Like to see parrot (from distance)

After watching the animation film “Rio” I became fan of the bird. Last month we went to the zoo I stand beside the macaw parrot for some moment. They are really big in size and beautiful. They way they sit, look around seems very intelligent. I showed my son and he likes them too. But you know I can’t think to touch them, I don’t know why, I still afraid of bird. If any how they show anger (in voice or by moving their body) or attack on me, I will run with my life J

Happy New Year 2014

My greetings happy New Year, to all of you, my family, and relatives, on line friends, off line friends, my son’s school friends and their moms and to all who are living on this earth. I really want all of you stay happy and have a happy new year. I wish I could give any gift to all of you.

Tomorrow my New Year plan is to make some rich food (polao, korma, chop as many item as I can), so we can enjoy the first day of the year, 2014, in a good way. No bad word or negative thinking now, let’s starts with a positive vibe. 

আমার হাতের তৈরি খাবার, চেখেও কি দেখলো না? (Didn't it like my hand made food?)

Shafeen, feeling smart.

যখন দাওয়াত করি তখন সব সময়ই চেষ্টা করি খাবার যেন সাধ্য মতো ভাল হয়। মেনুতে যেন সব ধরনের খাবার থাকে। যাতে কারো একটা পছন্দ না হলেও আরেকটা খেতে পারে। পরিমান যেন প্রয়োজনের চেয়ে খানিকটা বেশি থাকে। কারো যেন কম না পড়ে। অল্পের উপর দিয়ে কোন মতে খাওয়ানো আমার পছন্দ না। তাই বলে কেউ এরকম করলে খারাপ মনে করি তা নয়। যে যেভাবে যা করে, সেটা তার ব্যাপার।

এবার বিশেষ জনের জন্য খাবারের ব্যবস্থা করেছি। সে দুদিন চুরি করে লুচি আর রুটি খেয়েছে। তাই ময়দায় সামান্য পানি দিয়ে মন্ড তৈরি করে তার উপর টেস্টি বিষ (খেয়ে দেখেনি, উপরে লেখা ছিল) মিশালাম। তারপর তার ঘরে ঢোকার দুইটি প্রিয় জায়গায় পরিবেশন করলাম, প্লাসটিকের প্লেটে। আশা করেছিলাম মহাশয় খেয়ে না হলেও চেখে দেখবেন। কিন্তু তার আর ছায়াও দেখছি না। বুঝলাম না কি হলো, খেলো না এমনিতেই খাবার নষ্ট হচ্ছে? রুটি ভেজে দেইনি বলে কি পছন্দ হলো না? এ যে খাবার নিয়ে এতো বাছ বিচার করে সেটা আমি কি করে জানব? কে আবার, আমার ঘরের নতুন মেহমান ইদুরের কথা বলছিলাম আরকি :(

Whenever I invite anyone, I try to make food as good as possible. Try to keep all items so that if they didn't like any one item, can take another. Try to keep the amount of food little more than it needed. Any one shouldn't feel shortage of food. I don’t like to feed people just something and let it done. But I don’t mind if others do so, everyone has their own way.

This time I prepare food for an especial one. It had stolen both luchi (fried bread) and ruti (bread) in last few days. So I make dough of flour then put tasty poison (didn't taste it, it was written on the packet) on it. Then serve them on plastic plate and put those on its favorite two entrances. But don’t know where it went. Didn't it like my home made food? Or didn't like it that I didn't fried it. I didn't know that this creature makes this much trouble on food. Yes, I am talking about the mouse the latest unwanted guest in my house.

Some people make different memory in our life among all

This is a given picture in my cell phone

We meet many people in our life. Some we could remember, some not. There are very few people who can make a deep impact in our mind with their very good personality or work or incident. Whenever we remember them, we felt respect for them and it gives a nice smile on our face. They just stay alive in our memory always among all.

You can became fan of Facebook, with little concern

Photo credit: Shafeen (my 5 years old son)

Because of our social network sites and messengers we came to close with many different people from different country. For example, you are a fan of a cricketer. You want to know, all information about him. Want to talk with him. Generally it’s not possible. Through Facebook (a social media site) you may get connected with this cricketer. You can subscribe, like his page or became friend of him (if you are lucky enough). So, then you don’t have to wait for his latest news on news paper or news channels. You can have it from his Facebook page, which may give by himself directly. Here you can comment on it (if possible). Also you can like or share his news. From you your friends may get to know about the cricketer’s news and they can also like and share. Because of this reason, I became fan of Facebook.

This way you can see and show all information that you want to share to all friends around the world. There are many negative side is with this. The most common problem is people can easily make fake id, fake info about them. It shows how there is mentality. One thing you just have to remember always. Everything can fake on net. So, don’t believe anything, anyone, any info on net.

"ভাংতে সহজ, গড়তে কঠিন" (It’s easy to break, difficult to build)

নতুন ভাবে আবার সাজানো হয়েছে কাওরান বাজারের আন্ডার পাস

বাংলায় একটা কথা আছে, "ভাংতে সহজ, গড়তে কঠিন"। 

অনেক সহজ আর বড় সত্য। যে কোন কিছুই গড়তে কত সময় লাগে, কত পরিশ্রম করতে হয়, কত ব্যয় করতে হয়, আর ভাংতে লাগে মাত্র কয়েক সেকেন্ড। যে গড়েনি, সে হয়তো এর মুল্য সঠিক ভাবে বুঝবে না, যদিনা একটু ভেবে দেখে।

সম্পর্কের কথাই ধরুন, কত ভাবে না আমরা এর পরিচর্যা করি। অথচ, একদিনের একটি মাত্র কথাই যথেস্ট একে সম্পুর্নভাবে মিটিয়ে দিতে।

বিশ্বাস অর্জন কত কঠিন। কত সময় নিয়ে, কত কাজের মাধ্যমে ধীরে ধীরে বিশ্বস্ততা গড়ে উঠে। আর সামান্য কারনে এক মুহূর্তে তা নষ্ট  হয়ে যায়।

কোন কাঠামো, কোন যন্ত্র, কোন আসবা পত্র গড়তে, কিনতে, পরিচর্যা করতে কত সময় কত পরিশ্রম আর কত মেধার প্রয়োজন। অথচ এক হাতুরির বাড়িই যথেস্ট একে ভেংগে ফেলতে।

কোনো কিছু ভেংগে ফেলার মধ্যে গর্বের কিছু নেই। গড়ে দেখুন, শরীর আর মনের কি রকম প্রশান্তি পান। নিজের তো বটেই সেই সাথে আসে পাশের মানুষের জন্য, দেশের জন্য, সাড়া বিশ্বের জন্য আপনি কিছু করলেন, কারো না কারো কোন উপকারে আসল। শুধু আপনার জন্য হলেও তা সবার জন্য উপকারি। কারন আপনি এই বিশ্বেরই অংশ।

আপনার খারাপ কাজের প্রভাব যেমন খারাপ তেমন ভাল কাজের প্রভাব খুব ভাল। কোন ভাল কাজই ফেল না নয়। কবি নজরুলের ভাষায়, "ভেঙে আবার গড়তে জানে, সে চির সুন্দর"।

There is a saying in Bangla, “It’s easy to break, difficult to build”. It’s a very simple and important message to all. No matter what it is, you can see how much effort it needed to build, how much time, how much money to invest and to break it, you need only few second. The person who didn’t build anything may not get this point, if they don’t think about it for a moment.

For example, we can say about relationship. You know, how much we give effort to maintain it. But only one word can destroy everything.

To achieve trust is very difficult thing. It takes time, many efforts to build. But a simple thing can destroy it totally.

Any infrastructure, any machine, any furniture needs lots of hard work, money, maintaining to have it. And a hard hit of hammer can destroy in a moment.

Nobody can feel proud by destroying anything. Try to build something and see how it feels in your mind and body. It will be very helpful not only for you, but for your country, your world (earth). If it’s only for you, then also it will be for the world, because you are part of this world.

The effect of your bad work is bad, in the same way the effect of good work is very good. No matter how small your work is, it will give some effect to this world. No work is useless.

At the end, we can say with the poet Kazi Nazrul Islam, “Bhenge aabar gorte jane, shei chiro shundor (who can build after destroy is the most beautiful person)”

Beauty is every where

This is a given picture in cell phone

If you are looking for beauty, you will find it everywhere. Even you may find it in garbage too. It depends on your eyes and your will power to look for it. Then you can show it to others in your way, may be through painting, picture, sculpture, writing or other way. Beauty is everywhere. You just need a eyes and good heart to realize it and feel it and a good way to show it to other. 

Taking other culture’s activity

Me, in Nepali dress, at Darjeeling

In this world, there people, from many culture. Some don’t mind if a woman sat on any man’s lap open in bar, some don’t like if a woman and man talk with each other openly. In some culture, people kill other people directly and show the body of the victim open to all. In some culture they torture, kill and do all kind of harm inside jail, not open, not in front of general people.

Mainly, the culture, people try to follow is who are economically came in a good stage and who are very entertaining in media. But still people like to hold their own culture too, no matter where they go or where they live. This is becoming very difficult. Now a day media and communication are very good and fast. People can easily see and know about other side of world’s news and other activity. Which are directly influencing them.

Taking other cultures good things (which is good for human) is good. And taking bad habit is always bad. For example, long time back some people took bad habit to take cigarette from South America which finally became very bad method for health. On that moment they thought it is for pleasure only. But finally, this habit spreader to all communities of the world and no matter how hard we want, really difficult to get rid of it.

So, when we start to follow any other cultural activity, we should think first, in the long run, will it be good for us? That may help us to reduce following bad activity.

We should place flowers everywhere for beautification

This picture is from cell phone’s given images

When you woke up and see someone kept flower beside your bed, it will just make your day with smile. Any moment can be really beautiful with some flowers. A house or a room cannot be complete its beautification without flowers or plants. It can change an ordinary room to elegant. In shop or market you will feel good if you see plants or flowers over there. Same happens in your workplace, hospital etc. Though in hospitals, flowers are not allowed for the safety of the patient. But flower plants can be placed outside of the hospital means garden area. When a patient will look at those flowers through window they will feel better. When you ride a car or walk, if you see the road became colorful with flowers. It will cherish your mind. So, for any beautification we should think to put some flower for a health mind.

Modern airports

When we travel from one country to another, the first thing we see of the new country is the air port. How good it is, how people helps here, how easy the rules and regulation, how is food and shopping facilities, how comfortable is it, how beautiful it is etc. This is the first impression of a country. May be that’s why now all over the world, all the airports are trying to improve their facilities more and more, some added sleeping facilities, some made park etc. It’s really appreciating. May be some day people will visit and bring more foreign currency to the country only to see that countries airport.