Real Canada?

 People say Canada isn't as lovely as they pretend. They show the world they are nice, so people will come to their land and work for them. They need workers.

This is maybe somewhat true. However, we need to see the whole scenario, not just one page. People can stay in Canada and become Canadian. Then they can vote for or select the prime minister of Canada. This is a big thing to share.

There are many countries where you can live for as many years as you can work. After that, no matter how many generations you are living there, they will kick you out. Forget about voting or any other rights.

Taking decisions

Shafeen's art

Once upon a time, I use to think that 90% of my decision are correct. maybe it worked on those days. Now a day, I am thinking that 90% of my decisions are wrong.

I take decision in two ways, First, when I think about any matter, I try to think on both sides first, pros and cons. Then which side has more pros I pick that one. Mostly I take decisions in this way.

The other way is depending on my anger. When I became so angry on anything, I took some decision to make it feel better. Trust me, I never thought to harm anyone. In this way it takes only one second to decide on something. Very few times I took decision in this way.

No matter how I take my decisions, I always try to stick with it. Because whenever I have changed my decision, at the end I found, my first decision was right.

The strange part what I found is most of my decisions which I have took in anger, was correct!

No right works when money speaks

In good time everybody or every organization will say, they are good. They do this thing or that. In trouble, you will see the true color of every one. Then you will know, who does what, who really take actions, who protests and who helps whom.

Money has very big power on human and organizations (country, groups, factory etc). When money matters then other thing just gone away. You will see no human right or other things when money speaks.

This is the real world. If you still didn't face it, you will see it. Human or organization can't hide their greed for long time.

Woman, you have to live like a second class citizen, otherwise you may leave

As a wife, in our country, you have to live like a second class citizen (in many cases you can use the term slave), otherwise you may leave. And if you leave, mostly the other woman (mainly married) will say you are the bad woman.

Let me give you an example, why I said like a second class citizen. Say your mother in law gave you two eggs with a packet of bread to make Toast (Bombay toast) for 7/8 people. After start making the food, you found, two eggs are not enough, so you went to the refrigerator and see 4 eggs available. You took another two and made all the bread toast. People liked your food, but suddenly you heard, your mother in law started screaming with his boys (including your husband). You could guess, it was about the extra eggs that you took.

Then your husband came to your room with upset face, took his money bag and went out to shop. He brought some more eggs for his mom. Though, he is giving all the bills and rent of the house and his brother giving the food expenses. But if you touch any food, your husband has to give the food cost too.

So, you have no right on anything. You are not the main member of the house. You just have to stay, eat food and listen to others.