Suggesting people

 You can suggest someone to do something that will be good for everybody, especially for that person. If they listen, great; if not, it's their luck. You tried, but they are not ready to have that.

But if that person is someone near you, you can't just let things go. You keep asking, requesting, reminding them again and again. Some may call it nagging. But you just want good for them and all. You just have to keep trying with the hope that someday they will understand or just listen.

No suggestion for anyone

 I used to offer advice on how to succeed in life or maintain a healthy lifestyle. At present, my financial and physical state prevent me from discussing these topics. I don't advise anyone to do anything that might lead to success or to eat certain foods for good health. 

Because my condition doesn't prove that I have sufficient knowledge about these matters. Sometimes, when I start saying something and then immediately stop myself, I realize I shouldn't suggest anything. What have I achieved that I could recommend to others? 

No suggestions for anyone.

This will improve services in any organization

In an organization, when a client comes with the children, sometimes they face several problems. The child may not like to sit in one place for a long time. They kept running into the office, trying to play with equipment, screaming, crying, etc. Their parents felt awkward, and office employees faced troubles.

To improve all the services, the organization should have a child room to keep the child busy for a couple of hours. Then, the parent can work, give an exam, or sit with the counsellor in peace of mind, and the children will also be happy.

Putting your child into a healthy daily routine

No matter how busy a mom becomes, her heart, eyes and ear are always focused on her kid. Especially when they became too silent. It means something must be wrong. Either they are busy with something that they shouldn't do or facing some trouble. For both reasons, mama needs to run and check out the situation.

I am still living in this situation.

My son used to like my company till he was a 12-year-old boy. Now a day, he doesn't want his mom around him. Mostly because mom doesn't like his activity and asks him to do those activities which he doesn't like at all.

My son's favourite activities: playing games, chatting with friends, listening to and watching songs on Youtube, and watching funny videos. Mostly plays games and all his favourite activities are on the computer. And if I don't let him play games, sleeping.

What I ask him to do, do his homework, clean his bed, brush his teeth and use mouth wash, do stretching, practice riding a skateboard, learn something on adobe illustrator (He choose it first) and make something, practice guitar (He choose it first), practice keyboard (He choose it first), writer blog (He has the capability of writing and don't want to utilize it), cook (When needed), do laundry (When needed), run on the treadmill, etc.

You can see there is no matching between his work and mine. So, obviously, he doesn't like his mother anymore.

Our gap increased because of my job. He was a free bird during my work time. Now every day I had to fight with him for his daily work. Today said, he has a headache so, went to sleep again after breakfast. I don't know how I am going to manage this boy to keep in with a healthy routine.

Soon he will be an adult, I hope by that time, I will be able to make him follow a healthy daily routine which he may continue.

I can only try, and pray for him. Allah will take him to his destination.

How will I give him a solution?

I never had a close friend, I am always very stupid to let go opportunities, I get hurt by people unnecessarily when I didn’t do anything wrong with them, I’m too honest that people can’t guess, My love is one-sided. But still I know I’m a person of a good heart.

I thought, maybe my son wouldn’t be like me. He is not like me. But still, he is facing some common big problem that I am facing. He doesn’t have any close friend, he let’s go his opportunities, he gets hurt by people without any reason. He is very honest, but people don’t get it. He is a very person.

Sometimes I felt, why did I bring on earth to face too much trouble? I don’t know how to overcome my problems; how will I teach him? He just must learn by himself. That’s what I am trying to teach him. Find the solution to your own problem, your mom won’t there for you always.

জমি চাষে পরামর্শ (Suggestion on harvesting)

[English version has given below]

আমাদের দেশ হুজুগে মেতে উঠার দেশ... ভালো না মন্দ, লাভ জনক না ক্ষতিকর সেটা আমাদের বিবেচ্য বিষয় না, কে কি করলো, সবাই করছে, সুতরাং আমাকেও তা করতে হবে, এটাই আমাদের এগিয়ে যাওয়ার প্রেরণা।

বেশ আগের কথা, তখন এদেশে চলছিল টিভি এন্টেনার যুগ।  কে কিভাবে চালু করেছে জানিনাহ, ছাদে উঠলেই দেখতাম, সবাই এন্টেনার সাথে বোল, ঢাকনা যা পেয়েছে সব লাগিয়ে রেখেছে, এতে নাকি ছবি ভাল আসে... বলা বাহুল্য এতে আসলে কোনো পার্থক্য হয়নি, কিন্তু পুরো ঢাকা শহর একে অন্যকে দেখে এই কাজ করেছে। 

কৃষিতে কোনো ফসল চাষ করে কেউ লাভবান হলে, গণহারে আসে পাশের লোকজন সেই একই ফসলের চাষ শুরু করে দেয়, কোনো চিন্তা ভাবনা নেই যে এই ফসল এতো বেশি উত্পন্ন হলে আদৌ কোনো লাভ হবে কিনা, বা এতো ফসল রাখার কি ব্যবস্থা আছে....

এ কারনে আমি মনে করি আমাদের দেশের প্রতিটি ইঞ্চি জমি কেমন এবং এতে কোন ফসল কত পরিমানে উত্পন্ন হলে চাষীরা দাম পাবে এবং সংরক্ষন করতে পারবে, তার খুব ভাল একটা পরামর্শ থাকা উচিত। যাতে চাষীরা চাইলে এই পরামর্শ অনুসারে চলে লাভবান হবার চেষ্টা করতে পারে....

এই দল সব সময়ই মনিটর করবে, কোথায় কি ফসল কি পরিমানে  উত্পন্ন হচ্ছে আর তার বিক্রি এমন সংরক্ষণ এর কি ব্যবস্থা নেয়া হয়েছে...

In our country we have habit to follow others without think much about it. We don't care about the good or bad, profitable or not just follow what all are doing.

Let me give you an example that was TV Antenna's era. I don't know, who and how it has been started, but whenever I go to the roof I could see all houses has added bowl, or lids with the antenna for better picture. They thought these will work like telescope. But truth is it helped nothing on good picture. But who cares, everyone is doing so I can't be left out.

Same goes for our farmer’s brain. If anyone made any crop and get good profit, everyone will start producing it. They won't think if they grow this way huge amount of same crop then how it will effect on price or how to store the extra (Which they might not able to sale) part of it.

So, I think, we should have a good suggestion board for farmers that in which kind of soil or in which area what kind of crop can be produce in which amount. So, that if any farmer wants can follow the suggestion and get benefited.

This team will always monitor how much crop has been produced in the land and how it has been distributed and stored...

welcome suggestions

How many suggestions can you expect? Or how much suggestion can you give to any person? Every where has limitations? No where unlimited things are accepted.