Never lose your hope

 When you know someone is going to frame you, you see how they set everything against you. No matter what you do, you might still face trouble or not get what you expected, but never lose hope. You never know how Allah can change everything in a moment. Don't let others change your attitude. Be yourself and keep doing good work. InshaAllah, you will live your life in peace and enjoy your moments happily ever after.

And for your own mental peace, forgive them. Allah might give you something better than revenge.

Let's hope for the best.

 I saw a cruise tour company and said, "Someday, we will go on a cruise." The reply was, "Don't be so happy. You still haven't taken the initiative to go and are not ready."

I said, "Why not just hope for the best and prepare for the worst? I am trying to make everything better. Let's accept whatever the outcome is"

There are many things that I thought I wouldn't have in my life, but I had them. Some are good, some not. So, now, I don't bother. Whatever Allah gives in my life, I will adore it. If I can't take it, ignore them. I don't want to be sad, where I have nothing to do.

I prayed for so many troubles I didn't want, but I had them. It could have been worse, that's true. I always believe that everything happens for a reason. So, I accept everything in my life. At least I am trying.

Expecting too much from the wrong people

“Don’t blame people for disappointing you; blame yourself for expecting too much from the wrong people.”

We expect, sometimes, without thinking about anything. We hope people will drive their cars carefully, maintaining all rules. We expect our loved ones will love us back, we expect students will always respect their teacher, we expect our employees will work their best for us, we expect our employer will notice our excellent work, we expect our friends will be with us, no matter what happens, we expect our family will stay together. There are uncountable things that we expect from others.

Sometimes others can't stand up according to our expectations. We need to understand many times we expect from the wrong person. Maybe that person doesn't think about us the way we think about them. Perhaps that person doesn't respect you as you do them. It's not always their fault that they couldn't meet our expectations. Sometimes it's our fault that we expect the wrong person.

The silent witness of this world

We are becoming the silent witness of this world. Everyday somewhere war or killing (like war) is going on. Every day in many places some environment destruction work is going on. Every moment somewhere on this earth, inhumanity is going on. Every day somewhere cheating is happening... how long we can shout or make something to prevent. For which reasons a person can take action? Well after sometime we all became silent watcher. We have said enough, tried a lot and no change. Now we became too tired to say more when we know no one is going to listen or care.

Again we can say, we might not able to stop all violence or bad work. But we can prevent some or something, may be a tiny bit. If we don't try anything, nothing is going to happen. But if we try for good, may be some change will come. If we have hope then we might gain something... We can't give up. That may worsen the situation.

আশা করে (A hope)

বঙ্কিম এর একটি উপন্যাসে পড়েছিলাম, এক যুবক, নৌকার আরোহীদের জন্য বনে গিয়েছিল কাঠ আনতে. দেরী হওয়ায় নৌকার লোকজন তাকে বনে ফেলেই চলে যায়.

পড়ে আমার সত্যি মনে হয়ছিলাম, পরের জন্য এভাবে যাবনা. তবে বঙ্কিম এটাও লিখেছিলেন, পরের জন্য এভাবে যার যাওয়ার স্বভাব সে সব সময়ই এভাবে সাহায্য করতে যাবে.

তখন ভেবেছিলাম. এও কি সম্ভব? এখন মনে হচ্ছে হ্যা, এমনি হয়ে থাকে. যে বার বার ধোকা খায়, সে ধোকা খেতেই থাকে. তারপরও মনে মনে আশা করে, এবারের জন ধোকাবাজ হবে না....

In Bankim's writing, once I read, a young man went to the deep forest to help the people in a boat. But as he was late, people from the boat didn't wait for him. They just left him in the forest.

When I read the novel, first I thought I will never go like this for other people. But then I found the writer wrote those people who have intention to help will go this way again and again, no matter how poor behave others do with them.

I thought, is it possible? Now I understand, yes, this is always happens. People who always betrayed by others thought this time people will not be that bad... they keep hoping...