you get hurt emotionally so many times, and you will also try to figure out how to get rid of those pains or minimize them. When I feel upset, I also do some tricks to absorb the pain. But sometimes nothing works. At that moment, it came to my mind, why don’t I hurt me in a safe way (Don’t do anything which is harmful to you).

 

My hair is straight, black and long, about 24inch. I cut it in half, thrown all hairs in the bin. I must say, I have started feeling better! Now I know why people hurt themselves. It’s not about showing others, how much they get hurt, it’s about absorbing the pain. (Again, never do anything to harm yourself).

 

It’s been a month; I thought my son will notice. When he was a smaller kid, he uses to notice every small change in me. But now he is an 11-year-old boy. Maybe his concentration isn’t me anymore. He has started to be in his own life. And I am ready for it in my mind.