Monday, January 27, 2014

Why we think like that?

In our country there are two kind of marriage, one is settled marriage and another one is love marriage. Settled marriage means, where guardians select bride or groom for a person and the marriage happen. As far as I have seen, most of the people likes, or respect settled marriage. Well you won’t found it by surveying on blog. Because most of the Bangladeshi don’t know what blog is. When any couple made a love marriage (where couples choose each other), people will congratulate them, but behind them they will say what actually they feels, and off course they are not good comments. Though, everyone wants to marry a person who they like.

When a husband hurt a wife, everybody will dislike it but won't react, because they think its natural or common thing. If a woman tries to hit back, nobody will like that and will make an issue. But no body wants to be beaten.

Everybody wants their husband, help them in their work. But if she saw, any other husband helping their wife, she will say, it’s not good and many more things. And rest of the society will agree with her.

Every woman will like to take enough rest and do all work in her own way. But she will never let other woman (bride of her son) to do her work in her own choice. People think that is bad and our society will never agree with the bride.

Why our thoughts are like that? Why can’t we be fair will all human?

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