Let's concentrate on myself

 By default, I always put others before me. I have been trying to change this attitude. Didn't succeed 100%. My son told me I was speaking too much to him. He needs a break.

I understand. It may be time for me to focus on myself more than others. Let's get involved with myself more. Let's irritate myself and let others be happy.

I am tired of helping others. When they didn't ask for it.

Though I just can't see my son doing harm to himself. So, occasionally, ask what he should do now, like a reminder. Not pushing to do anything. Not explaining or sharing my thought or anything as I usually used to do.

I hope he started getting his own time without me, more.