Friday, August 29, 2014

Our media should also give news about good effort

All people don't have same capability of work. But we should all give good effort to do something good which helps the world. We have no idea how a tiny good work can influence the world for good.

I always support good work. We should always encourage people for all kind of good work. I believe our media shouldn't always give news only about killing, war, fighting etc. Our media should also give news about good effort, new creation, good work etc, which will encourage other people to do so...

তাই আজ আর কিছু বলব না... (I won't say anything today)

যা বলতে চাই, তা বলা সম্ভব নয়. আর যা বলা সম্ভব তা বলতে ইচ্ছা করছে না. তাই আজ আর কিছু বলব না...

সরাসরি কথা বলা একদিন থেকে ভাল. ভাল হোক আর মন্দ একটা রেজাল্ট চলে আসে. সব কিছু ঝুলে থাকে না....

What I want to say, can't say. What I can say, don't want to say...

You know what, it's good to talk directly. Good or bad you will see a result, it won't hang for ever....

Tuesday, August 26, 2014

Colorful sky

If you look at the sky, you will never feel bore. It changes every time. It has different beauty on different time. Morning you will see the freshness, at noon the hit, at afternoon fun, at sunset you will see romantic beautiful colors. And you want to know how will it look like at night? Depend on clouds, moon and the start…. It’s the night mood. It’s totally my opinion. When you start watching the sky, you may find something else…

Monday, August 25, 2014

we have to think little farther

Many people say, why all UFO comes on US or North America? Why strange things only happens in western world.

I think we have to think little farther. Other parts of world are not as developed as western part. So, in most cases people don't have anything to take video or even take a picture. And if it happens in front of illiterate people, they take it as a ghost or other thing. So, we can't think good result or sample of any strange situation.

Sunday, August 24, 2014

মায়েদের অসুস্থ হবার উপায়ও নেই (A mother can never be sick)

মায়েদের অসুস্থ হতে নেই. হবার উপায়ও নেই. জ্বরে কাতর হয়ে একদিন শুয়ে বিশ্রাম নিয়েছি. সকাল থেকে দুপুর পর্যন্ত শাফিন নানু বাড়িতেই ছিল, বড়আপা ওকে খাইয়ে দিয়েছিল. তারপরও ছেলের জ্বর চলে এসেছে. কালকে সারা গায়ে ব্যাথা নিয়েই ছেলেকে খাওয়ালাম, স্পঞ্জ করলাম... ছেলে এখন অনেকটা ভাল হয়ে গিয়েছে. বুঝলাম, শরীর যতি বিদ্রোহ করুক, আমার মুক্তি নেই. কাজ চালিয়ে যেতে হবে.

A mother can never be sick. Actually she doesn't have choice.
After getting fever I took one day bed rest. Shafeen (my son) stayed at his grandmother's (maternal) house from morning to noon. My elder sister fed him. But still my son got fever 101. So, with the pain, all over the body I stand up and start taking care of him (feed him, sponge his body etc), and he became well. So no matter how you became sick... you have to keep going (after becoming a mother)

Wednesday, August 20, 2014

Why Bangladeshi people support Brazil football team?


First, I must ensure you that I am not a Brazil supporter. I really don’t understand why so many Bangladeshi people support Brazil football team. There is no relation with Brazilian football with Bangladesh. Then what could be the reason?

I have asked this question to my cousin brother. He supports Brazil. I asked him, why do you support Brazil? What makes you like them so much?

He replied, in our school text book there was (I don’t whether it is there or not now) an article on Pele, the magician of football. So, from childhood people start liking Brazil football.

Now, if you ask me why don’t I like Brazil? Answer is I hate Brazil supporter’s attitude. Because of their activity, somehow anti-brazil feeling created in me…

Anyway I didn’t have problem for putting sticker of Brazil flag on my son’s hand, because he got it free from a chocolate. J

Tuesday, August 19, 2014

Sometimes the best way is to keep silent

When you are surrounded by people and they are discussing about a subject that you totally disagree, but you can’t say anything to them. First it’s difficult to raise a voice among lots of people. Second, they won’t agree with you. Third, if they stop temporary, (because with logic they can’t debate with you) they will speak behind you. If they can’t stop you with logic, they will attack you with your personal issues. Finally they will create negative issues on you and everyone will start hate you. So, what’s the point, if I can’t make them understand? So, I better keep silent…

Monday, August 18, 2014

এরপর কি? (What’s next?)

এরপর কি? সবচেয়ে সহজ প্রশ্ন আর সহজ উত্তর, অথচ বাস্তবে উত্তরটির মতো জীবন যাপন করা খুবই কঠিন. একটু ব্যাখা করি...

প্রথিবীর সবচেয়ে সুন্দর জায়গায় ঘোরা হয়ে গিয়েছে, এরপর কি? সবচেয়ে দামী রেস্তরার স্বাদ নেয়া হয়ে গিয়েছে, এরপর কি? সবচেয়ে দামী গাড়িতেও চড়া হয়ে গিয়েছে? তারপর? বাকি রইলো কি?

বাকি রইল সুখ আর ভালবাসা. যেখানেই যে অবস্হাতেই থাকুন না কেন, সুখে থাকার চেষ্টা করুন. দেখুন কাজটা কত কঠিন. তারপরও ছোট ছোট সুখ আনন্দ গুলো তুলে নিন. অন্যকেও সুখী করার চেষ্টা করুন. আপনি ভাল থাকবেন (কথাগুলো আমার নিজের জন্যও প্রযোজ্য).

What’s next? The easiest question and also then you can have an easy answer. But the difficulty is in the following the answer. Let me explain a bit

The most beautiful place on earth, you have visited, the most known restaurant on this world, you have tasted their food. The most valuable car on this planet, you had a ride with it too. Then, what’s next?

Next is love and happiness. You have to find in your daily life, in small work and incidents you have to create it and enjoy it. No matter where or how you live, try to find happiness in every work and situation, try to give love to others and help them to be happy. You will find happiness inside you too (these words are for me too).

Saturday, August 16, 2014

Train traffic system

Everybody has their dream project or planning. Especially when we stuck in traffic jam there many solution comes in our mind. If we made this road then it will be reduced, underground railway is the only solution etc.  We never thought our kids have their own plan too.

I bought this train set for him. After getting this toy, my son created his own way of traffic system, in the above picture. I like his plan for this city J

Friday, August 15, 2014

How important parent’s love are

I was watching a TV program, where an 18 years old boy was working in a gold mining section. But due to camera and other negative or unsuccessful things (not getting enough gold) made him rude and scared. He started misbehave with everyone. He wanted stop his work. He couldn’t concentrate or work properly. Things were getting worse day by day. Others started thinking, this is becoming impossible to continue work here…

The director of that TV program asked for help. Then, without notifying that boy his parents arrived. He loved to see them and for the first time he started laughing. He showed his equipments and big vehicle to his parents. They tried to run those and enjoyed his work. And when he became relax, his parent told him to focus on the positive side of every work. Negative things will always be there, he had to focus on the positive ones.

Then they left. But situation changed dramatically. The boy starts laughing and make very good friendly attitude to all. They started work and the boy found big amount of gold.

The total successful things happen only by small love of the parent.