Friday, January 20, 2023

When they feel bore


 Now a day, it is tough to make my son agree that he was wrong. He thinks he knows better than his mom. He knows how to argue and try to win.

But I know I have to keep trying.

I told him that he never got bored when you were a kid. No matter where I took you, you could spend your time in your own way, like looking for something interesting, finding something to play with, etc.

But now a day, your only time spending way is on screen. So, if I take you anywhere, you don't see anything; you just feel bored and wait when will you get the screen (Cell phone, Tab, or laptop) again.

He was taking breakfast, which was not a good time to talk with him. But he made me surprised and kind of node his head to agree. I told him to try to bring back that capability again. 

2 comments:

Melissa Baker said...

Hey Shahana,

How old is your son. My kids are the same at times and they are 13 and 17. But I aim to make our time away from home interactive - rollerskating, bowling, fishing, walking the dog etc so they have distractions. If he is younger try a scavenger hunt or things to find while out for the day. To make this even more fun ask him to photo the things he finds.

Just some ideas. Your a great Mum, never doubt that xx

Mel

Shahana Shafiuddin said...

Hello Melissa, nice to hear from you with some great ideas. I will work on those. My son is 14 years old.