Wanting someone and loving someone aren't the same.

 Wanting someone and loving someone aren't the same. When you want someone, you want them for yourself. You want to be physically and mentally benefited, to have kids with them, to have a good life because you expect they will help or provide that to you, etc. You don't consider what they might want, what their likes are, what their expectations are, or what will make them happy.

Let me give you an example. You may like or want chicken to eat. You will feed them properly and keep them in a good place so that one day you will eat them. You don't make a house for them to give them comfort or happiness, and you don't let them live the way they want to live, open and free to go anywhere they want. You may protect them from outside danger, but not for their sake; you do so for your own benefit.

Now think about what you think of your partner. Do you want them or do you love them? Be honest!

A Bangladeshi song

 Ami Chai Thakte (আমি চাই থাকতে)

I liked the song, but the singer's voice. I wish someone else had given the female voice.

কত কি করতে ইচ্ছে করে (I want to do many things)

[English version has given below]

কত কি করতে ইচ্ছে করে...

ছেলেটার ভাল যত্ন নিতে চাই, ওর স্বাস্থ্য, পড়াশুনা, বেড়ানো, পোষাক সব ভালভাবে করতে চাই. 

প্রিয় মানুষের সাথে সময় কাটাতে চাই, 

ঘরবাড়ি একেবারে ঝকঝকে পরিস্কার করতে চাই, সুন্দরভাবে সাজাতে চাই. 

খুব ভাল খাবার তৈরী করতে চাই, 

নিজের যত্ন নিতে চাই (ব্যায়াম, পরিচ্ছন্নতা, ত্বকের যত্ন, সুন্দর ভাবে নিজেকে সাজাতে, ভাল পোষাক), 

বই পড়তে, 

প্রিয় মানুষের সাথে ঘুরতে, 

লেখালেখি করতে, 

আয় করতে, 

ফেসবুকে সময় দিতে, 

বন্ধুদের সময় দিতে, 

অন্যের উপকারে আসতে. 

নিয়মিত এবং ঠিক মতো নামাজ, রোজা, কোরান, তসবিহ পড়তে... 

নিরাপদে থাকতে.

আহা এটুকুই তো চাই.... তাহলে সময়, সামর্থ্য (পারিপার্শিক অবস্থা, অর্থনৈতিক, শারীরিক) আর সুযোগ কেন যে পাইনা...

I want to do many things

I want to do many things… I wish I could succeed. Like…

I want a take a very care of my kid. Take care of his health, education, dress, outing etc.

Want to spend time with my loved one,

I want to neat and clean my house with well decoration.

Want to cook good, healthy and delicious food,

Want to take care of myself (Cleaning, taking care of skin, exercise, good dress up etc),

Reading book,

Outing with loved one,

Writing,

Income well,

Giving time on Facebook ,

Have good time with friends,

Help others,

Well and regular praying, reciting Quran,

Living safe and secure.

Ah… Am I asking too much from this life…? Why can’t I do this all because of lack of situation, time, money, health etc?

If you desperately want something, that wish will come to you…

In this picture he was 3 years and 10 months old.

If you want something desperately, that wish will come to you. This way or that way… it will really come to you. May be on that moment you won’t be in a position to grab it or accept it, or you may not able to make the sacrifice that you need to do to get it. But your wish will definitely come to you (I think).

My son Shafeen likes water. But he easily get cold (not like her mother). So, I don’t let him play with the water. One day I bring some warm water to sponge his body and forget to bring the soft cloth. I keep the water in the room and went out to bring the cloth. And my son got the chance. He started playing with water. You can see how happy he became, how can I stop him? He was 3 years and 9 months old.