Biography 294: Office time

 When I was a kid, I saw my father go to the office very early in the morning, maybe at 7 am, and his office would close before 5 pm. So, he would have some time for his family in the afternoon.

Later, office hours changed. 

I think this early morning office schedule is good. It allows people to start utilizing their time from the morning, making good use of sunlight. If they can return home early, they can then make time for other activities, such as a part-time job, running a business, taking care of family, enjoying leisure time with loved ones, going on small city tours with the family, helping children with their studies, and so on.

But they only had one day off per week. I believe everyone needs at least two days off each week—one to catch up on household chores or go out somewhere, and the other to relax.

Construction work time

 We all have some idea of how long construction may take. Many Torontonians come from different countries, and many have visited various countries, so we have some ideas. But, how construction work takes time in Toronto raises questions.

I believe our responsible people need to seek help or suggestions and visit Japan, Singapore, or other countries that do their construction work quickly and efficiently. We may require some training or guidance to improve our maintenance work time.

World is doing much better, we need to learn and implement to our country Canada too.

A correct decision could be wrong if you take it late.

In life, timing is crucial, as even a correct decision can be wrong if made too late. It's essential to recognize what needs to be done and when and to take action in the present moment. Refraining from past mistakes or worrying about the future can be counterproductive.

Living in the moment and embracing whatever life offers can be challenging but rewarding. It's important to keep trying and striving for this mindset.

Decision-making is a significant aspect of life, and while we may not have control over everything, we do have control over our choices and reactions. Ultimately, we will be held accountable for our actions and plans rather than what others have done to us.

Most of the time, situations change with time. So, something might be right to do now, but that could be the worse decision after some time. So, a decision which was right in the past will not necessarily be correct in the next generation.

Let's concentrate on myself

 By default, I always put others before me. I have been trying to change this attitude. Didn't succeed 100%. My son told me I was speaking too much to him. He needs a break.

I understand. It may be time for me to focus on myself more than others. Let's get involved with myself more. Let's irritate myself and let others be happy.

I am tired of helping others. When they didn't ask for it.

Though I just can't see my son doing harm to himself. So, occasionally, ask what he should do now, like a reminder. Not pushing to do anything. Not explaining or sharing my thought or anything as I usually used to do.

I hope he started getting his own time without me, more.

People make time for you when they are alone

"People don't make time for you when you are alone; they make time for you when they are alone."

It's a busy life. Everyone is busy with their work, study or any other staff. And sometimes we miss people we like. Generally, I don't communicate with people without any reason. They might be busy, and I may interrupt or disturb them in their work. So, I let them contact me in their own time. I will adjust my time for them.

When they feel bore

 Now a day, it is tough to make my son agree that he was wrong. He thinks he knows better than his mom. He knows how to argue and try to win.

But I know I have to keep trying.

I told him that he never got bored when you were a kid. No matter where I took you, you could spend your time in your own way, like looking for something interesting, finding something to play with, etc.

But now a day, your only time spending way is on screen. So, if I take you anywhere, you don't see anything; you just feel bored and wait when will you get the screen (Cell phone, Tab, or laptop) again.

He was taking breakfast, which was not a good time to talk with him. But he made me surprised and kind of node his head to agree. I told him to try to bring back that capability again. 

Biography 150: To complete studying on time.

When I was a kid, I always had to attend 7/8 classes per day in school. All most all courses are used to give us homework or to do some study (memorizing). No matter how hard I tried (which I did 4/5 days in my whole school life), I couldn't finish more than one homework in a day. Because, whatever I do, I do it well. So, I gave lots of time and concentration on one subject and could never find time to complete other homework. (And maybe I am too slow also, now a day became slowest). And I had plenty of work to do daily, including playing with toys.

Now you will ask me, then how did I manage in school. The answer is that I am always very attentive in class. So, when teachers teach us in class, I try my best to understand it. So, in exams, I mostly wrote from my understanding.

And I was a fortunate girl too. (Only Bangladeshi people will understand this) For example, in the SSC exam preparation, students memorized several essays to find one familiar to the exam. But as I told you, I didn't have time for that. So, I read only one (After trying my best). And that I found in our question paper. Even I was surprised to see my luck.

Now a day, I have started my student life again. And I found myself in the same position. I am feeling difficulty completing all assignments. I am trying hard. Rest Allah knows.

Let's see

 Sometimes, no matter how hard you try to make things perfect, something went wrong. I mean huge things.

I was thinking, why? Maybe Allah wants me to stay away from these.

How many times I will keep changing my way?

Maybe that is my way, keep changing...

Let's see, let's see...

I don't know how long I have time, to see it.

There are so many things that I wanted to do, so many places I wanted to go...

Let's see, let's see...

I believe whatever is meant for me, will come (Good or bad).

Recruit more people

 There are many government offices, where we apply for service or permission or for any other reason. Then we wait. We keep waiting for days, months, and sometimes years. I can understand they might have too many applications and people need time to review them all. But I think when it is taking too long why don't you recruit more people. I am sure many people like me are looking for a good job.

My screen times

I have decided not to touch the phone or any screen (Computer or TV) from 8pm to 5.30am. But it is now 2.57am and I’m writing. I hope I will gradually be able to maintain my screen time.

No time for sickness

I never felt I have enough time to do all things I want to do. But now I realize I even don't have time to get sick. If I get sick who will earn money for home, who will take care of my son and my home.... so before I die, I can't get sick. Though because of sickness I have taken 2 days off from my work and class. But worked at home, make meal... and visited doctors and did different medical tests... You can say actually I was busy. But still felt good that I didn't have work load from my work place... 

I don't have enough time

From my childhood, I always felt I don't have enough time to cover up my to-do list. First, I thought I wish I could have 48 hours a day, then I realize actually I need 72 hours a day. After years I thought I need a week time long day.... Now I am thinking to complete my work my one life isn't enough.... I need few more life and adult age to complete my general work what I really want to complete... :)

You can enjoy your time with a kid

You will feel a great fantasy when you see a kid grow up. I am not telling you to take responsibility of the kid. Just watch and enjoy. It could be your neighbor’s kid. When you observe a kid, you will see how they tasted everything on this earth. They try to taste everything first. When they grow up a little, they will like to touch first to understand. After grown up, first they will like to see. They way the learn about every details of this earth, you will see, they are working like a scientists.

For you they will bring freshness of life. If any how your mind became off, try to spend time with kids without thinking about anything else. Trust me you will feel better and will learn many things from them. 

Let’s concentrate on which work is most important now

Sometimes we all fall in a situation that we have a very limited time (actually it is always) and we have hundreds of work… Then it’s very difficult to decide what to do now. Mind becomes hanging like computer. Somehow try to concentrate your mind and think, which one is most important… start working with that… rest? We will think about that later. Right now mind can’t take any more.