Saturday, July 20, 2024

Biography 217: Argument with the company owner.

 Once, our office increased working hours. They said they needed us to work more because the company was in trouble. But still, I couldn't find out how increasing our working hours would increase company money. Instead, this would raise utility bills. Workers would be tired and unhappy and would have a bad impression of the company.

I was single, living with my parents. I was willing to learn more and do better in my career, so this was not a problem for me at all. But there were other girls in our office; they were facing trouble. Some were married, so their families expected them to return home and take care of them after work. One of the girls was pregnant. She definitely didn't want to work more and put more stress on her body.

Anyway, I heard that they wanted to request that the office management change this decision. Shampa came to me and asked me to join the girls as a girl. I thought we should stay united, so I said OK.

Our company owner came to the office in the evening, and the girls decided to talk to him. We all walk together. Near the door, I don't know how I was standing at the front. Anyway, I entered the room, and with me, all entered. The company owner looked at us.

Nobody was saying anything, so to avoid the awkward moment, I started talking. Without any preparation, without knowing what problems were going on with the girls because I had never had any meeting with them, I kept requesting to change the time. When our arguments were going on, sometimes Shampa supported me, but no other girls said a single word.

We were talking inside a glass room. So, the boys were watching us from outside. I kept pushing the argument until the company owner said, OK, I will have a look at this problem.

When we left the room, the boys became angry with the other girls. They said, why you guys didn't say anything, why only Shahana keep talking. Shampa said, I said some! Sharmy said, I knew nothing would change, so I didn't say anything.

I couldn't achieve anything from this initiative, as the company didn't change its timing. All the girls were punctual, and no one showed any trouble with the extra time.

Later, our Project Manager, Mr. Rana, told me you should prepare before discussing such a topic. You could bring up the pregnant women issue and other feminine issues where the company had nothing to say.

Yes, one thing I achieved from that argument was that the project manager started respecting me. If anyone complained about me, he always took my side and trusted me.

Friday, July 19, 2024

Song: Someone You Loved

 From Lewis Capaldi 

His website: https://www.lewiscapaldi.com/



Lyrics:

I’m going under and this time I fear there’s no one to save me

This all or nothing really got a way of driving me crazy


I need somebody to heal

somebody to know

somebody to have

somebody to hold

It’s easy to say

but it’s never the same

I guess I kinda liked the way you numbed all the pain


Now the day bleeds, into nightfall

and you’re not here, to get me through it all

I let my guard down and then you pulled the rug

I was getting kinda used to being someone you loved


I’m going under and this time I fear there’s no one to turn to

This all or nothing way of loving got me sleeping without you

Now I need somebody to know 

somebody to heal 

somebody to have 

just to know how it feels

It’s easy to say

but it’s never the same

I guess I kinda liked the way you helped me escape


Now the day bleeds, into nightfall 

and you’re not here, to get me through it all

I let my guard down and then you pulled the rug

I was getting kinda used to being someone you loved


And I tend to close my eyes when it hurts sometimes

I fall into your arms 

I'll be safe in your sound til I come back around


For now the day bleeds, into nightfall 

and you’re not here, to get me through it all

I let my guard down and then you pulled the rug

I was getting kinda used to being someone you loved


But now the day bleeds, into nightfall 

and you’re not here, to get me through it all

I let my guard down and then you pulled the rug

I was getting kinda used to being someone you loved


I let my guard down and then you pulled the rug

I was getting kinda used to being someone you loved


Thursday, July 18, 2024

Racial, Ethnic, and Minority Groups

Little, W. (2016). Introduction to Sociology

Racial, Ethnic, and Minority Groups: Canada has different cultures. Here, Visible Minority means those who are not Indigenous or Non-white. Nowadays, every five people in Canada has one visible minor. Mostly, they came from three different groups. They are South Asian, Black, and Chinese. However, in 1921, most of the people were White. The Visible Minority lives in Two different cities: Vancouver and Toronto. By 2031, 32% of the total population is projected to be a visible minority. These visible Minority groups came because of Canadian Immigration policy.

The concept of race changed with time. Previously, theorists divided people into different races based on geographical location, skin colour, etc. Nowadays, Race means when a group of people is racialized by a social process.

 Ethnicity means when a group of people share their culture.

Stereotypes, Prejudice, and Discrimination

                Stereotypes mean oversimplified ideas about a group of people.

                Prejudice refers to beliefs or thoughts which are held by a group.

                Discrimination: When prejudice refers to biased thoughts in a group, that is called discrimination. Examples include white Privilege and institutional racism.

                Income Inequality among Racialized Canadians: If we check the income statistics, we will find that Institutional Racism creates income inequality among the Visible Minority or Racialized Canadians.

Theories of Race and Ethnicity: Issues of Race and Ethnicity can be observed by three theories: functionalism, conflict theory, and symbolic interactionism. Functionalism: Racial and Ethnic discrimination can be observed by Functionalism, which only works with the Elite group of society, like slaveholders, who benefit from slaves.

Intergroup Relations and the Management of Diversity: Intergroup Relations refer to relations between small groups, and Management of Diversity refers to who manages all the groups in a society.

Race and Ethnicity in Canada: When Europeans discovered Canada, they thought this a land of opportunity for them. However, it was already occupied by the Indigenous people. Then came South Asian, and South American people. A lot of Africans went as a slave. The land became the settler’s attraction. Here the only non-immigrated Ethnic group is the Indigenous group. Once, they were the largest group of the population; however, now they are only 4.3% of the total population of Canada. There are different theories about how or when they came to this land—mostly believed that they came from Asia in search of hunting resources. Then they settled, and gradually, they had different groups with different thoughts, languages, and cultures. The relationship between Indigenous people and Europeans has developed in 4 stages.

Reference:

Little, W. (2016). Introduction to Sociology: 2nd Canadian Edition.

Retrieved from https://opentextbc.ca/introductiontosociology2ndedition/licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 International License.

Wednesday, July 17, 2024

Hindi song: Zindagi Mein Koi Kabhi

I like its melody and the singer. 

Film: Musafir

Singer: Richa Sharma

Lyrics: Dev Kohli and Kumaar

Music Director: Shekhar Ravijiani and Vishal Dadlani

Artist - Anil Kapoor, Sameera Reddy


Lyrics (with English translation):

Zindagi mein koyi kabhi aaye na rabba
Aaye jo koyi toh phir jaaye na rabba
Dene ho gar mujhe baad mein aansoon
Toh pehele koyi hasaaye na rabba

No one should ever come in life, O God..
and if one comes, should never go from life, O God..
if someone has to give tears later in life,
then one shouldn't make you laugh before that, O God..

Jaate jaate koyi meri khushiyon ko le gaya
Sooni sooni akhiyon ko gham, koyi de gaya
Aas jo lagaayi hai, aankh bhar aayi hai
Itna bhi koyi, sataaye na rabba

While going, someone took my happiness,
someone gave sadness to lonely eyes,
Since I have expected, my eyes are brimming,
No one should trouble you that much, O God..

Zindagi mein koyi kabhi aaye na rabba
Aaye jo koyi toh phir jaaye na rabba
Dene ho gar mujhe baad mein aansoon
Toh pehele koyi hasaaye na rabba

Dil lene waale pe zor nahin chalta
Pyaar ka ye sikka, kahin aur nahin chalta
Yaad teri aayi hai, tu harjaai hai
Itna bhi koyi tadpaaye na rabba

No pressure works on the one who takes heart,
This currency of love doesn't work anywhere else..
I am remembering you, you are heart-breaker,
no one should be made to go through such agony..

Zindagi mein koyi kabhi aaye na rabba
Aaye jo koyi toh phir jaaye na rabba
Dene ho gar mujhe baad mein aansoon
Toh pehle koyi hasaaye na rabba

[Source: https://www.bollymeaning.com/2012/05/zindagi-mein-koi-kabhi-aaye-na-rabba.html]

Tuesday, July 16, 2024

Biography 216: My mother bought that ring

 My mother likes rings among all ornaments. I like rings, too, because they are less expensive, easy to carry, and easy to wear and take off.

On my birthday, Mom brought a ring. It was a little big, golden-coloured ring that looked like a gold ring. After my birthday, I wore it to the office. Shampa first noticed my ring, and she assumed I had gotten engaged. I didn't say anything; I just smiled. She couldn't keep her happiness inside herself, so she spread it to the whole office.

Many colleagues came to say congratulations. First I didn't get chance to explain, later I thought let them think like that. I am not getting married anyway. So, what's the difference. I can tell them after a couple of days. Let's just enjoy the fun right now.

Some male colleagues met with me personally and congratulated me. I felt maybe they had more feelings than a colleague to me. That made me think perhaps I shouldn't tell anyone about their misunderstanding. Let's better let them believe that I am engaged. This will be easy for me to handle the situation.

One day, Shampa had a doubt about my reaction. Because I was not telling anything about my fiance, I only brought my ring. I confirmed with her later that she was right.

Monday, July 15, 2024

Best way to communicate with anyone.

 I read somewhere that the best way to communicate with someone is by talking, not sending a message or any other way. I guess it is the best way.

But generally, I don't talk much. I always felt people must be busy with their work or having a good time with their family. So, I always send messages. So that whenever they are free, they can reply. And if they don't want to communicate with them, can ignore. I will understand and never send them any messages again.

Now, if I suddenly start calling them, they might feel something has happened, so what should I do?

Sunday, July 14, 2024

Hindi Song: Swag se Swagat

 Song: Swag Se Swagat

Singers: Vishal Dadlani, Neha Bhasin

Music: Vishal and Shekhar

Lyrics: Irshad Kamil

Tiger Theme: Julius Packiam

Choreography: Vaibhavi Merchant


Lyrics with English translation:

ishq se uncha kuchh ni kuchh ni kuch

ishq se baRhkar kuchh ni kuchh ni kuch

ishq se achchha kuchh ni kuchh ni kuch

ishq bina hum kuch nai...


there is nothing higher than love,

there is nothing bigger than love,

there is nothing better than love,

we are nothing without love.


chaahe jo aaye

leke dil mein ishq mohabaat

sabko gale lagaana

apne culture ki hai aadat

swag se karenge sabka swaagat!


whoever comes with love in their hearts,

it's a habit in our culture to embrace everyone.

we'll welcome everyone with a swag.


mil ke chalta chal

masle karke hal

behtar hoga kal

ye sabse kehte rehna


keep meeting everyone as you go,

resolve people's problems.

tomorrow will be better,

keep telling everyone.


rehna banke dil

dil hi hai manzil

manzil pe tu mil

sab sabka hai kehna kehna


become love, and live.

the heart/love is the destination.

meet me at the destination,

this is what everyone says.


chaahe jo aaye

leke dil mein ishq mohabaat

sabko gale lagaana

apne culture ki hai aadat

swag se karenge sabka swaagat!


y’all ready to bring the riff back?


swag se karenge sabka swagat!


hey.. ishq se pyara kuchh ni kuchh ni kuch

ishq se umdaa kuchh ni kuchh ni kuch

ishq se aasaan kuchh ni kuchh ni kuch

ishq bina hum kuch nai...


there is nothing lovelier than love,

there is nothing better than love,

there is nothing simpler than love,

we are nothing without love.


ishq se meeTha kuchh ni kuchh ni kuch

ishq se gehra kuchh ni kuchh ni kuch

ishq se taaza kuchh ni kuchh ni kuch

ishq bina hum kuch nai...


there is nothing sweeter than love,

there is nothing deeper than love,

there is nothing fresher than love,

we are nothing without love.


insaan hai insaan jag mein

jab tak ishq salaamat

sabko gale lagaana

apne culture ki hai aadat

swag se karenge sabka swaagat


human is a human,

as long as there is love in the world.

it's a habit in our culture to embrace everyone.

we'll welcome everyone with a swag.

Saturday, July 13, 2024

"Inequality Based on Sexual Orientation"

 Kendall. Diana. Vicki L. Nygaard & Edward G. Thompson. Inequality Based on Sexual   

Orientation

 

“Inequality Based on Sexual Orientation”

When we discuss about the sexual orientation, we need to look on many diverse issues.

Nature and Extent of inequality based on sexual Orientation

In 2001 Canada Census first asked to couple about their sexual relation and 34,000 couples informed they are in same sex. Female couples have children 5 times more than make couples. Compulsory Heterosexism is a system where it doesn’t believe any other relationship other than Heterosexual and deny all feelings like gay, lesbian, bisexual, etc.

Ideological bases of inequality based on sexual orientation.

The mainstream writer who might have differences on Jews, Muslims etc., but they accepted the Gay and Lesbian concepts. Religion and sexual orientation: Major reason of discrimination of different sexual groups are because most of the people thinks it morally not appropriate. These beliefs many times come from the religion belief. Law and sexual orientation: In Canada federal and provincial legislation has created many laws to give rights to same sex relations.

Discrimination based on sexual orientation

It’s true, with times more and more people are accepting gay, lesbian, or other sexual people, but still some people are facing hate in different communities. Victimization and hate crimes: The hate crime sometimes goes too far that people beaten up another person and killed only because that person was a gay.

Perspectives on sexual orientation and social inequality

Sexual orientation inequalities can be understood by different perspectives: Interactionist perspectives: focus on in which criteria makes a person declare that the person is a gay, lesbian, etc. Functionalist and conflict perspectives: From this perspective society punish the gay or lesbian because they went against the social norms. Feminist and queer perspectives: the feminist perspective has changed in many ways in last four decades. Queer theory is a post-modern thought. It believes lesbian and gay has different perspective in the critics.

How can inequalities based on sexual orientation be reduced: We should remove social and legal barriers. What can you do? Attend pride day, no matter from which sexual group you came from.

Reference:

Kendall. Diana. Vicki L. Nygaard & Edward G. Thompson. Inequality Based on Sexual    

Orientation. In Social Problems in a Diverse Society. Pearson Education Canada.

Friday, July 12, 2024

Modern Talking - Brother Louie (Video)

 Modern Talking - Brother Louie (Video)


Lyrics

Dear, love is a burnin' fire
Stay, 'cause then the flame grows higher
Babe, don't let him steal your heart

It's easy, easy
Girl, this game can't last forever
Why? We cannot live together
Try! Don't let him take your love from me

You're no good, can't you see?
Brother Louie, Louie, Louie
I'm in love, set her free
Oh, she's only lookin' to me

Only love breaks her heart
Brother Louie, Louie, Louie
Only love's paradise
Oh, she's only lookin' to me

Brother Louie, Louie, Louie
Oh, she's only lookin' to me
Oh, let it, Louie
She's undercover

Brother Louie, Louie, Louie
Oh, doin' what he's doin'
So leave it, Louie
'Cause I'm her lover

Stay 'cause this boy wants to gamble
Stay, love's more than he can handle, girl
Oh, come on stay by me
Forever, ever

Why does he go on pretendin' that
His love is never-ending fate
Don't let him steal your love from me

You're no good, can't you see?
Brother Louie, Louie, Louie
I'm in love, set her free
Oh, she's only lookin' to me

Only love breaks her heart
Brother Louie, Louie, Louie
Only love's paradise
Oh, she's only lookin' to me

Brother Louie, Louie, Louie
Oh, she's only lookin' to me
Oh, let it, Louie
She's undercover

Brother Louie, Louie, Louie
Oh, doin' what he's doin'
So leave it, Louie
'Cause I'm her lover

Brother Louie, Louie, Louie
Oh, she's only lookin' to me
Oh, let it, Louie
She's undercover

Brother Louie, Louie, Louie
Oh, doin' what he's doin'
So leave it, Louie
'Cause I'm her lover

Brother Louie, Louie
Oh, she's only lookin' to me
Oh, let it, Louie
She's undercover


[Source: https://www.letras.com/modern-talking/26509/]

Thursday, July 11, 2024

Biography 215: Ajoy


 When I was taking Web Development training, we were divided into two groups. One group, including me, was on the morning shift, and another group was on the day shift. Ajoy was on the day shift. All the girls were on the morning shift, with some boys. Day shifts were covered with only boys.

When you train in different groups, there is always some distance. I could feel that the day shift boys didn't like me, and they didn't like the entire morning shift. We don't bother about what they are doing or how they feel.

After the training, both groups mixed up and became small groups, and all started working in the office. At that time, I was in the Java Group, and Ajoy was in the R&D (Research and Development) group. This group believed they were the best, so they were in that group.

There is nothing wrong with feeling great; it's wrong to feel others are small. Again, I never said anything about it or argued about it.

When I joined the training, I didn't have a computer. While training, I asked my dad to buy me a computer, and he bought me a desktop computer. In those days, laptops were too expensive. I bought my first laptop after joining college in Canada.

My colleague Shampa wrote all the configurations that I might need. Her younger brother helped her. Another colleague Romel was with me and my dad. Because I had no idea about computer hardware, after bringing all the pieces (CPU, Monitor, Sound boxes, Keyboard, Mouse, and printer + scanner), I didn't know how to put them together.

I asked my colleague Arif if he could come to my house and assemble everything? He hesitated; maybe he was busy. He told me to ask another person. I said, whom should I ask. (By nature, it is very difficult for me to ask for help. If somehow I get rejected, it becomes more difficult for me to go somewhere else) Arif then calls "Ajay." Ajoy came. Arif asked if Ajoy could help me with computers at home. Without a second thought, he said, Yes, I can.

That was a great relief for me. He came to our house and fixed everything. We became more friendly. But he was on the day shift, so we didn't talk much.

One day, Bappi was checking out some Photoshop effects. The pictures were not very conservative, so he asked me to give him a picture of mine. He would put those effects on it. I gave it. Then Bappy showed me how those effects worked. Then I thought he had deleted my picture; who wouldn't?

After some time, one day, Ajoy said, I took a copy of Adobe from the office, and when I ran, I found your picture with effects. I knew what happened. I told Ajoy you must have taken it from Bappy's computer; he did that practice on effects.

Another day, Tuheen and I went out together. I was feeling very low. I told Tuheen, can you do something that may make me feel good. Tuheen took me to Ajoy's place. He was living with some other boys. The house looks like a boy's hostel. The boys became very busy to treat two girls. They made "Alur chop (Potato cake)." Told us about the girls who live nearby buildings. We talk about our careers and so many things. It was a great moment.

In that house, I met with Ajoy's friend, who owned an IT company. Later, he helped me with some documentation.

After marrying, Ajoy invited us to his apartment. I met his wife. She is a very beautiful and intelligent woman. Ajoy had shown her pictures before. When we met, I learned that her cooking skills were very good, and she treated me like her friend.

While training, we all (more or less) contributed to developing a portal. Later, Ajoy and his friend redeveloped it. Ajoy told me that if needed, I could mention in my resume that I was one of the developers, too. I did say it once. Later, I found out that Ajoy hadn't informed his friends about it, and his friends didn't like that.

Nowadays, Ajoy lives in the USA with his family.

Wednesday, July 10, 2024

The Pussycat Dolls - Don't Cha

 The Pussycat Dolls - Don't Cha Wish Your Girlfriend...

ft. Busta Rhymes

Interesting song, isn't it.



Lyrics Don't Cha:

OK

Yeah

Oh, we about to get it just a lil hot and sweaty in this mu'fucka (oh, baby)

Ladies let's go

Soldiers let's go (Dolls)

Let me talk to y'all and just you know give you a little situation

Listen (fellas)

You see this shit get hot

Every time I come through

When I step up in the spot (are you ready?)

Make the place sizzle like a summertime cookout

Prowl for the best chick, yes I'm on the lookout (let's dance)

Slow banging shorty like a belly dancer with it

Smell good, pretty skin, so gangsta with it (oh, baby)

No tricks only diamonds under my sleeve

Gimme the number, but make sure you call before you leave


I know you like me (I know you like me)

I know you do (I know you do)

That's why whenever I come around

She's all over you

And I know you want it (I know you want it)

It's easy to see (it's easy to see)

And in the back of your mind I know

You should be on with me


Don't cha wish your girlfriend was hot like me?

Don't cha wish your girlfriend was a freak like me?

Don't cha?

Don't cha?

Don't cha wish your girlfriend was raw like me?

Don't cha wish your girlfriend was fun like me?

Don't cha?

Don't cha?


Fight the feeling (fight the feeling)

Leave it alone (leave it alone)

'Cause if it ain't love

It just ain't enough to leave my happy home

Let's keep it friendly (let's keep it friendly)

You have to play fair (you have to play fair)

See I don't care

But I know she ain't gonna wanna share


Don't cha wish your girlfriend was hot like me?

Don't cha wish your girlfriend was a freak like me? (like me)

Don't cha?

Don't cha baby? Don't cha

Alright, sing

Don't cha wish your girlfriend was raw like me? (Raw)

Don't cha wish your girlfriend was fun like me? (Big fun)

Don't cha?


Ok, I see how it's goin' down (ahh, don't cha)

Seems like shorty wanna little menage pop off or something (let's go)

Well let me get straight to it

Every broad wan watch a nigga when I come through it

It's the god almighty, looking all brand new

If shorty wanna jump in my ass then vanquish

Looking at me all like she really wanna do it

Tryna put it on me till my balls black an blueish

Ya wanna play wit ah playa girl then play on

Strip out the Chanel and leave the lingerie on

Watch me and I'mma watch you at the same time

Looking at ya wan break my back

You're the very reason why I keep a pack ah the Magnum

An wit the wagon hit chu in the back of tha magnum

For the record, don't think it was something you did

Shorty all on me 'cause it's hard to resist the kid

I got a idea that's dope for y'all

As y'all could get so I could hit the both of y'all

See I know she loves you (I know she loves you)

I understand (I understand)

I'd probably be just as crazy about you

If you were my own man

Maybe next lifetime (maybe next lifetime)

Possibly (possibly)

Until then old friend your secret is safe with me


Don't cha wish your girlfriend was hot like me?

Don't cha wish your girlfriend was a freak like me? (Like me)

Don't cha?

Don't cha baby? Don't cha

Alright, sing

Don't cha wish your girlfriend was raw like me? (Raw)

Don't cha wish your girlfriend was fun like me? (Big fun)

Don't cha?

Don't cha?

Tuesday, July 9, 2024

Questions and Answers on Virus

 Questions and Answers on Virus

 

a.         Do you agree with the proposition that where nature creates viruses, humanity and systems of inequity and inequality are responsible for pandemics?  Why or why not?

 

I agree with the proposition that where nature creates viruses, humanity and systems of inequity and inequality are responsible for pandemics.

 

Humans have been fighting natural disasters or viruses since old age. We know how to manage or have some idea of how we can minimize the health issues/problems with viruses. But because of system inequity and inequality, we don't make the right and firm decision to fix or minimize the virus issues.

 

When the first COVID-19 virus started spreading, the world could have stopped visiting China in person. This way, the virus would have been kept in one place. China used this method in its own country and could stop the massive spreading. However, other countries didn't want to lose any business (or money) with China, so their human movements (for business purposes) continued, and the virus spread worldwide. We know people from all over the world do business with China.

 

Many countries developed the vaccine, including Canada and Bangladesh. However, the world leaders only accepted three companies' vaccines, which were sold worldwide at a high price.

 

The rich countries spent a lot of money and bought more vaccines than they needed. Now, there are no more for the developing countries, or they cannot afford to buy vaccines.

 

It seems rich countries thought we would be safe if we could prevent the virus. But nowadays, people travel everywhere, some for business, some for families, or just for recreation. So, the virus also moves from developing countries to rich countries.

 

The reality is you are not safe unless the world is safe.

 

b.         Reflect on at least one of the stakeholders from the in-class debate (Corporations, Precarious Workers, Governments, Social Media, and Vulnerable Communities) and discuss their role in the current COVID-19 pandemic.

 

Social Media:

 

Many people blame social media for disinformation about COVID-19-related news, which is true. At the same time, we should also agree that it has positive sides.

All information related to COVID-19 mostly went to the public through Social Media. All suggestions, protests, and other activities were also generated and executed and became news by Social Media. Social media helped people stay close and entertained when they were locked down. Some people learned and then became famous by making videos.

 

Like Tagore, we must understand that if you want the wind in your room, you must let the dust come inside, too.

 

 c. Many scientists predict that there will be more pandemics to come. Reflecting on patterns of inequality and preparedness and our experience of the current pandemic, develop a 3-point plan (you could add more points if you wish) to better prepare us against this type of disaster in the future.

 

            Three points:

1.    If any pandemic starts, through the World Health Organisation, we must take all necessary steps to recover. Not wait until it attacks our own country. The whole world should help and work together at every step. And also should research how to prevent this forever.

2.    Every country should invest in their health system to have enough resources to give service to every citizen. No one should discriminate against others for their poverty or race.

3.    No business or money-making policy should take place to make vaccines or medicine. This issue should be managed universally, and all must have access to them.

Sunday, July 7, 2024

Biography 214: Tuheen

 I have a classmate at the University named Tuheen. I have always seen him with Jamal (another classmate). One day, I heard Tuheen can cook. In Bangladesh, it's rare. Boys generally don't know how to cook. We were not close, but I knew he was a good man. Today, I didn't come here to talk about him. 

At work, I met a girl named Tuheen, Khaleda Sultana Tuheen. She is small in size, she has beautiful big eyes, and her skin colour is very beautiful, yellowish. No, I didn't notice the skin colour at the beginning. A boy (Maybe Reja) once asked me to look at her skin colour. I saw it, it is really very beautiful. Then I told him, you are married, what are you looking at other girls. He felt embarrassed and said, no, no, I just wanted to show you, that's it. Now I am thinking, why did he show me? I should have asked that question at that very moment.

But I started liking her for another reason. When I first noticed her, she was talking with our trainer. She was such a fearless, jolly lady. She laughed and enjoyed music while working. She was in her own world. She didn't bother about others' thoughts. Later, we became close when we started eating lunch together in our common restaurant.

We started talking and sharing about many things. She was there whenever I needed anything to do. She kept me company in many things. We used to take lunch or snacks outside. Once, I made a travel plan with her and visited Rangamati. It was a great tour. We also joined a boat tour organized by my younger sister's college.

As we were close, we shared many personal, sensitive things. I was OK with everything. But she felt a little uneasy when sharing family problems with me. It's nothing new; almost all families face this kind of problem. But she started making some distance. At least, I think that is the reason.

Later, she asked me to arrange another tour with her to a new place. But I became busy with work and other problems and somehow couldn't plan a tour. Now I am thinking, why didn't she plan one? Why always do I have to take all the initiative?

She is now a successful entrepreneur in Bangladesh. She has worked with environmentally friendly goods and has sold them. I don't know if she had the option to sell those products abroad. I wish she had.

I have met three wonderful ladies in my life. They are beautiful in mind, body, and work. I really feel bad when others, especially boys, don't see those beautiful qualities in them. "Tuheen"is one of those ladies. I have never said her, but I genuinely believe she is one of the most wonderful people on this earth. Love you, my friend.

Saturday, July 6, 2024

Hindi Song: Samne Ye Kaun Aya

 Singer: Kishore Kumar

Music: R.D Burman

Lyricist: Anand Bakshi

Movie : Jawani Diwani (1972)

Performers: Starring: Randhir Kapoor, Jaya Bahaduri.


Lyrics:

Samne yeh kaun aaya dil me hui hulchul (Who came infront of me? made my Heart palpitations)

Dekhke (By looking)

Bas ek hi jhalak (a glace)

Ho gaye hum pagal (Became mad)

Samne yeh kaun aaaya dil me hui hulchul

Dekh kee bas

Ek hi jhalak ho gaye hum pagal

Arey baatein mulakatein (Chatting, meeting)

humse bhi toh hongi (will be with me too)

Arey humse khulenge woh aaj nahi toh kal (Today or tomorrow, she will open up with me)


Samne yeh kaun aaya dil me hui hulchul

Dekh ke

Bas ek hi jhalak

Ho gaye hum pagal


Rehna hain yaha toh (If wanted to live here)

Dono hain jawan toh (Both are young)

Bhala dur kaise rahengeee (How can we stay apart)


Maana woh hasin hai (I agree, she is beautiful)

To hum bhi kam nahi hain (That doesn't mean I am less than that)

Woh magrur kaise rahenge


Rehna hain yaha toh

Dono hain jawan toh

Bhala dur kaise rahengee


Maana woh hasin hai

To ham bhi kam nahi hain

Woh magrur kaise rahenge


Lalala

Lalalala

Lalalala la la lala


Samne yeh kaun aaya dil me hui hulchul

Dekh ke bas ek hi jalak

Ho gaye ham pagal


Aankhon hi aankhon mein (In eyes only)

Baaton hi baaton mein (talking)

Kabhi jaan pehchan hogiiii (someday will be introduced)


Sun lo yeh kahani (Listen this story)

Hasina ek anjani (An unknown lady)

Kissi din meharban hogiii (Someday will give some mercy)


Aankhon hi aankhon mein

Baato hi baato mein

Kabhi jaan pehchan hogiii


Sun lo yeh kahani

Hasina ek anjani

Kisi din meharban hogii


Ju ju ju

Ju ju ju ju

Ju ju ju ju Ju ju ju ju


Samne yeh kaun aaya dil me hui hulchul

Dekh ke bas ek hi jhalak

Ho gaye hum pagal

Arey batein mulakaatein

Humse bhi toh hogi

Arey humse khulenge woh aaj nahi toh kal

Samne yeh kaun aaya dil me hui hulchul

Dekh ke bas ek hi jhalak

(Both) Ho gaye hum pagal hoo ho


Friday, July 5, 2024

Science and invention news in the popular Canadian news media.

 If you ask anyone in Canada what you see when you open a news channel on the TV. They will say breaking news, which is mainly about violence, politics, and some fun news.

These are important topics to discuss. But before fun news, I believe, we should include science and invention news. We have many talented people all over our country. They are finding important new information and inventing new technology. We should include those in our main news channels.

This will encourage more people to concentrate on knowledge and invention. Using new technology will help grow new businesses and grow our country. Youth will be inspired to gain knowledge. Children will try to get involved in new inventions.

Thursday, July 4, 2024

The best way to cut a bell pepper (capsicums)

 I believe, this is the best way to cut bell peppers (capsicums). There won't be any waste, and you can give them any shape you want. I cut them into small pieces for the salad.



Wednesday, July 3, 2024

Sociology


 Sociology is a systematic method of observing, identifying, and measuring different social aspects of human behaviour to understand and find a better way to solve any social problem.


Sociological imagination:

All sociologists have different ways of explaining how we should define sociology and measure it, but they have one thing in common: sociological imagination. It means an individual's issues can also be taken as group issues—for example, hair fall.


Three additional ideas:

1. Micro, Macro, and global interaction:

Micro is individual behaviour like waking up in the morning simultaneously. Or a study group.

Macro means when a group does the same thing as a student’s study time.

Global reflects the same situation between different nations, like the Water source problem.


2. Behaviour figuration:

It is a process where individual activity combines with group behaviour, like a morning walk. A group of people do that. But if an individual doesn't do it, there won't be any morning walks. This process means that individuals and social activities are combined behaviours. 


3. Quantitative Sociology:

Quantitative Sociology means following a proven statistical measurement to identify any problem, like doing a survey.


Tuesday, July 2, 2024

Which Hindi Song Inspired by Which Song.

 

Get a box of popcorn or snacks and sit tight. Now watch this: Some songs are inspired by another country's song.


Monday, July 1, 2024

Biography 213: Lunch group

 One of our colleagues found a small restaurant, "Capital," just beside our office. It had good food and a good seating arrangement with AC, which is very important in Bangladesh because of its hot and humid weather. I found online that it has become a bigger restaurant.

Then, about 6/8 people started going there every day. It's good for us that we don't have to carry our food every day; this way, a small, good group develops. We had connections even when we started working in different offices. We used to help each other, visit each other, and get together and celebrate for any reason. The names that were more frequently joined us were Tuheen, Romel, Karim Ali, Moshiur, Ershad, Rajib and Tania. Others also joined but not regularly.

Later, for different reasons, distances were created between each person. But I must say we all have good souls. Now, we live on different continents. I wish them all the best.