Tuesday, July 31, 2012
Sunday, July 29, 2012
Journey by train
Shafeen (my son) sleeping at upper bath and Dia (my youngest sisters daughter) sleeping at lower bath. Both liked the cabin very much |
Shafeen, me and Dia |
Shafeen and me waiting in the Kamalapur Railway Station |
Last year we had a train journey. It was awesome except some
poor experience, which I like to share with you all, so that, before making any
plan to journey by train, you can aware of those problems and benefits.
We traveled from Dhaka to Chittagong. Our train was at 7:30
am. We reached at the train station at 7:00am. A mother who has a toddler she
knows very well how difficult it is to get up and get ready in the morning.
After reaching we saw our train still not arrived and after 15 minutes we get
to know that the train will be late. So, it may start at 11am. We have seen
many passengers left the station, probably will come later. But for me it was
difficult to carry all bags to home and bring back again. So, we waited at the
first class waiting room. It was really good and we really could take rest over
there. At the first floor of the station, there is a restaurant. My sister went
there and had a good breakfast. She recommends it.
At 11am we get on the train. We booked an AC cabin. Accommodation
was great; it was really clean and nice. The AC worked great. We really spend
very good time in it in the total journey. We drink tea and eat food from train’s
food court several times. At the beginning the journey started very well. Here
I must say who doesn’t have any hurry on timing and want to have a good journey
then must book a cabin and had a good train journey.
We are very familiar with traffic jam in city, but for the
first time we faced train jam. Before every station (where the train shouldn’t
stop) our train stopped for several minutes, because it couldn’t find the free train
line to run. Many times I thought I should get down and buy some lunch packet, because
in train only snacks are available.
And when the train stops, the door became open. Many people
get on the train. They started fill all blank sits (without ticket). Even after
some moment we had to stop going to the cafeteria because all chairs were
filled up with traveling people. With every compartment of AC cabin or chair,
there is a sit for a security person (I guessed) that is also became filled. If
you traveled train before, you must notice there are some free spaces between
every compartment of the train, that place also covered with people.
Thursday, July 26, 2012
You don’t need to feel so important always
Sometimes for some incidence you felt very much important,
sometimes actually you were wrong. Let me give you some example.
While my training was going on, one day our trainer gave us a
URL and told us to browse. I didn’t know where I did the mistake in the URL,
the site wasn’t coming in my pc. On that moment the class room was full of
students, randomly I choose one who was sitting just behind me and request him
to come to my pc and check the URL. For me that was the total situation. But
for the boy the situation was just started… he started thinking why did I pick
him, why not others, his friends started making joking with two of us, and as
usual the boy started thinking of me. First, I didn’t notice that something is
going on with this boys mind. From next he started to communicate with me every
now and then. I get scared. I wanted to stop it, so I started avoiding him
totally. But it took years to make him understand that there was nothing
between us.
In universities, lots of young boys and girls do study. If a
girl just smile to a boy, just for social manners, that she knows the boy or he
is a student of her class, or department, he started feeling that he is the
one. Otherwise why she gave me a smile, there are other boys were also
available.
Sometimes we found some one’s face is matching with any of
our relative or well known person, on that case you will try to notice the boy’s
face twice to be confirmed… and what the boy is thinking on that moment, that
he became a hero of that girl.
We girls when communicate with boys, we try to pick the
safer one, like a married person or a person of other religion, so that love
kind of thinking won’t come fast. But we are wrong, they also things the same
way.
To
friends I must say, please don’t force to think the boy that the girls started
liking him. For you its fun, because you also know, it’s not the truth. But for
the boy, it could be the life and death issue.
Wednesday, July 25, 2012
Too much love isn’t good
If you love anybody too much, you don’t need to show them. Because
it might make them tired (if they don’t love you that much), and they will try
to run away from you.
When I was a kid, I loved all of my relatives and wanted
love from them, too. If I got on anyone's lap, I wouldn’t get down soon (I can’t
remember, but I have heard this story many times). If any child came to our
house to play, I tried to keep them in our home in many ways. I talked to
them nicely and gave them my toys, but nobody could stay. That’s the
reality I learned after a long time. If I desperate to hear my boy friend‘s
voice, and call them frequently, they will feel disturbed (before married, I
had disturbed my husband a lot). If I call my husband too much, he won’t
need to call me back. But I like to have his calls, too.
They won't like it if you want to say too many things to your boyfriend. So, no matter how much you love (may be like ocean) don’t need to
express too much. Trust me, it’s good for you.
My son is doing the same as me. He loves children and plays
with them. He loves those who show love to him too much. If they come or he goes to
their house, he doesn't want to let them go back or doesn’t want to come back home. Even
from the market, if I start for home, he asked me to go to another market. This way, actually, he is scaring others to come to him. If anybody came into our house,
they knew my son would fall into tears if they said anything about going back.
I am trying hard to
teach my son to let them go, who wants to go.
I told him that if he let them go, they would return if they liked
him. Trust me, my son. He is starting to realize the matter. Today, when his
uncle wanted to go, he started crying but controlled himself and said “Allah
hafiz, aabar aashben” (May Allah protect you, and come back soon), as I told
him to say.
Then we had some mother son talk, I told him, see it worked,
your uncle again came back and play with you. He said, yes, Mom, you were right.
Tuesday, July 24, 2012
Monday, July 23, 2012
Sunday, July 22, 2012
Thursday, July 19, 2012
Assuming project timing
It’s really difficult to fix a project time. You have to
think your work ability, risk management, QA and finally your experience will
help you to assume a project completion time. I have seen when we ask to the
developers how much time you will take to complete it, they reply 1 day, which
is the best they can do…. So easily I understood that actually they are going
to take 2 and a half time. But clients don’t want to listen that they are
always in hurry. So we had to plan that this work will take 1 and half day.
Finally what happen, developer couldn’t finish it within a
day, and they took another extra hour on that night and half of next day to
complete the task. So, we don’t have time to check properly but had to submit
it to the client. Client found some bugs, so return it and developer and QA
took another day to make it perfect. And the project took totally 2 and half
day but the client paid only for 1 and half day as they planned.
So, you have to keep in mind all of these factor before
planning for project timing.
Tuesday, July 17, 2012
Khoka ghumalo, para juralo
Shafeen was 2 months and 23 days old. |
When my son awakens, I couldn't do anything but looking after
him. I had got some time to eat, bath or do other thing when he fall in sleep. On
that moment the only poem comes in my mind is “khoka ghumao, para juralo”, if I translate it, I
can say “baby fall in sleep and area got relived”.
The problems in dieting, when you are over weighted
Shafeen selecting menu at Dhakaiya at Bashundhara shopping complex |
If you became over weighted, then you will start dieting. I
thing the best dieting is to stop taking high calories food, like rice, rooti,
polao, bread etc. You will see within few days you have looses 1 to 3 kg. If you want
to continue this dieting then you have to mind up that no matter how hard it is,
I will follow it; because you will feel week, no strength to work, vomiting, headache
or many other problems. But you have overcome all if you really want to keep
fit.
Monday, July 16, 2012
We had to go to a doctor regularly
Faisal, Shafeen (in Faisal's lap) and Tameem |
When Shafeen was infant we had to go to a doctor
regularly for his vaccine and other problems. This picture was taken when
Shafeen was 2 months and 2 days old. Tameem (my elder sister’s son) was also
with us.
Sunday, July 15, 2012
Acting from general people, general life
Only cinema or TV actors don’t do acting, but general people
also do. Like, in front of your boss you show that you really honor him,
respect him…but with other person you always say that your boss know nothing.
In front of your wife, you show that you love her a lot… but in front of other
beautiful women you say you don’t love your wife at all. In front of your son
you show you care for your daughter in law and her kid a lot. But unless your
son came from office, you show hate to them in every single way.
I think, general people know, how to perform, more that an
actor, to achieve their goal.
Tuesday, July 10, 2012
Why should I trust PTC site
Shafeen at his father's office, he was 3 years, 1 month and 28days old. |
PTC site means those websites or company, who gives money
only to view their given websites. I have started with 21 PTC sites. Then day
by day I had to stop them or sometimes they stopped me when my money was going
to mature. Now I am clicking only 5. Hopping they will give me money, if not
then I have to stop them too. I found 2 websites who gave me money, then one disappear
and another asking to invest money to their company. I don’t trust them
anymore.
Saturday, July 7, 2012
When you wanted something from others
What do you do, when you want something from others? Do you
try to hit and grab it? Do you make the environment impossible for them, that
they forced to give you the thing? If these don’t work then beg? Finally request?
I believe first you should discuss with them about the
matter or situation. Then ask or request or beg to have the thing. If they
deny, then come back and wait to change their mind. Or if you can’t wait then
hit (if only you have right to have the thing) but you must know, hitting
people isn’t a good solution. In the long run, it will bring bad effect in your
life. You better wait.
Friday, July 6, 2012
Shafeen’s mini bed
Shafeen sleeping inside the bed |
My mother gave a mini, hanging bed with wheels to Shafeen (my
3 and half years old son) after his born. On those days he use to sleep with
me, so didn’t use the bed much. But now he grown up and can’t sleep in that
small bed. But now he likes the bed very much. Several times he told me to give
him the bed as I stored it in different place. I told him, I will clean up the
bed first (someday) then will give to you.
Thursday, July 5, 2012
Wednesday, July 4, 2012
Monday, July 2, 2012
Eid is coming
Shefeen took cloths for his mom |
All Muslims, especially children always wait for the Eid,
the big occasion in their life. But mostly business men wait for this occasion,
in Bangladesh. In other part of the world, for Eid all prices goes down,
business men give their product in fewer prices. Not in Muslim world, in other
occasion of other religious people, like Christmas, Chinese New Year etc, all
gives discounts and free products. But Bangladeshi businessmen didn’t believe
in fewer prices, they only know, how it increase on every matter. If new budget
are coming, increase the price, if flood came, increase the price, especially
if Eid comes then do all year profit in one month.
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