Why do women leave men when they have money.

 Why do some women choose to end their relationships with men who have a lot of money?

I knew some families wanted their wives, less educated and non-working. Non-working doesn't mean they don't have to work, it means they have to work at home full-time, not outside. Non-working means no earning. 

No earnings doesn't mean they can't bring money at home; it means, they can't spend time or energy outside to earn money. They can bring money from their home, parents or wealth.

What's the problem if she has the qualities to earn money? Thinking is, that she might not stay with her husband. 

So, you think, she needs money, that's why she married and stayed with a husband? Can't her family feed her? Or can't she earn her own expenses? Then, after marriage, you have to cut off her money and make her stay with you? Couldn't you give her any other reason to stay with you? Love, respect, care, support, good feelings, nothing?

You won't give anything, only take all her attention, her body, labour, creating and raising your child by her and will also cut off her wings so that she can't fly and find a suitable place to live. More over you will dishonour her by saying she doesn't do anything (Which means not earning money), and she has to live without saying anything, just listening to all the orders from you and your family. No matter how humiliated she felt, how much hard she needed to do, not having good food and rest.

And then you will say money is the only reason to break a family when a woman tries to get out of a humiliated living space?

If you loved women, you would have let her live how she wanted to. And enjoy her company and her love the way she tried to give you.

If she wants to leave you, let her go. Help her to stay safe wherever she wants. Be a man. If she doesn't want to live with you or love you, let her be. Treat her as a human, not like your pet. Respect her and her decision. Fine, someone who wants to stay with you.

Money doesn’t change people

“Money doesn’t change people; it just lets the people be more what they really are.”

We always hear that money speaks; money changes relations and people. Is it true? It sounds true. But are they? NO.

Most people don't do things, not because they shouldn't. But because they don't have the opportunity to do that. Money opens up many opportunities. Then it's the person's choice what they will do with it. And most of the time, you will find, people are engaging with the negative things. When they had the full opportunity to do many good things.

Money didn't change them, just let them be more than what they really wanted to be.

MY all-time favorite song

 MY all-time favourite song ;) Especially when I am in need of money :)

Album: Kabhi To Nazar Milao
Music: Adnan Sami
Lyrics: Riaz Ur Rehman Saghar
Singer: Adnan Sami
Starring: Adnan Sami, Govinda
Label: Magnasound / Sony Music

teri oonchi shaan hai maula,
meri arzee maan le maula
tu hai sab kuchh jaan-ne waala,
main hoon teraa maan-ne waala
mujhko bhi to lift kara de,
thoRi see to lift kara de

O Lord, your grandness is great,
listen to my plea, O Lord.
You are the omniscient,
I am a believer of yours.
get me to lift up too,
at least lift me up a little bit.

bangla motor car dila de,
ek nahee do chaar dila de
mujhko aeroplane dila de,
duniya bhar kee sair kara de
kaise kaison ko diya hai,
aise vaison ko diya hai

get me a bungalow and a car,
not one, get me a few.
get me an aeroplane,
and make me travel the world.
you have given to all and sundry
given to just anyone..

mujhko bhi to lift kara de,
thodee see to lift kara de

dollar de ya pound de de
cash de de, check bana de
dirham-o-dinar de de
koyi chhapar phaaR maula,
apni jebein jhaaR maula
ab to mujhko maal de de,
aur naa ab Taal, de de

give me dollars or pounds,
give me cash or write me a check.
give me Dirhams or Dinars.
do some miracle, O Lord,
[chhappar phaaRna is literally to break the roof, but is an idiom used for God giving in huge amount.]
shed a bit from your pockets, O Lord,
give me some money,
don't stave me off anymore, now give me.

mujhko bhi toh lift kara de,
thoDee see toh lift kara de

sona de ya chandee de de
heere de de, motee de de
noTon kee barsaat kar de
tune khud hi to kaha hai,
deta hoon jo maangta hai
kab se banda maang raha hai,
kab se line me khaRa hai

Give me gold, or silver,
Give me diamonds or pearls,
rain banknotes..
you yourself have said,
that you give to one who asks..
for so long I've been asking,
for so long I'm in the queue..

mujhko bhi to lift kara de,
thoRi see toh lift kara de

[Source: http://www.bollymeaning.com/2016/09/lift-kara-de-lyrics-translation-adnan.html ]

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MONEY CAN'T BRING HAPPINESS FOR YOUR DAUGHTER

My maid is much tensed. She recently gave her elder daughter marry. First she was in economic problem, because, she had to give money, to her son-in-law, for business. Then in Eid she had to give dresses and shoe to the new son in law including her daughters.

Now she is in other problem. She has to give full furniture to her daughter as she is going to start her new life. And she can't buy old furniture to save money... all has to be new. She is saying she doesn't know what to do...

Here I must say... this became very common scenario in Bangladesh (may be in some other country too). People who has money gives all possible things to their daughters after marry. This makes greedy to the groom family more and makes jealous of other people in neighbor. All likes to bring bride from these kind of (money making) family, don't care who is going to be their bride (in some cases they look for beautiful and educated girls too including wealthy family).

Because of this situation middle class family faces problems. No matter what they give, grooms family never satisfied. Always expected more (some says directly, some indirectly).

For this tradition poor family suffers more. Their family can never fulfill grooms family demand and the daughters had to pay for it by all kind of (physical, mental, social etc) torture. Many families killed their bride to get more money.

My suggestions to the wealthy family... please drop this tradition. Let the groom hold your daughter by his own responsibility. The universal truth is "MONEY CAN'T BRING HAPPINESS FOR YOUR DAUGHTER". No matter how much you give... if the groom family has mental problem (mostly has) they will give pain to your daughter. Some might directly say, "We didn't bring you to see your face, you have to work for this family", some may use different indirect word.

If a good family want a bride and ready to keep her happy, they won't demand or expect anything but your daughter. If your daughters go there in one set of cloth they will be happy to have her....

Please stop this bad habit (giving furniture) for your daughter.

Unless we can stop this tradition, we can’t expect people will like to have girl child and raise them… obviously they will to kill them in mother’s womb.

No right works when money speaks

In good time everybody or every organization will say, they are good. They do this thing or that. In trouble, you will see the true color of every one. Then you will know, who does what, who really take actions, who protests and who helps whom.

Money has very big power on human and organizations (country, groups, factory etc). When money matters then other thing just gone away. You will see no human right or other things when money speaks.

This is the real world. If you still didn't face it, you will see it. Human or organization can't hide their greed for long time.

Money saving package tour, does it worth?

Shafeen is in a restaurant at Saint Martin’s Island. The restaurant accommodation was poor, but hospitality and food was good. Photo credit: Shafeen

There are three ways of travel. One is luxury, another one is travel in cheap (as much as possible) and finally medium (I mean expend as much as you can bear). When you travel with a travel company (if it’s not a luxury tour) they will try to make accommodation everything as cheap as possible (they want to make profit as much as they can). So, they will keep you in a hotel, where you might not go generally, feed you in such a restaurant, where you never thought to eat anything. They will travel all night (to reduce hotel cost) and will make quick view of places (as much as possible in a day). They won’t let to stay anywhere whether it is Himalayan or a temple.

It’s always better to go by your own management and make happy tour.

Money problem in middle class life

Shafeen working with his Tablet

The main problem in middle class life is limited budget. Whenever or whatever you plan for something, first you have to look at your budget. Then have to plan what can be done within it. It’s not like you first plan what are the things you want to do then look how much it will cost (I like that).

Soon my son will become 5 years old boy. As mom I can’t think what are the things I can do for him? First I have to see, on that time, how much budget I can manage then can think about others. Really don’t like the situation.

I wish I could have a door with full of money. I will take whatever I need (not more than that) and don’t have to think about income.

But the reality is because of this need life is beautiful. If I knew I can have whatever I want anytime, life will become boring. If have eaten at best restaurant, lived in the world best hotels, visit all favorite places I would have thought what next? What else I need to feel happy? My life might have stopped. Had to suspect others who might have kill me someday to take my money.

So actually the middle class life is beautiful.

For travel lover, who doesn't have money to go wherever they want to go

Milonchhori bamboo cottage, Bandarban, Bangladesh

If you like traveling, you will like to visit new places whenever you have time (and money). There are 3 kinds of place you may choose according to your timing (and money). For very short time you may like to go to a place inside your city or just across the city. If you have 2/3 days then you might plan for a place inside country. If you have 4 or more than that, you may thing to go abroad.

So make a list on hard paper or on PC or cell phone. The new places you want to go, keep the authorized contact no, keep info about the closing days (like Sunday or some other day), timing (if there any opening time or closing), per day cost (if need to stay). This will help you to make plan when suddenly you found some time that you can take your bags and go away….

When money (not only the time) is your big problem, because you have a lot in your list to have for your life, then you can start saving money to fulfill your one wish list. Then a place to go, again get another thing from your wish list. This way you will get whatever you need, also can plan to go anywhere. You really need to go places for sometimes, to live, to breathe.

Wherever you go, you can make a small group for it. It will be better if you choose similar minded (match economically or where all have kids or all student or all from office or all from family or best friends) people in one group. It will give you more fun in your journey and also may help to reduce total cost.

Managing money

I am not good in accounting; I mean calculating money and keep all information updated. Though I had to work as an accountant (under guidance) for few days and I understood very well, I didn't born to do this job. But at home, you are everything. Home management means you are the sweeper to Queen. You have to manage and do (if no one else to help you) everything, including accounting. To make everything easy I tried to make small solutions. Right now I am keeping some small bags (old rejected bags) to keep money for different reason, with a small note, mentioned which moneys are for which purpose. It works like a small bank with different kind of account. Well this reminds me; today I might need to go the bank to solve some small issues.

Only for $3

Shafeen playing behind me on the floor and I am working on PC

You know what, when you are in need of money, you will work in low price and for long time. Yesterday night I was awaking and working whole night only for $3. I had terrible headache from the beginning, but I didn’t tell this to the client. Sometimes I thought I should have say NO or ask them to give me more money. But again I kept quite. Whatever I am getting, I really need those.