When you assume

 When you assume something, especially if it's negative, don't share it with anyone. Others may believe it and start having negative feelings. By the time you have the right information, it will be too late to stop the negative consequences. In most cases, you can't fix it anymore. This is very wrong.

Expecting too much from the wrong people

“Don’t blame people for disappointing you; blame yourself for expecting too much from the wrong people.”

We expect, sometimes, without thinking about anything. We hope people will drive their cars carefully, maintaining all rules. We expect our loved ones will love us back, we expect students will always respect their teacher, we expect our employees will work their best for us, we expect our employer will notice our excellent work, we expect our friends will be with us, no matter what happens, we expect our family will stay together. There are uncountable things that we expect from others.

Sometimes others can't stand up according to our expectations. We need to understand many times we expect from the wrong person. Maybe that person doesn't think about us the way we think about them. Perhaps that person doesn't respect you as you do them. It's not always their fault that they couldn't meet our expectations. Sometimes it's our fault that we expect the wrong person.

I was wrong about me

From teen age I realize people likes me. Where ever I go people wants me to make their daughter in law. Somehow, they always use to find out a man in their family. It could be their son, brother’s or sister’s son, brother or any other relative and started to convince that poor guy to marry me. Because they thought I could be a very good daughter in law.

When I became adult, I found boys around me likes me. They try to offer me to marry or make a relationship with me.

From these situations I thought, maybe I am very good person, who can be a very good wife and daughter in law. I never have to be afraid about in laws family.

After marriage, I realize I was wrong. My in-laws family don’t like me, they found thousands of negative points about me.

I like to travel new places. So, in the University I wanted to study on Geography. I had heard, this subject’s students go for study tour every year in different places. And, I will be very happy to learn about the world. Though my family didn’t like it, I admitted at Geography & Environment and after 2 classes, I realize, I have made a very wrong decision. This is not my place.

I work sincerely, always try to improve myself and work in a way that the company gets benefited. I believed my bosses will understand my work and will give promotion or increase my wages. Again, I found myself very wrong. I thought may be when I will get chance to work abroad, smart bosses will promote me. But again, I was very wrong about me, maybe I don’t have any extra ordinary quality so that no one interested to help me grow in the company.