Showing posts with label management. Show all posts
Showing posts with label management. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 24, 2023

“Don’t show your teeth unless you’re willing to bite.”



It's important to be cautious about showing your teeth, as it may lead to unintended consequences. It's common to feel angry about various things, but avoiding overreacting is important. In many cases, a more measured response can prevent unnecessary conflict.

It's generally not helpful to reveal your angry or aggressive side unless it's necessary to stop someone from doing something harmful or to alert them to potential danger. Otherwise, displaying this side of yourself may create more problems than it solves, potentially alienating people who could have been supportive and making enemies of those who may have been neutral.

By keeping your emotions in check, you can avoid losing people who might have been valuable allies and instead cultivate a support network that helps you feel more positive and empowered.

Saturday, October 1, 2022

Biography 150: To complete studying on time.


When I was a kid, I always had to attend 7/8 classes per day in school. All most all courses are used to give us homework or to do some study (memorizing). No matter how hard I tried (which I did 4/5 days in my whole school life), I couldn't finish more than one homework in a day. Because, whatever I do, I do it well. So, I gave lots of time and concentration on one subject and could never find time to complete other homework. (And maybe I am too slow also, now a day became slowest). And I had plenty of work to do daily, including playing with toys.

Now you will ask me, then how did I manage in school. The answer is that I am always very attentive in class. So, when teachers teach us in class, I try my best to understand it. So, in exams, I mostly wrote from my understanding.

And I was a fortunate girl too. (Only Bangladeshi people will understand this) For example, in the SSC exam preparation, students memorized several essays to find one familiar to the exam. But as I told you, I didn't have time for that. So, I read only one (After trying my best). And that I found in our question paper. Even I was surprised to see my luck.

Now a day, I have started my student life again. And I found myself in the same position. I am feeling difficulty completing all assignments. I am trying hard. Rest Allah knows.

Thursday, July 11, 2019

How to make people listen



When you are in management, you must know how to make people work, what needed to be done. Sometimes you will feel that if you do it, it will be done in much better way. But remember, you have limited time, you have another task to do. And, other people also must learn to work.
It’s not easy to make people work in time and efficiently. Some people are very honest and dedicated in their work. If you teach them how the work supposes to be done, they will always follow that. But some are not like that. They may don’t want to follow your instruction, want to put you down, or just lazy.
 Some people don’t need to be told, they know what they must do, and they make it happen. Again, some people are not like that, you must ask them to do it, other wise they will think, you didn’t notice so they can escape the work.
Some listen after one reminding. Some need to be told again and again. Few people are more disturbing, you must work them, other wise they won’t work.
As a manager you must know, with whom you can relay. It’s difficult to run a business with lazy and dishonest people. But this is the real world, you must live with them.
Personally, I don’t like to ask people more than once to do any task. Especially at home, I ask once. If that person listens, fine. Otherwise If I can make time, I will do it by myself, if can’t then let it be unfinished.
In work, I will suggest finding a way, which people will listen, try to change work responsibility, add some reward. I listen to people, so that they will listen to me too. These tips may work.

Monday, November 18, 2013

My experience about home maid


You need management power everywhere in your life. Trust me, everywhere you have to handle things and manage properly. Otherwise, everything may go against you and make your life miserable. Like you have to make good management with your family life, working life, relatives, neighbors etc. Even with your home maid. Both you have to learn, how to work alone and done everything well. Otherwise learn how to manage your home maid.


My maid works OK. She has good behavior. And every month she takes 10 to 15 days paid leave. Actually she works half of the month with full payment. After 4/5 months I said, I won’t let you continue this. I can accept 2/3 days leave every month, not 15 days. So, from this month I will cut your salary. She said she won’t do this mistake again. I thought from next day she will leave my house and will start working to other home (home maid has very good demand in this city). But she came and continues working. Till November 16, she was absent for only 1 day. But from last two days, she is absent again.